In the past, I was a "almost" lady. I felt "just enough" in everything. I didn't have much ambition. As for life, I just passed by just making do with it: plain meals, Taobao clothes and bags, undecorated rooms, and myself who never put on makeup. Of course, I feel envious when I see those mouth-watering meals, decent and beautiful famous products, beautiful houses, and travels where others can go, but I am just envious, and I will still live my own life afterwards.
does not want it, but does not have the ability to do it. I remember the first time I entered a large shopping mall, when I was like I came to the legendary palace. I was just the humblest servant, and I was only nervous when I walked inside, and I didn’t even have the courage to look around, let alone the pleasure of shopping. I have been poor, so I understand the helplessness and struggle of poor people, and am used to being careful in calculating. What I give priority to is always the value of things and the cost-effectiveness of things.
However, the king is a very different person from me. She always shows herself with the best makeup and condition, dresses brightly, her head holds her chest and has a momentum that I have in the world. For her, the price is not a problem, the important thing is the quality of life. Speaking of which, I like to visit her house very much. Although it is very small, it is very warm. All small objects and high-tech products that can make life more convenient can be found here. Looking at her lifestyle, no one would have thought that she had an unwilling and embarrassed twenty-year-old.
"I don't want to live perfunctorily. If I want, I want the best things." She tried to change my old-fashioned concept. "Besides, only when people have the desire to live a better life can they give birth to powerful forces, prompting us to break through restrictions, work harder than before, persist more than others, and gain the ability to pay for an ideal life."
is right, the king loves money very much, and for this, for this, forced himself into dust and into desperate situations.
During college, in order to buy a computer, she sold magazines, milk, worked part-time as a tutor, and worked hard to get scholarships, but soon she discovered that this was not clever, because these are things that everyone can do and are doing. If she wanted more than an Apple computer, but the lifestyle it symbolized, she had to find a different approach.
She began to "harasse" people crazy. First, contact seniors, because she can get some rare opportunities for internal work recommendations; first, international students on campus, because she has made up her mind to take language as her selling point: first, she is a mentor, because she can strive for opportunities for scientific research, improve her major, and subsidize her life. In order to establish a good relationship, she tried every means to "club" them, invite them to have more condolences, and what they can do, and think about what they think. For a long time, she had no more than three yuan per meal a day. When she was about to lose money and was struggling, she became an excellent person who could communicate fluently in four languages: English, German, French and Cantonese, and successfully applied for an intern in a well-known company.
Monthly salary can help her reach a normal standard of living, but that is not enough. She began to send messages to people she knew: "I can be an interpreter and a foreign guest guide, only one thing, the price must be high."
But, you know, the higher the price, the more picky the guests are. The king sometimes has to face the most mixed and harsh working environment, and has to endure the other party’s dissatisfaction, reprimand, even insult and nonsense. She was like a lion who had been hungry for too long, unwilling to let go of any possibility of fulfilling herself.
"Why do you feel so wronged by yourself? Is it amazing that it's just a few thousand yuan?"
"It's said that a penny stumped heroes, not to mention a few thousand yuan, or a few hundred yuan or dozens of yuan. I promised to do it to the end and do the best. To be honest, in order to have a better life, I can only make myself work harder and work harder; better, better. It doesn't matter what else."
everyone is the same. We have all experienced those difficult difficulties, experienced the despair that has no way out, experienced the ups and downs of life, grew up alone in confusion, was silent in hysteria, lost, lost, and returned to the right track... After thousands of miles, we finally came to the place of dreams.
In the past, we were like a squirrel who desperately stored energy. Although we were nervous and weak, we never gave up our desire and obsession with life. But we hide those thoughts in the corner and never speak to people. Those expectations and promises, because they are too far away, they learn not to wait and see, because they care too much, and because they are unwilling to show them to others easily because they understand the complexity of human nature and the gap in reality. In order to become queens, we can treat ourselves as cruel as enemies and pretend not to care.
All of this is just because we firmly believe that our downfall is temporary, not a lifetime! No matter how I am now, I will be better in the future!
Many people think that they can only live a poor life because they lack skills that can change their destiny, lack opportunities to stand out, and have no skills to gain skills. They will never encounter those good opportunities to make wealth, lack love and money, and even just lack some luck. People think that the reason why they are poor is because they have no strengths; they think that the reason why they fail is because they are isolated and helpless. However, most rich people have started from poor people? Do most successes have to go through repeated failures? The people we admire initially have similar situations to ours, so why are their lives so different? No matter how embarrassed
is, at least people do not lack the preparation for innate conditions, nor the possibility of acquired efforts. What we lack most is changing thinking, courage and confidence, that is, lack of ambition. Only by thinking about it can you have the motivation to do it, and only by doing it can you have the possibility of success; a heart that dares not think about it is destined to achieve nothing.
The reason why some people are poor is that they have never worked hard to become rich; the reason why some people achieve nothing is because they lack ambition. The present cannot determine the future. It is not just the accumulation of wealth. All achievements in life begin with ambition and end with action. It can make people get what they want and become what they want to be.
is willing to give because he doesn't want to miss it.
At the same time, we know that our efforts are meaningful, which is the source of our upward attitude, the motivation to assume all responsibilities, and the magic weapon to overcome all kinds of hardships.
Later, the king couldn't stand the sluggish look I had made up for. He forced me to attend some industry banquets. I had to do my styling and look at myself in the mirror: It turns out that I am not bad either. At the banquet, I vaguely touched the edge of another world. Food can be more delicious, socializing can be more educated, a person can live a better life, and even the toilet can no longer be cold and full of warmth. After seeing something better in
, the original "doing" becomes "bad" and even unbearable. I finally admit that my current state is not the life I want, and a better life requires me to give my all. I began to become more enterprising, seeking higher salaries and positions, finding more opportunities to make money, and building more resources and pipelines. It was just a change of mind, and the implementation of some actions, but life had undergone tremendous changes.
Now we can all take on the life we yearn for. I will no longer be discouraged by the expensive price, nor will I be frightened by the luxurious decoration. The once high-ranking existence also restored its true form and became something within reach. We already have enough confidence.
So, if you want anything, be honest and bold. Ask yourself, are you satisfied with your current life? If you are in a state of anxiety, or are worried about a relationship, or are swallowing your anger all night because of a project, or are lonely and embarrassed about a dream floating in the air, or are confused and painful about where to go, you should give yourself a thumbs up.
has a little confidence that we deserve all the good things, and watching for our own growth and success is the whole meaning of a person's life.
At the age of twenty, we have nothing at all. Why do we suppress our strongest desire for the world, material things, and emotions? Why do we still limit our longing and vigorous hearts to deceive ourselves? Why do we choose to be perfunctory all our lives as if we have never lived?
How good is you young, you don’t pursue food and clothing, nor are you greedy for laziness. Just a little thought and constant persistence are enough to make the whole world turn against each other and appreciate it. Until we rely little by little on our flesh and blood to water the fruits of the world, fulfill our original intention of being out of date, and let those ideals take root.
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