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People who don’t know how to cherish other people’s time are really scary
Recently, I especially like the words of "A year is up to ten years" The author Mao Uncle said.
Uncle Cat once said: Time is your life.
Only in this way can you become more cautious when spending time and be a good time investor.
01. How scary are people who don’t value other people’s time?
is by your side. Have you ever encountered someone like this? It's very time-consuming to get along with them.
No matter what you do, there is no too much time concept for them. Always do whatever you think of.
has not considered whether other people’s time is allowed. When you are with them, you are always waiting for her. She will always be late, and after she is late, she often finds herself a lot of high-sounding reasons.
either the car broke down or something happened in the middle. It seemed that only she had something to do, and others were like nothing else. If it weren't for the past, I might think that this is very normal and understandable. But later, when such things happened frequently, I realized that most of the time I was late was not because they had something to do, but because they didn’t pay attention to it at all.
They feel that after being late, they can also get your forgiveness, so they will constantly challenge your bottom line. If you haven't made any changes, you will find that when you ask them again in the future, they will be late almost every time.
Unless you make some changes to this. This is very similar to my past, and I had almost no idea about time. It was not until later that I did copywriting and teaching for two years that I realized that time is really too precious. Every day, I not only have to lead the students, but also learn, grow, and participate in various self-discipline check-in. Like every day, we actually need us to do daily updates and lectures on multiple platforms, and we spend a lot of time. If at this time, someone has made an appointment with you, you break the appointment temporarily or are late,
, then you will find that your entire plan for the day will be disrupted. In the end, you have to stay up late to work overtime in order to complete the 5-12 fixed and refined things of the day. To outsiders, being late for 1-2 minutes may not be a big deal, but for those who are already precious, all plans may be disrupted because of your lateness of 1-2 minutes. This will eventually lead to staying up late to work overtime, which will also bring a lot of anxiety to others.
So, from now on, if you don’t want to be a person who is always late, make an appointment with others to meet at least 10-15 minutes in advance. The conference call time will arrive at least 2 minutes in advance. If you are worried about forgetting, you can set the alarm clock in advance.
02. Talking about things when things happen, don’t always be there or not.
: Is there such a person in your WeChat?
Consult you for a question, and ask you when you come up? Then you reply, it will take her a long time to reply to you.
causes communication between you two to often not be on your frequency.
There are also people who are like this. Asking questions are very funny, and they often leave half of them. It always takes others to take time to figure out her thoughts.
Actually, it is really unnecessary. If we really want to ask others for help, the best way is: has something to say.
Use text to explain what you want to say clearly. If you are in a hurry, just note a note at the end of the message (look for reply), so that others will know that you have an urgent matter, and then you will definitely choose to reply to your message faster.
Doing this will not only make you more efficient in doing things, but also save others' time.
And that is, if you ask a question, you can list your questions in text in advance. And what solutions you have used in the past and what feedback you have received.
These can be written one by one through text.
Finally, it shows that you hope the other party will help you and what kind of detailed suggestions do you give you.
1. The problems you encountered
2. Your past implementation plan/and feedback
3. You expect the other party to protect the hot pot and what details you give you
is in a hurry to reply, and you are looking forward to reply if you don’t have to worry: Don’t worry, you are replying if you have time.
believes that doing this will not only solve your own problem, but others will also like to get along with you more, because you cherish their time, and the other party will also think that you understand him very much.
03. Never ask one question repeatedly.
When I first came out for sales, I was such a person. During the two years I worked in a sales company, I was simply a problem king. I will ask my leader at least 5-10 questions every day.
At the beginning, the leader would patiently guide me, and until later, he made a 360-degree turn to me. I even felt very unbalanced about this matter for a time. I feel that as an employee, I ask if I don’t understand.
The reason why I choose to ask questions is to better serve customers and avoid mistakes. I couldn't understand why the leader's attitude changed drastically, alas! Now I fully understand... Sometimes, repeatedly asking the same question is really a waste of other people's time.
Because everyone has limited time, if you ask a question many times, then you should pay attention to it. It is not that you have poor memory, but that you are not attentive enough.
To put it bluntly, you are too dependent on others. But others not only have one thing to deal with, but others also have a lot to do.
If you always can’t grow up at this point, you will find that you have invisibly added a lot of obstacles to other people’s lives. Because it takes a lot of time to solve problems for others. If you want to make up for the time spent, you have to stay up late and work overtime to complete the day's work.
invisibly will also overdraw the health of others. So, slowly, I grew up in this matter. Sometimes I can’t remember it and make habitual mistakes, so I will record the problems my teacher and the past told me in advance. And what the solution the other party gave me at that time was like, I wrote down all of them.
This way you can avoid yourself and ask a question repeatedly, causing trouble to others. So, from today on, we must not only cherish our own time, but also learn to cherish the time of others.
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