In life, people always have to go through something to gain insight and growth.
If you didn’t understand the truth by yourself, then no one’s efforts would be in vain.
No one’s life can be as clean as a piece of white paper, no stories. Only those who have experienced it will understand. The true growth of life is not the maturity of age, but the complete disappearance of the shadow of the past.
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Growth is turning disliked into likes
When we were young, the only thing we pursue was the people we like and the things we like. No matter what, even if our brains are broken, we should be worthy of this enthusiasm.
However, as I grew up, I liked less and less. In fact, it is better to say that I am more and more qualified to like it less and less.
Because in the adult world, it is never possible to do things according to your own preferences, and the only criterion is whether you can do it. Responsibilities and obligations are always the prerequisites for everything.
Real growth is the ability to clearly turn what you don’t like into what you like.
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Growth is rebirth and becoming a new self
Life experience is actually a precious wealth in life. Only after going through everything can you know what to do and what not to do.
Whether you are willing or have to do this, this is a growing pain. As long as you experience this pain, you can become a stronger self again.
Real growth is like going through everything. After being beaten to the point of being bruised, crush yourself into powder and knead a new person again.
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Growth is a heart-wrenching awakening and change
The growth experience in life is nothing more than trying to make us understand a truth: what we want, work hard silently, and bear the pain of growth silently.
Growth is the realization of heartache, but it is willing to suffer. The naivety of the past no longer exists, and the people and things that once cared about have become a drop in the ocean.
What I couldn’t let go in the past was a stumbling block in life, and I fell wherever I went. What I care about in the past has long turned into a wisp of blue smoke, no trace to be found.
Only the current self can truly accompany you, understand yourself the best, and understand yourself the best.
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The price of growth is to reshape yourself
When a person grows up, he always has to go through a dark, helpless, collapsed and crying process, then wipe away his tears, raise his mouth, hold his head up and keep moving forward.
throw away what should be thrown away, give up what should be given up, no matter how hard it is, let it go completely. Learn to make choices, learn to keep your eyes open, and learn to keep yourself clean.
Until you truly lose your original self, only in this way can you become stronger and invincible.
Growth is a parting, and it goes further and further. Only by walking this path and continuing to stay is the experience that is truly worthy of your retention and cherishing.
