The more you experience, the more you will understand that opening your mouth is a disaster, shutting up your mouth is a blessing, keep your mouth in the crowd, and keep your heart alone. If you talk less when you see people, talk too much is the starting point of trouble, if you encounter less trouble, if you encounter more trouble, you will be the root of disaster.
Control your heart well, do your own thing well is the most important thing, see who you are, put your position in the right place, the water is too deep and the wind is too strong, has no strength, talk less, have no ability, and do less .
"The Weakness of Human Nature" tells us: "A truly smart person knows how to restrain his words and deeds." As the saying goes: A pot of water does not sound, but half a pot of water sounds. In life, you must be cautious in your words and do not act frivolously. The rice is ripe and the ears are low, and the person is ripe and the person is ripe.
If a person is not restrained in speaking, he will only expose his shallowness and ignorance. Those truly sober adults all know that "don't do anything to do and don't talk about it if you don't have any speculation."
However, in reality, many people cannot control their mouths. He speaks freely, and he is free from the horse. He is in front of him and in the back of him. There are many villains around him who are both illegitimate and hurt others. He makes people feel very annoying to watch.
Don’t say much in the workplace because you can’t tell whether the people around you are enemies or friends; if you don’t get involved at home, how many couples are disbanded by their parents-in-law and sister-in-law.
Appreciate those who are cautious in their words and actions. They can control their mouths, keep their hearts in the hustle and bustle, and maintain a sense of tranquility, indifference and detachment.
Sometimes, those who look taciturn are not without ability or unable to speak. On the contrary, the deeper the quiet water flows, the more silent the more you have a gully person, the more you are.
Words represent a person’s three views. Anyone with great wisdom is often restrained and quiet, not speak easily, has a ruler in his heart, and speaks in moderation, which is the most basic practice for people.
The mountains are silent and silent, with their own majestic nature; the sea is silent and silent, and finally becomes its vastness.
I once read a joke about "Journey to the West". On the way to obtain the scriptures in the West, Tang Monk was kind-hearted and found that there was always a hole in the clothes of Sun Wukong . So he got up quietly for several nights to sew on it.
After traveling back and forth like this several times, Sun Wukong finally couldn't help but say, "Master, don't meddle in other people's business, can you do it? You sewed the hole, where will I put my tail?"
Although it is a joke, it reveals philosophy. Looking at the whole life, there are always some people who like to interfere in other people's private affairs for no reason, thinking that they are helping others, but in the end they are backfiring.
Zhu Ziqing wrote in "Speaking": "If you talk every day, you may not necessarily speak; many people have said things for a lifetime, but they have never said a few words."
people are middle-aged, especially when they are holding on to this Tao's "door" means that you can make more mistakes and mistakes. Only by saying less can you make less mistakes. Only by saying carefully can you make no mistakes.
Don’t talk nonsense, don’t talk nonsense, and grasp the degree of speaking, so as to improve the weight of speaking and the quality of conversation.
Ran Gaoming said in " Talk about Weird ": asks the channel where is clear, you should take care of yourself first. This sentence seems to be a joke, but it also reveals the truth in one sentence.
In life, you will encounter all kinds of big and small things. Some things are closely related to you and you have to deal with them; some things are not important to you, so don’t go to muddy waters.
You should be confused about everything, without losing or gaining. Only in this life can you truly understand everything, be clear about everything, be yourself seriously, and manage yourself well is the real good way to be a human being.
writing is a kind of practice, and it is also a way to save others and oneself.
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