In life, many people have no confidence in themselves. They always feel that they are inferior to others and that others are better than themselves in all aspects. When I see other people's achievements, I first feel inferior, and then I helplessly comfort myself by saying: "He is smarter than me anyway", "I am stupid anyway", "After all, his family background is better than mine", "After all, I have always been Not as good as others"...
This self-comfort of Ah Q's spirit is very dangerous. While it is right to face your shortcomings, it is not right to forgive yourself for them. We are not afraid of having shortcomings. Only with shortcomings can you be a complete person. If you had no shortcomings, you would probably be in the immortal class by now! Forgiving one's own shortcomings and being tolerant of one's shortcomings can only make one lose the ability to think and reflect, lose the motivation to fight, and put oneself into the dilemma of "powerlessness".
It is said that confident women are the most beautiful, and confident men are the most handsome! So do you want to be that confident person? If you want to be a confident person, the first step is to face your own shortcomings. They are not your shortcomings, they may even be your selling points!
I used to have a colleague who was modest, dull, and simple in character. Just imagine that such a person has a career in sales. It can be said that there is almost no possibility of making money, and it is also a first-hand house sale that requires all kinds of things. industry, however, this colleague later not only became the best seller, but also married the director of the company's sales department, so he was considered a winner in life.
The reason is very simple. The reason why the director fell in love with him is undoubtedly because of his kindness. So how did he achieve the top spot? Because he found his strengths and weaknesses and faced the problem squarely. His advantage is that he works hard enough, so he works hard, but his shortcoming is that he is not smooth enough, but he does not think this is a problem, and he talks to everyone The customers are very sincere, which actually increases his potential customers. There are many customers who come because of his sincerity! Slowly he became very confident! There are more and more friends!
The root of self-confidence comes from our environment. Our heart is what you think of yourself. Everyone, our own abilities are far less outstanding than what we see, because few people will see it in ourselves. Inadequacy, but this deficiency is invisible. Everyone does not lack ability, but lacks confidence. Many times, you need encouragement before you dare to take the first step. If no one encourages you, there may be many things you can do or want to do. I don’t dare to do it!
Believe in yourself. Whether you can do many things will only be known after you do it. You can't control whether you can do it or not, but whether you do it or not is up to you!
