Have you ever been deceived by anyone, have you cheated on money? Have you cheated on feelings or something else?
Life, in the past and the present are always full of games. If there is game theory , it must be concealed. To put it bigger is deception.
No need to say that life is always deceived. When I was a child, it drew a beautiful cake for me, telling me that human nature is good. Later, everyone I met was "crazy" in spirit. After a while, I would like to be together 24 hours a day to be a conjoined person. When I was a child, I would like to be together 24 hours a day. The slander of intentions and unintentional rumors and slander destroyed my character, reputation, or took away my studies and even future...
When I was a child, I thought I would say out loud what you asked me: "What do you want to do when you grow up?" , I will definitely be able to work hard to get to that point. On the way to that destination, I realized that to truly get there, having questions and answers is not enough, and it may also require the right time, place and people? It also needs the enlightenment and help of "noble people", and the timely opportunities and extraordinary luck...
When I work harder, the closer I get, the more difficult it is, and even feel that this life and dreams can only be an infinitely close relationship. The more I am sure, yes, life deceived me.
However, even if life deceived us, how should we fight back? In fact, who is the one who suffered a loss? In this deceptive game with life, if you can win steadily, will you lose? Do you lose or you lose! Why bother? .
So I "took my head" to life , being deceived or trapped by anyone or anything, or in the final analysis, is my own problem. I began to pull out the corners of my head and the thorns in my heart to try to understand this truth. I cannot identify, avoid, and not be able to deal with the deception and problems I encounter. It should be my personal ability/intellectual problems, experience problems... In short, these problems are my own. Should I start from myself and trace the source to the fundamentals and see what is going on?
Life is constantly encountering and encountering, and many times after careful analysis, you can find that most of the people I encounter tear the surface and look at the core are similar, that is, we basically always encounter the same problem. They wear different styles of coats and appear in different occasions.
We are unlikely to let the world or environment walk around us, so , you can only control your own direction of travel, or detour, or run...
When you realize you are deceived, the best counterattack may be review and self-reflection. When you encounter it next time, you will not be afraid/retreat... but be able to make correct judgments in advance and handle it properly. Such self-treatment should be considered a kind of profit. If you are not lucky, you will not handle it every time you encounter it or every time you encounter it, and then it will continue to happen until once you can handle such things well, and this kind of thing will disappear in your own world as if it has never existed. In fact, it has not disappeared, but because even if it appears again, it will be handled calmly and safely, no longer become a trouble in life like before, but a small thing in life.
is like the old saying: Suffering losses is a blessing. But there is no need for us to eat it endlessly. We must have some understanding and all the insights when we accidentally eat it, and then fill our summary of it into our lives. Who can encounter a life of good luck and nothing details? It is impossible. Who would like to live a life of good luck and nothing details, and there should be no one. Such a life is not tranquility, but boring mediocrity. Just imagine it is like there is no joy of solving difficulties in life, and there is no joy of enlightenment when reading...
If life deceives you, try to digest it and compromise it...I think it would be great if this is possible.
