What is the most important thing in life? The enlightened person said: In addition to the word "life and death", what else is there in everything in this world? Yes, a person's life is a process. Everyone's beginning and ending seem to be similar, but in fact, it is a world of difference in nature.
We need to spend our whole life constantly improving our cultivation and realm to reach a higher level of spirituality. And everything we go through in this process is to help us improve ourselves.
If you can see through and use it flexibly, you will not be trapped by it. If you don’t understand the reason, you will be tortured by life, burdened by life, and worry all your life. If you can learn to use the following "three hearts" to see the world, you will find that everything is no longer a problem.
1. Look at people and things with a confused heart. In this vast world, there are too many people and affairs. All kinds of people have different opinions and different opinions. We can never guess the true thoughts of others. They have their own inherent values and almost fixed behavioral habits. If we care too much, or are eager to change the other person to cater to their expectations, this is really a big joke.
Life is short, so why not be able to get along with others, nor should you not be able to get along with yourself. Many things are harmless. Learn to turn a blind eye and pretend to be confused, and things will naturally pass. If you have to do anything, please strictly demand yourself and treat others with forgiveness first.
2. Discuss gains and losses with a normal mind. Many people’s lifelong entanglement is between the word “gain and loss”. When I don’t get it, I’m eager to have it. I have special expectations for things that others have but I don’t have. Once I get it, I’m very afraid of losing it. So my whole life is in a state of worrying about gains and losses, and I have no peace all day long.
In fact, the most valuable thing in life is to maintain a normal mind, not be happy with things or sad with yourself, learn to take advantage of gains and losses, work hard on the cause and follow the fate of the result, and you will definitely live much more freely than you are now.
3. Living your life with joy. Mr. Lu Xun said: "It is courage to take it, and it is open-minded to let it go." In life, you should have the heroic spirit of being able to take it and let it go. Respond to everything with a positive attitude. Even if you encounter unfair things, don’t feel pain or trouble.
The Tao Te Ching says: Disaster is the basis of good fortune, and blessing is the basis of bad fortune. Everything is relative, how do you know that misfortunes cannot be turned into blessings? What if you get the same blessing? It will also change with the circumstances. It is rare to have a happy heart in life. It is wonderful to treat people with joy, deal with things with joy, and live a happy life. !
