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Confidant is a lifelong scenery. It is enough to have a confidant in life!
When I was young, many people didn’t understand it. They thought that being surrounded by friends was the most down-to-earth possession. After experiencing the ups and downs of the world, feeling the warmth and coldness of the world, and the coldness of the world, we will understand that at the end of our life, there is still someone who can stand by your side and stay with you, and never leave you. In fact, it is already lucky enough.
Think about it carefully, on the road of life, when your life is at a low point, who is the person you are willing to express your thoughts, who is the person you deserve to trust unconditionally, and who will help you and take you through difficulties.
When you are happy, who can laugh with you; when you are sad, who can drink with you to vent; when you encounter difficulties, who can walk side by side with yours; when you are in financial difficulties, who can provide you with support and help...
Life, in fact, is really tiring, very tired, in addition to physical fatigue, he is also mentally tired. Many times, it is indescribable and can only endure it slowly by one person. In life, it is not that the more friends the better. It is better to have one confidant than a friend. In life, one person who understands you is enough.
On the road of life, we are all independent beings, destined to move forward alone, and it is our own blessing to have a confidant in life.
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In life, getting a confidant is a lifelong happiness.
Schiller said: True friendship is sincere and bold.
In fact, only confidants can bear this kind of relationship. A confidant means that you can achieve the completion of each other's own life together. A confidant is like those two deep-rooted trees, bathing and laughing together in the sun; growing strongly together in the wind and rain, and will not choose to part with any excuses.
Between confidants, you only need to have sincere contact, no matter inside or outside, no need to flatter, no need to be insincere, no need to be sweet, sincerely communicate, and just tell the truth.
In front of your confidant, you can speak without saying a word or do whatever you want, because your hearts are connected, and he is the person who is willing to stop and listen to your voice patiently; he can understand your desire to speak and stop, and he can understand your chatter; he can know your soul in the secular fireworks, and he can also stand silently with you on the road of storms and life.
Confidant is the most unique scenery on your life and the person you deserve to cherish in your life.
If you don’t have a confidant in your life, it is also a regret. I don’t know who to tell a person’s thoughts; I don’t know who to listen to a person’s story; I don’t know who to discuss a person’s feelings; I don’t know who to spend a person’s time with!
It is enough to have a confidant in life!
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A true confidant is a knowledge and a knowing each other!
" Meeting a soulmate in a mountain flowing water , who can listen to the soulmate not?"
A true confidant may not be inseparable, but no matter how far apart, he has a close relationship. What is commendable is understanding, knowing each other, and the resonance between hearts.
Confidant is someone who understands you, someone who appreciates you, and someone who loves you. Such a relationship is better than all feelings because it is the companionship and resonance deep in the soul.
As people spend time together, they will feel bored, their feelings will gradually become numb, and their passion will gradually retreat, because everyone has shortcomings. If they cannot tolerate them, they may gradually get farther and farther away. But when you know a person’s shortcomings, but still never leave them, that is really love, not a momentary impulse.
People are alive, not when you are rich and noble, but when you are poor and destitute, whether there are people around you; it is not when you are successful, how many applause you hear and how many flowers you receive; it is when you are failure, whether there are encouragement or comfort you; it is not how many people pay attention to you, but how many people really put you in peace of mind.
Understanding is deeper than love; confidants are people who understand you, who can explore life with you, express their feelings, and communicate their souls; they can chat with you anytime and anywhere, and whatever they say to you is chatting and laughing, without restraint or embarrassment; when they first meet, they hate to meet each other too late; when they meet again, they are drinking to meet a confidant.
The kind of speechless self-interpretation of the mind is wonderful.
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A true confidant is a companion deep in the soul, like a relative, like a lover, and a confidant, no longer lonely.
Confidant is a soulmate, a force to move forward on the storm of life. It is not to drink and eat meat with you, but to encourage you to move forward; it is not to flatter you, but to teach you to grow up, give you spiritual support, and help you in action.
Only when you meet a true confidant can you understand that the troubles and pressures of life are not too painful, because when you are lonely, there is a heart with you; when you fail, someone stands with you and strives; when you are proud, someone gives you a hint of soberness; when you feel that life is very hard, someone gives you some sweetness to your life.
If you have a confidant, your heart will be filled with emotion and warmth. You are not afraid of loneliness, you are not afraid of wind and rain, and you are not desperate for pain. Because a confidant is someone who understands you, she will always give you comfort and help, help you open the knots in your heart, help you solve difficulties, and let you move forward easily.
When you reach middle age, you really need a confidant to give you a heartache when you are the most hard and tired; give you support when you are tired; give you comfort when you are sad.
Confidant can chat with you anytime and anywhere, and say everything. Often, people around you cannot do it. Speaking with your lover may not necessarily have a real understanding between husband and wife; speaking with your parents will only add to their worries and worries; speaking with your friends will only be ridiculed and indifferent.
Only a confidant can do it. He will give you a lover-like understanding, comfort like a relative, help like a friend, and make you feel the collision between hearts, so warmth and so harmonious.
Confidant is a scenery that I will never get tired of watching for my whole life. I would rather be intoxicated with it for the rest of my life.
Life is fleeting, and being able to get a confidant is the blessing of your life!
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