1. There is no word "easy" in the adult world. It is as ordinary as you and me. Everyone has their own unspeakable sadness. If life is destined to be full of hardships, learn to be the hero who saves yourself.
2. If you are lucky, you will meet someone who protects you and allows you to be a child with peace of mind. If you are not lucky, you will meet someone who makes you laugh and cry.
3. Sometimes, we must be more cruel to ourselves and cannot indulge our sadness. Sometimes, we should be more cruel to the people we love deeply and put our love, responsibility, and memories of them on hold. Because each of us is a unique individual, we have an obligation to shoulder the responsibility for our lives.
4. The smartest way to deal with the world is to roll your eyes at the world and join in with it. —— Akutagawa Ryunosuke
5. When we come to this world alone, we will eventually leave alone. Therefore, no one will accompany you to the end. Maybe someone will accompany you to the farthest, but at the end, we are still alone, so no one can’t live without anyone.
6. When urging vegetables, say "No" is more effective than "Roll on", say "Let's take a look" is more effective than "cheaper" when bargaining, say "Let's go" is more effective than "Don't do this" when keeping things - throw things that cannot be kept, and maybe you will bounce back if you hit something.
7. People cannot think from the perspective of others, because their thoughts, experiences, and senses are all different. Just like I said that the sea is beautiful, but you said that many people have drowned.
8. The world is so big, and the same rice raises hundreds of people. You cannot ask everyone’s three views to match you. The only way is to make yourself stronger and your psychological invincibility can protect you from being hurt by selfish and narrow-minded people.
9. The thing "self" cannot be seen. Only when you bump into something else and bounce back will you understand "self". When I was young, I would try my best to read good books, listen to lectures from famous teachers, go to different places, and work with strong people, in order to collide with this world to the greatest extent and take a look at the "self" that rebounded.
10. This is how life is. You think you have escaped from one vortex, but in fact another vortex is at your feet. He kicked hard and went in. Therefore, you don’t need to work too hard on life, your heart will take us to where we should go.
11. People should be separated a little, keep a cute distance, twist it too hard to form a breaking point, and the result can only be no longer connected.
12. In life, there are always some old things in the empty city, and the years are still coming; there are always some seasons, flowers are cold and the ground is full of sadness. Many things will turn around if you see them openly; many dreams will turn around if you see them openly; many dreams will turn clouds and sunrise if you see them openly. Learn to think, learn to treasure, understand with a smile, and be strong silently.
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13. Time is really the best span in the world. It makes the pain pale, and makes persistent people choose to leave. Then after experiencing the vicissitudes of life, you will understand that everything is fate, and there is no way to deal with others.
14. Life is like a pencil that keeps using. It starts very sharp, but it slowly becomes smooth. However, if it is too smooth, it is almost time to be cut again.
15. People always wake up and re-recognize their strength and tolerance after suffering a heavy blow. Therefore, no matter what hardships you are facing, don’t just complain about God’s unfairness, or even never recover from it. There is no hurdle in life that cannot be overcome, only people who cannot be overcome.
16. When you realize that it is you who decides your future, you can experience life more fully. When you don’t blame others for your shortcomings, failures or cowardice, you will lay the foundation for a successful life in the future.
17. Don’t complain about how difficult life makes things difficult, and don’t hate how bumpy life is. Only by enduring hardships can one become the best. After a long time, the bitterness will naturally end and the sweetness will come. Only by understanding life can you enjoy the heavyness given by life.
18. Don’t let the person who likes you cry for you so much. Because, you only have one chance to hurt him and her to that look. After that time, you have gone from an indispensable person to an optional person. Even though he and she still love you, there are always some things that have really changed.
19. The most mistake we have made is probably to get angry at the most innocent people around us when we are in a bad mood. A person needs two abilities in the world, speaking well and stabilizing his emotions.
20. There are too many things that you can’t stand in life. If you see clearly and understand them, you will be sad. A layer of mist on life is not self-deception, but self-protection. If you are too serious in everything, you will be hard and tired.
21. When you are full of confidence, what others see is the shining you; when you are depressed and lost, what others see is the you who are not worthy of entrusting; when you are high and upward, what others see is the you who are trustworthy; when you are sad and lonely, what others see is the pitiful and unattractive you; when you are full of hope, what others see is the bright and brilliant you. Your life comes from your choices.
