Ask yourself, I hate people with stinky tongues.
There were such people in life before. If you say something, they always go against you. It is even more common for you to defame you, as if your anger is the source of his happiness.
And when you are really angry, he will show an innocent look and say, "I'm just joking with you."
Although I understand in my heart that he is indeed a good person, I can only stay away from him. If you have a good temper, you may feel that you can understand it after enduring it, and you may also feel that it is your own problem.
But I seem to have always had my own edges and corners. At that time, I couldn't understand the truth, but I respected my inner feelings very much.
feels uncomfortable and gets overwhelmed.
What's the point of yours?
Gradually gaining some experience, I found that some people are arrogant and cannot accept that the people around me are stronger than him. It’s not that they are weak themselves, but that if you are strong, they will be stronger than you.
is obviously not a competitive relationship, but there is a competitive mentality. You made rapid progress, and he was deeply stimulated after knowing it, and since then he worked harder.
But it is very tiring to continue working hard.
If he can, he will choose someone who looks weaker than himself from the beginning to maintain psychological balance. But there is one situation where the person he chose is potential stocks and late-maturity type, which at first glance is mediocre and reassuring.
slowly shines and heats up during the process.
At this time, his first reaction was not to appreciate her, but to change her. Because he had a standard answer in his mind what she should be like. Perhaps he would start by giving "no recognition" to every little thing she is doing.
He felt that once he recognized her in one thing, she would immediately float up and float to a place where he could not reach.
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seems to be a bit far and a little bit black-hearted.
just wants to express the existence of such a phenomenon and the underlying psychology of "poisonous tongue". But I still have to say something more. Not every person with a sarcastic tongue is like this, and they need to be identified by themselves.
Some people are really just joking and don’t take a good job of being a good deal, and they are very few times. A few people don’t know how to get along with others since childhood, so their “poisonous tongue” is reflected in everyone, not just for you. After identifying
, you must also judge whether you can tolerate it.
This requires asking your heart, if you can’t tolerate it, you will be overwhelmed.
I advocate talking well, so when you look around, you are basically friends around you with a good sense of proportion, and it is not embarrassing to joke about not involving personal affairs.
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is getting far off again.
Back to TV series.
For a while, I was deeply moved by the "poisonous tongue" because I saw some male protagonists with this strong attribute, and the route was to ruthlessly crush the heroine in the early stage and pursue her wife in the later stage.
Among them, some male protagonists are just arrogant, hard-mouthed, soft-hearted, and arrogant. It makes sense to succeed in holding hands in the later stage.
and some male protagonists are more exaggerated.
, especially modern dramas, have a strong sense of substitution and can easily resonate with people. Under this premise, the male protagonist has a bad attitude, humiliates the female protagonist in front of others, and suppresses the female protagonist for a long time, which makes the female protagonist secretly wipe her tears several times and burst into tears in the rain.
Not to mention the confidence that has disappeared, the self-cognition is confused, and in the end there is no be, which is very strange. Is the heroine in the play different from us, isn’t she a living person? But a female Bodhisattva?
Forget it, it’s just a drama, it’s not worth getting angry about it.
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Last week I finished watching "The Moon Rises in the Sea". The second male lead in
Yuan Shanjian is also a stinky man, but his scenes are very good. Being handsome and talented... I won't talk about the well-known reasons for this kind of well-known reason.
I thought about it carefully: the main thing about
is that the heroine has the ability to fight back.
Yuan Shan was angry when he saw that he was angry but was angry, and he was very happy every time. There is a feeling of going back and forth and meeting opponents. Such a plot is unique, and his appearance can always provide the audience with a lot of laughs.
However, it is also destined that he cannot catch up with the heroine.
Strictly speaking, he has never followed him seriously.
He is actually the first person in the play to show kindness to the heroine. On the day of the lunar calendar, he threw down the hydrangea to the heroine. Mr. Yuan, who has always been arrogant and talented, probably thought that the heroine would accept his kindness with flattery.
Who knew that the heroine threw the hydrangea back.
Everyone teased him, Mr. Yuan couldn't bear it. After
, he began his social life for the first time.
He will go when he has the opportunity to meet the heroine. But when facing the heroine, I couldn't say a few good words. On the one hand, he is arrogant in his bones and does not give in easily.
On the other hand, he can detect that the heroine is different from other women. Although she is lively and interesting, she is not disciplined.
Although he also thought it was interesting to argue with the heroine in this way, he still hoped to change the heroine in terms of subjective intentions.
He was very young, so he could tell what kind of woman was worthy of him. To be a daughter-in-law of the Yuan family, you should not be well-educated and etiquette, at least you can follow the rules and be able to enter the elegant hall.
According to the background of the play, the heroine in the early stage was almost in a state of being reborn and didn't know many words.
Like most of the people around the heroine, he turned a blind eye to her strengths and said all about her bad things.
When he finally said the words "Let's make do with each other", the heroine had fallen in love with Ling Buyi deeply and could not make do with others anymore.
He said with gratitude: One son is slow, and the whole plate is full of ropes.
In fact, it was not that he met late or that he confessed slowly, but that he got along with the heroine incorrectly at the beginning.
The heroine is a person who has been abandoned by her parents since she was born. No one has taught her to read and write well since she was a child. She knows nothing about liberal arts, and her ears are filled with voices that belittle her.
What she needs is recognition, and that others see her and recognize her is also a useful person.
So the gentle and open-minded Queen Xuan softened her.
Her love with the male protagonist Ling Buyi will have a disagreement for several years, and it is also because she longs for her partner to recognize and trust her. She is ready to share the storm with Ling Buyi and refuse to abandon her for any reason.
Everyone has their shortcomings.
Is it true that I really treat it as a useless person because of my shortcomings?
She thinks she is not.
Yuan Shanxi's way of approaching her is tantamount to head-on. The ridicule from cultural people will only push her further, further than the original normal social distance.
Reference male third floor Yao - the first person to get engaged to the heroine.
The heroine didn't like Lou Yao at first, but because Lou Yao could see her advantages, admire her very much, and was willing to follow her.
So even if she knows that Lou Yao may not be able to protect her in terms of ability, she is willing to stay with him, grow up slowly, and realize her ideal free life together.
At that time, she didn't know what liking was.
But in her eyes, it would be great to find a little man like A Yao who cares about her everywhere. For her, her own peace of mind is more important than the love mentioned by others.
Aya also gradually became brave under her influence. When she is with A Yao, she needs to face the trivial matters of intrigue in the house, but she does not have to go through major hardships.
Assuming that Yuan Shanjian also speaks well and expresses frankly, it is up to be determined whether the heroine loves him or not, but at least she will not reject him. The heroine's temperament is to exchange sincerity for sincerity. If we get along well, the time for Yuan Shanjian will come.
They don’t have many emotional scenes in the play.
Yuan Shanxi saw that the five years he spent with her in the palace were only used to show her in a few fragmented shots, so after watching this drama, I couldn't help but feel sorry for her.
only thinks this character is more interesting.
He is one of the few people I mentioned above. He has been disdainful of getting along with others since he was a child, so he doesn’t know how to get along with the people he likes. He has a good family background, high talent, and open-minded parents, but he has no love.
He felt that a marriage like his parents was extremely boring. If he could not find someone who meets his high standards, he would rather not marry him for the rest of his life.His thoughts were ahead of time and he never compromised.
After meeting the heroine, he originally wanted to educate the heroine, but unexpectedly it was the heroine who changed him. He did not compromise until the heroine became the standard itself.
This drama has a slow pace and the relationship between supporting characters involved is also complicated. Although the career line is single, you still need to focus on it to understand.
Emotional Line In addition to love, family affection is also very touching.
Overall, there are many high-quality clips and many sad moments. I think the director is very good. I will sort out some good shots when I have time later.
Today's sharing ends, thanks for reading.
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