Knowledge, common sense, seeing bad habits and true abilities / Yang Baogang In the morning, he turned on his mobile phone and saw this sentence: "Whoever has the courage to put his shortcomings on the table can quit bad habits, develop good habits, and gain real Ability. "I feel

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Knowledge, knowledge, insights

Bad habits and real abilities

Text/Yang Baogang

In the morning, I turned on my phone and saw this sentence: "Whoever has the courage to put his shortcomings on the table can get rid of bad habits and develop good habits. , thereby gaining real ability."

feels deeply about this! After decades of stumbling along the way, I think carefully about the life of "battle" with myself. When and on that matter, I restrained myself and considered others, and my work and everything went smoothly. The more deeply you understand your own shortcomings and the greater the intensity of change, the better your mood will be, and the more energetic you will be in life. However, looking at it, many people still live in their own "habits" throughout their lives and do not know how to change, will not change, and are unwilling to change.

The so-called "habit" does not only refer to whether you brush your teeth in the morning or at night, but also the lack of knowledge, ignorance of common sense, and extreme knowledge. Whenever there is a conflict, contradiction, or the so-called "face", you will always It is to find various reasons and excuses to attack or accuse the other party, instinctively protect or wrap up oneself, tightly protect one's own shortcomings, and do not hesitate to use a hundred lies to cover up the sentence "I'm sorry, it's my fault", or: Yes I was wrong, I didn’t understand, I was petty, I didn’t understand, I will correct it next time... etc. Not only can’t I put my shortcomings on the table, but I am afraid that others will see and see my shortcomings, so, These so-called "bad habits" control many people's lives, preventing them from acquiring "real abilities." Without "real abilities," it is impossible to obtain good interpersonal relationships, achieve career transcendence and satisfaction, and It is difficult to achieve the ideal life state, but we can only live in resentment, smiles behind tears, patting ourselves on the back, and showing off...

It can be seen from this that whether a person can recognize his own shortcomings and deficiencies, dare not Dare to face up to and change oneself, and whether one is willing to listen to criticism and regret from others is a major matter that determines a person's life's luck and quality of life. It is a person's "real ability" and the most critical ability. It has nothing to do with age, gender, origin, occupation, etc.

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