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Have you ever met a villain and been plotted against by the villain? If so, you can probably understand what a desperate and powerless feeling it is. It was especially like I accidentally swallowed a fly while eating. It was obviously disgusting, but I had no choice but to accept this fact.
In fact, people with a pattern and without a pattern often have different ways of dealing with villains when facing villains' calculations.
People who have a real pattern will not care about the gains and losses in front of them and their temporary moods. They have always considered problems for a long time. After all, life is one time and another, and now he is proud, but it may not be certain in the future.
Only when you are a person with stable emotions and long-term plans can you take a long line to catch big fish.
If you act due to impulse or always intent, you will easily fall into the trap set by the other party. At this time, his calculations on you will be more successful. He will benefit, and you will suffer, so why bother?
Tolerate him for a moment, let him let go of his guard and underestimate you, and then you silently accumulate strength and wait for accumulating strength. At that time, if you catch him off guard, why not be happier and wiser?
You should know that if you are plotted by a villain, you are truly relieved and have a pattern. It is not to fight back at the first time, or turn against him at the first time, but to do these three words: become stronger.
When you become strong, he is no longer your opponent, and you will no longer take him seriously.
For you, revenge on him is as simple as slapping a fly to death or trampling a ant . At this point, you will not spend any effort to revenge on him, because this does not conform to your identity and status, and you will feel a waste of time.
After all, you are not the same level as him. If you win, you are somewhat unfair to win.
becomes powerful and enters a higher-level circle to completely stay away from villains.
I agree with the sentence: When you are weak, there are the most bad people and villains.
Why? Because you are easy to bully at this time, others can easily use you, hurt you, extract value from you or obtain the benefits you want. And because you are too weak and have no power to fight back, you can only be slaughtered and suffer one mute after another.
There is no way, some people are bullying the weak and afraid of the strong. Persimmons can only pick soft things. They never talk about so-called benevolence, righteousness and morality, because they only have interests in their eyes.
In the workplace, why are the new people always bullied? Because the newcomer is too weak, has poor ability and has no backing, it is too easy to be regarded as a stepping stone for moving upwards.
When I first entered the workplace, I was always robbed of credit by my boss at that time.
It is obvious that she did the work, but the one who was praised was her boss. But she found out that she was not angry or anxious to distinguish, but silently improved her abilities and made her boss more dependent on her.
Finally one day, the opportunity came. She deliberately wrote a wrong number on a crucial document, and when her boss changed it to her own name as always to seek credit, she caused a big disaster and caused irreparable losses to the company.
It was too late for the boss to separate his relationship, and there was no evidence, so he could only admit defeat.
Just like that, her boss lost her job and she was successfully promoted.
Just imagine, what if she didn’t calm down at the beginning and asked her boss to argue with her first? Not only will others not believe her, but they will think that she has too many things, which will backfire.
and silently accumulate strength and strengthen yourself. When the opportunity comes, give the other party a Jedi counterattack, which will win more beautifully and thoroughly.
Sometimes, knowing how to hide one's edge is not cowardice, but wisdom.
The most ruthless revenge on a person is not to turn against each other or fight back at the first time, but to endure the momentary emotions and silently strengthen yourself, and then make him unable to reach you again and always stand at a low point and look up to you.
When you become strong, you are disdainful of many people and let go of many things.
Because at this moment, what you see is poetry and the distance, the stars and the sea, the garbage in front of you, those dirty things, you will not keep in mind at all, and they are not enough to affect you and influence you.
This is the pattern, this is strength.
You will sooner or later understand that what you see is different when standing on the 80th and 1st floors. When you are plotted by others, becoming stronger is the best way, and it is also the best revenge and punishment for him.
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