has read a sentence written by writer Wang Xiaobo : : "When people are young, they feel that there are people everywhere, and other people's affairs are yours. After middle age, they feel that there is nothing in the world except family."
At first glance, they think this is wrong. When people live, they have to socialize, spend money, work, gatherings, etc. How can you only have a family?
When I reached the age of knowing my destiny, I saw my parents who were sick and heard the news that a peer died of illness, and suddenly I realized that this was right.
People are alive, and health is more important than anything else. But health will eventually be lost one day, and we will truly see life clearly next.
There is only one "home" word, which has made a life and witnessed a lifetime.
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There is a fixed number of life and death, only home continues.
As the saying goes, "Life and death have fate, wealth and honor are in heaven."
No one knows, which day is the end of life. Perhaps an accident will disappear from familiar people.
People who are in pain cannot know the days of life and death, but they can understand that the distance between themselves and life and death is closer. Although you are very taboo to talk about life and death, you know it in your heart.
When my grandfather was terminally ill, he held his father's hand and said, "My brother has never been married. Please take care of him. Leave the house to him, so he won't wander around..."
After my grandfather passed away, my uncle got the house left by his grandfather and the orchard at the door. During the holidays, my father and several aunts will help my uncle.
Later, my uncle got married. Although he was looking for a second-married woman, the family was full of energy and children, and I saw hope.
An old man said to the young man: "The world belongs to you, and it is also ours, and in the end it is yours."
We cannot live for tens of millions of years. This is an indisputable fact, but our home will exist for tens of millions of years. Even after several generations, no one remembers our name, and cannot deny that we have existed, and no matter how many generations there are, they still have a little blood.
When we were young, we regarded our studies as hope, and when we grew up, we could only regard our family business as hope.
If you run your own family and achieve success, then everything will be successful - your studies have a material foundation and your career has a settlement.
All the external things in life, where you are in charge is the "family". Things that have passed through generations will become inheritance - and are also property of the present. It never ends, transcends the boundaries of life and death, and breaks time and space.
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Family and relatives will be together, but only the family will never leave you.
Get along with each other, this is a good attitude. After all, there are all banquets in the world, so how can relatives and friends hold you and drink for the rest of your life?
Usually, the situation of a crowded family will make you feel proud and live a lively life. When you are sick, relatives and friends will come to visit you. But you will definitely see clearly that the ones who protect you are family members - children, spouses, daughters-in-law, son-in-law, grandchildren.
If you are still young, the person who is most worried about you when you are sick is your parents.
I watched a short video saying that a father found his daughter had a fever at night and ran to the hospital without hesitation. When I arrived at the hospital, I found myself barefoot. This is father's love, selfless protection.
Poet Du Fu said : "There are no relatives and friends, and there is a lonely boat in old age and sickness."
When he said this, he wanted to rush to his hometown in Gong County, Henan. It was just that there were chaos everywhere, and the sky was not beautiful, so it was delayed for a long time.
Halfway, he went to Yueyang Tower , but he was not in the mood to appreciate the scenery, but lamented his sick body and saw the loneliness without the company of relatives and friends.
Looking back at Du Fu's life, in the midst of ups and downs, 's wife never leaves her.
"Tonight, I am looking at the moon in Fuzhou, only in the boudoir."
"The old wife slept on the road, and she had a single dress at the end of the year."
"The old wife drew paper as a chess game, and the child beats a needle as a fishing hook. For many diseases, only medicine is needed, and the small body is not even more important.”
On the road of life, Du Fu met great people such as Li Bai and , and also made friends with many people in the officialdom, but they just ate and drank. Those who really survived the suffering with him and were also his wife.
family, no matter where you go, they are always like shadows. People don’t get lost when they travel thousands of miles. The ultimate goal is to return home in glory and make their family live a better life.
If you have been in a long time and are very tired, then home has become a The harbor you rest is also the place where you set out again.
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There are regrets in life, mostly "it's too late to love each other".
When we are very old and sick, think about what regrets there are in life?
Our younger generations are still alive and have a promising future. Maybe our education is not successful enough and we don't have much wealth left, but younger generations will work hard to change. Maybe our education is not successful enough and we don't have much wealth left, but our younger generations will try to change. Everything.
just, I didn’t see my grandchildren and great-grandson who didn’t get married and started a business, and I felt that I had no blessing. For those who are worried about the country and the people, I will leave the last words of “ family worshiping and never forgetting to tell my husband”.
Most of our parents have already taken a step forward, and what makes you sad is always there and cannot be erased. As a writer said, burying your knees into the loess cannot repay your parents’ love.
This shows that ’s illness People in the middle are worried about whether they are themselves, but they are concerned about their family members, and they feel that they really don’t love their "family" enough in their life.
“The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the son wants to raise but the parents are not waiting for them”. How many children can empathize with these two sentences of ? How many children’s pain is it?
“Ji Xiao Xingzhang” says: “When a filial son serves his parents, he will be respectful when he lives, he will be happy when he raises his children, he will be worried when he is sick, he will be sad when he is sad when he is sad when he is sacrificed. If you have prepared the five, you can serve your relatives. "
Five things to serve our parents, and our children are difficult to fulfill them in us.
speaks with a kind face, so that everyone is full of energy and a happy heart... Such a family atmosphere is a lifelong pursuit. People who fall sick in bed need and look forward to it more.
Therefore, we need to say loudly "I love you" in our lifetime, send flowers openly, and be sincerely grateful. Don't let your family pass away with regrets, and don't let yourself regret "not being filial".
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Therefore, we need to say "I love you" loudly in our lifetime, send flowers openly, and be sincerely grateful. Don't let your family die with regrets, and don't let yourself regret "not being filial".
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health is a very common thing; if you are sick, you don't have a home. It is sad to be around you.
No matter how old you are, as long as you protect a good family, your life will be meaningful, your life will be delicious, your ideals will be full, and all pains will be comforted.
No matter whether you are a parent or a child, while you are still healthy, try to do something for your family. If you should be filial, you should be filial, and you should be cared for. Save one thing, squeeze one thing, and you can always give your family a meal and a warm lamp.
Remember, as long as you can go home, misfortune will pass.
Author: Common food.
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