01 Without rules, there is no rule. One cannot follow the rules too much, but one cannot break the rules at will. The same is true for a family, rules are blessings. If the money is gone, you can still make money, but if the rules are messed up, the source of making money will di

01

There are no rules and no rules.

One cannot follow the rules too much, but one cannot break the rules at will.

The same is true for a family, rules are blessings.

If the money is gone, you can still make money, but if the rules are messed up, the source of making money will disappear.

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The more filial children are to their parents, the more blessed they will be.

It is written in " Disciple Rules ": "Don't be slow when your parents call, and don't be lazy when you follow your parents' orders. You must listen to your parents' instructions, and obey your parents' responsibilities."

Parents' teachings need to be kept in mind. If you don't listen to the old man's words, you will suffer a lot. Your parents will not harm you and are always looking for ways to help you. If one day you are unwilling to obey your parents' teachings, you will take a detour.

My parents are old and need to be treated kindly without any complaints.

Some parents are unable to give their children more materials and money due to their limited abilities. As children, you need to understand rather than blame them.

Some parents are unable to treat their children equally, and favor one over the other. This is inevitable. Parents are also ordinary people and cannot satisfy everyone.

Parents also have difficulties, and they are not omnipotent. Regardless of whether your parents are successful or not, you are grateful for their upbringing. Your life will be warmer and your character will be better.

Being filial to your parents is a matter of course, and there is no unified standard to measure it.

Being filial to your parents does not necessarily require spending a lot of money. If you often accompany your parents and are polite in front of them, you are pretty good.

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The stricter parents are to their children, the more promising they will be.

A child who does not respect the rules is a child with no future.

However, parents are responsible if their children mess up the rules. " Three Character Classic " says: "If the son fails to teach, it is the father's fault." This is what it means.

heard a conversation like this.

The toys at home said to the children: "Why don't you love us?"

The children said: "You are not as good as mobile phones."

The toys were silent for a while, and then said: "Although mobile phones are good, they can destroy you. "

Toy said to himself: "It's not that children like mobile phones, it's that when parents hear their children crying, they use mobile phones to comfort them, and the result is..."

If you want to destroy a child, give him a phone. A mobile phone is enough; if you want to prevent your child from growing up, just make him stop loving reading; if you want to encourage your child's evil habits, all you have to do is satisfy your child unconditionally.

"A filial son emerges from under a stick". Parents who are strict with their children may look very serious, but their children will grow better and faster. When children grow up, they will definitely be grateful to their parents.

Just imagine, a child is not polite, holds his mobile phone every day, develops the habit of spending money randomly, and the child slowly becomes a "giant baby".

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The more respect a husband and wife get along, the more loving they will be.

"Husbands and wives treat each other with respect as guests; distance creates beauty; a little separation is better than a new marriage." Such rules can make couples get along more harmoniously and their relationship last longer.

Why many couples say "Let's get divorced" as soon as they open their mouths? It's not that their lives can't go on, but that they don't know how to get along.

Couples with a good relationship should respect these rules: first, no matter how big the difficulties are, they must communicate well and discuss ways to solve the problems; second, no matter how irritated they are, they must calm down; third, no matter how hard they are at home, No matter how poor you are, don't leave or lose hope; fourth, no matter how many conflicts there are, you must not lose "trust" and be suspicious every day; fifth, never touch love outside of marriage at any time.

A well-behaved couple will do everything according to the rules instead of constantly arguing about "what is right and what is wrong." The father-in-law says the father-in-law is right, and the mother-in-law says the mother-in-law is right. In fact, neither of them makes sense, and the dispute is meaningless.

Family is often not a place of reason, but a place of rules.

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The greater the magnanimity between brothers and sisters, the more harmonious they are.

Why do some brothers and sisters stop interacting with each other after their parents pass away?

First, everyone is unhappy because of the division of family property. Although they all received property, they didn't "take it for themselves" and felt that they had suffered a loss.

Secondly, because everyone has different levels, some people are very rich and read a lot, while some people are very poor, unreasonable and uneducated. We grew up in the same family, but later we couldn't get along because of different levels.

Third, because they care about small favors and small favors, they are afraid of being deceived and treat their brothers and sisters as thieves, and they are always on guard.

Fourth, if the distance is too close, it will be a disaster. Because several small families are very close to each other and have too many interactions, some trivial family matters have become the cause of quarrels.

" Seven-Step Poetry " writes: "Boiled beans burn the bean sprouts, and the beans weep in the cauldron. They are born from the same root, so there is no rush to fry each other."

We are all a family. If we care about each other, we will kill each other. Then this "blood love" will be broken, which will be of no benefit to anyone.

As a person, be more generous and always think like this: no matter which brother or sister puts the interests, money, or materials in the hands, they are all placed in his own home. Brothers and sisters are like siblings, that is, the relationship between left and right hands. Whoever lives well is a happy event.

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Between sisters-in-law, the more sincere and friendly they are.

As the saying goes: "Three women, one drama."

For most families, "between mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, and sisters-in-law" are the source of conflicts.

The daughter-in-law did not grow up in the same family, so conflicts are inevitable. Also, women are naturally smaller-minded and care more about family trivial matters. If they are slightly dissatisfied, they will become resentful.

A good family has some who are strong and some who are weak; some who are aggressive and some who give in step by step; some who are preoccupied and some who are open-minded... People interact with each other to achieve complementarity rather than mutual exclusion.

Distance creates beauty. Regarding the relationship between sisters-in-law, a certain distance should be maintained and they should not be together every day. If there is any conflict, just leave it to time and forget it.

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Conclusion.

What are the rules? Rules are a kind of reverence and a feeling of harmony.

Any family must not only establish rules, but also strictly enforce them. Moreover, according to the development of society, some outdated rules should be changed and new ones should be introduced.

It is true that the enforcement of rules must also take into account the love between family members, "love outside the law".

Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others.