Looking back on my four years of college life, there were eight people in one dormitory. After each class, they would form a team to play games, and I was the only one who couldn't play games. While they were playing games, I would always find a quiet corner by myself, take out t

Looking back on my four years of college life, there were eight people in one dormitory. After each class, they would form a team to play games, and I was the only one who couldn't play games. While they were playing games, I would always find a quiet corner by myself, take out today's class and take a look at it, do my own exercises, and then go over the content of the class the next day. Finally, I would Find time to read some more classic extracurricular books.

Actually, in that group, I had a very uncomfortable life. Because I am not gregarious, they would always sneer at me after playing games: "What's the use of studying? Why are you pretending? If you don't join us, how can you be successful in the future?"

There was a time , I also felt very lonely, and I was thinking in my mind, should I play games like them? Have fun together?

One day, I saw an article that said: "The kind of people you hang out with will determine the kind of person you become." I suddenly understood that I came to this university to study, not to Being gregarious is to achieve my dreams, move to a higher stage, and then find a group that truly belongs to me.

It feels like you are a master of learning history. Why do you have to be in a group of people who are good at learning English? "Birds of a feather flock together, people form groups." I can't choose my roommates, but I think I can change my circle through my own efforts and choose friends who truly belong to me.

You can't decide your own life circle, but you can decide your own ideal state.

Join the right group and find what you want. Whether it's an ideal or a friend, this is what you should do most in the four years of college.

People are afraid of loneliness, so most people choose to be gregarious.

Among the four people, three are playing cards, and the fourth person is not gregarious if he does not play. Among the four people, three are playing games, and the fourth person is not gregarious if he does not play.

But you think you are gregarious, but in fact you are wasting your youth. You think you have made friends, but when you graduate and are useless, who will treat you as a friend? You think you are not alone during the four years of college, but when you graduate and have no job and cannot find your partner, you will be even more lonely.

Some people say that loneliness is painful, but who said that realizing your dreams is not painful?

During my college years, I witnessed too many tragedies of collaborating in order to be gregarious.

I remember when I was a freshman, people always asked me to play games, and I did, but in the end I was left with emptiness.

When I was a sophomore in college, while they were downloading new games on their mobile phones, I was memorizing words in the corner.

In my junior year, six people in the dormitory attacked me collectively, saying that I didn't fit in with others. There are even people who go around talking about me, saying bad things about me. I understood that it was not my fault that I was different, so in the end I had no choice but to apply for a change of dormitory.

Now I have forgotten the names of those people who said that I was unsociable. Maybe some of them still remember me, but I don't remember them, which means that I can live without them.

To this day, I have met a lot of people. Some are business owners, some are lawyers, some are government leaders, and there are even some girls who would never even look at me. Most importantly, I have made a group of good friends who are truly willing to help me in difficult times.

At this moment, I am really glad that I did not join in the gregariousness because I was not gregarious, and I am also glad that I have found a group of people who truly belong to my life circle.

It’s hard for me to imagine that if I had joined a group just for the sake of being gregarious and forced my way into a circle that I didn’t like, who would be around me now? What will my life be like?

I believe that heroes are always lonely, and only the little guys get together . The " 28 rule " always applies to everywhere. Twenty percent of the people own 80% of the wealth, and 80% of the people serve the 20% of the people.

As a man, if you have always been gregarious during the four years of college, you have always been in the dormitory.If you don't open your horizons and remain stubborn, you will only be a frog in the well. And these, in the future life, sooner or later, will be returned to you all at once at a certain moment in life.

As a girl, you need to cultivate your independent personality in college. You must believe that relying on a man will never be as solid as relying on your own hands to create a future.