Everyone has an inner island, which will be reached one day. The growth of life is the process of swimming to that island with all your strength, on the vast sea.
We work hard to get something as much or more than what we have paid for, but this small island where our hearts belong is still the same. It will not increase because of us, but it will become smaller because of your desires. Maybe what your heart can bear There is only so much, and we seem to want so much more.
A lot is wrong. I think what I know is right, I think what I don’t want others to know will not be known to others, and I think others think the same as me.
In many cases, especially when making choices and decisions, our subconscious think and choose in a direction that is beneficial to ourselves. This self-interested subconscious is instinctive, that is, inevitable and natural, so our cultivation We must restrain this kind of paranoid cognition and consider the problem from multiple aspects, especially the aspects that are not beneficial to ourselves, in order to have a more objective choice. This multi-dimensional way of thinking is corrective and a higher-level way of cognition.
I have read a book. The book talks about paranoid cognition. When it reaches a certain severity, it will become a disease. It is paranoid psychosis. From one kind of recognition to one kind of pathology, it is gradual. Process, we may not have reached pathology yet, but a paranoid awareness is widespread.
I have met many people like this. They are unable to change their opinions at all. They are heroic defenders of their own opinions and can even solve problems of opinions in a very crude way. But after my observation, as mentioned in many books, such people are actually humble in life. I dare not say they are losers, but they are definitely not winners. On the contrary, many winners are just the opposite. Paranoia is actually a disease. Like countless patients, the disease can only be changed by changing yourself.
Most people with paranoid psychology have several characteristics:
1. sensitive.
2． Suspect.
3． Stubborn.
4. Extremely confident, extremely conceited, or extremely inferior.
I understand that paranoid psychology is an attitude towards suffering, a mental state towards suffering, and a way to deal with suffering. Reading Buddhist scriptures, understanding some Buddhism, and understanding some Tao tells us how to face it correctly. Ways to deal with suffering, improve your mood, and enhance your understanding.
Suffering and other kinds of suffering do not only refer to various situations in people's lives, but also refer to the changes in people's hearts when they experience these situations. In other words, suffering is actually the feeling of one's own heart. It's distress, not suffering.
Thousands of things are based on the mind, and the root causes of all painful feelings still need to be found and understood from one's own thoughts, actions, and words. But just understanding is not enough to make us forget or let go of our sufferings. We also need to understand how these feelings arise, how they change, and how they develop. Therefore, they need to be explained based on different religious understandings or philosophical understandings, and Buddhism is just one of them. .
In Buddhism, there is no saying that suffering comes from "sin". Buddhism believes that the root of suffering is ignorance, which is irrational and incorrect thinking. This kind of ignorant thinking is the delusion and persistence of various hearts, and various delusions and persistence are actually the unsatisfied desires. Therefore, it is the excessive pursuit of desires that causes us distress.
The purpose of Buddhism is to achieve peace of mind through the cessation of desires. This cessation is not the cessation of the mind, nor the cessation of the mind, but the stopping of delusional thoughts after reaching a balance. Cessation is the cessation of delusional thoughts, and cessation is the cessation of delusional thoughts.
Only by correctly understanding what the "feeling" of suffering is and what the "collection" of suffering is, can we respond and solve it correctly. The method is to know the cause and condition, and then judge the effect. This means that you must know the correct method, understanding, and Thinking, and then naturally can relieve all kinds of "suffering".The first is to know the nature of suffering and have no worries; the second is to know the causes and conditions of suffering and be able to actively control and avoid them. All actions are to understand the world with right knowledge, right views, right enlightenment and right actions like the Buddha, and achieve true "enlightenment". Liberation does not allow us to escape from life or despise the world, but allows us to know how to analyze, understand and judge reality with wisdom. Find middle-of-the-road solutions to various problems.
Doing what we can and should do is "avoid doing evil and doing good deeds". How to discover, analyze and even solve the problem according to Buddhist thinking is our own awakening, awareness and finally The process of enlightenment is what is called "self-purification of one's mind." That means you know what you should do.
