" Dust settles " says: It's great to be a fool. If you do something wrong, you will feel relieved when you think about yourself as a fool.
This is really a great explanation for being confused. Smart people have the fate of smart people, and fools have the fate of fools.
Now I understand that all people’s worries come from wanting to control others. I want to control my husband, let him listen to me, be able to follow my own ideas, and want to control my children, and hope to follow my wishes.
When the husband doesn’t listen to him or the child doesn’t follow his wishes, the troubles come and the pain comes.
What is happiness? Happiness is like the sand tightly in your hands. When you are nervous, the tighter you hold, and the faster the sand flows.
Happiness cannot be grasped. Only with a relaxed and relaxed mentality can happiness be welcomed.
But it is easy to say but difficult to do. People have different fates and different partners they meet. As the saying goes: Men are afraid of entering the wrong career, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man.
What are the solutions for men to get into the wrong career? Only don't worry about changing jobs.
What is the way for a woman to marry the wrong man? Only if you don’t stick to it, change it.
Nine out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory. You can’t even control yourself, let alone others? Holding grudge is the most boring thing in life. In this world, the people you hate cannot be hurt, and only the people you love can hurt ourselves.
Think about it, are the people we suffer and worry about all the people we are closest to? Life is short, why bother? Why bother to be angry!
It is yourself who is angry, so you must learn to let go, let go of these emotions, let go of your hands, and let it feel the world easily.
People can easily get into the horns, like falling into a quagmire, struggling in pain, and those around them do not understand themselves and understand themselves, and sometimes they will be betrayed by the closest person.
so it was in great pain, but why bother to let others’ mistakes punish yourself?
We are all independent individuals. They do something wrong by themselves. Why are we the ones who are anxious to get angry? So let’s treat yourself as a fool, a fool who can do nothing.
