01
In life, fight hard in the first half and cherish your life in the second half.
What seems like a long time is actually just between life and death. For happy people, there is no joy in life, and no need to fear death; for pessimistic people, life is worse than death.
If you have the way, you will know the destiny at fifty. Knowing that life and death are inevitable, just like a person who travels far away, his return is inevitable.
02
When your parents pass away, you have to face life and death.
" One Hundred Years of Solitude " said: "Parents are the curtain between us and death. You and death seem to be looking at each other through something, and there is no feeling. Your parents stand between you. Wait until your parents pass away. Only then will you face these things head-on..."
When I was a child, I accompanied adults to funerals several times. Grandma, grandfather, second grandfather... they left one after another, and I walked in the funeral procession. From the door of my house, I walked all the way to the mountainside.
Although, like adults, I wear sackcloth and wear filial piety, I am not as sad as adults. Sometimes, I would play with my cousins, right next to the coffin.
The people in the coffin were very close to me, but I felt that they were just asleep.
When I grew up and saw my parents struggling to survive, my heart skipped a beat and I panicked. I am really worried that my parents will leave and I will lose my best support.
The sky was cloudless on the day my father passed away.
My father was still drinking with his eldest brother the night before, but he couldn't do it the next morning. My father suffered a sudden cerebral hemorrhage and it was too late to send him to the hospital.
When I rushed to my father's side in a hurry, I burst into tears. Why did my father leave in a hurry without even saying a word? Why did his father plant a piece of land before he left? The seedlings were already green, but he couldn't see that the rice was yellow.
There is a short story in " Korean Poetry Gaiden ": A man named Gaoyu, who had been away for many years, returned home and found that his parents had passed away and his childhood memories could not be found, so he burst into tears.
Gaoyu said: "The biggest mistake in my life is that I realized that I was unfilial after my parents passed away..."
Confucius told his disciples what Gaoyu said, and then several disciples went home. . Because their parents are old and rarely see each other, it is best not to separate.
After the age of fifty, our parents are talking about seventy or eighty years old. A more common situation is that the parents have left forever - and the children want to be raised but cannot be cared for.
's parents passed away, and the next arrangement was for him to face life and death directly.
We are like a curtain between our children and death... As long as we are still alive, we can block some wind and rain for our children and let them live a happier life.
03
When a kind person passes away, he is reborn.
One day in the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius was chatting with his disciples.
Confucius said: "The ancients called the dead people 'returners', and correspondingly, the living people are called 'walkers.' People who keep walking outside and never go home are people who have abandoned their families. People who keep abandoning their families , is a dissolute person. "
Zigong heard a lot of truths and was a little tired.
Confucius said: "When a person is alive, there is no need to talk about rest."
Zigong suddenly sighed with emotion: "How great is it to die, the gentleman is resting, and the villain is lying down."It means that when the gentleman passes away, it is called rest, and the villain is dead. Passing away is called burial.
Traveling through time and space, we also heard the words of poet Zang Kejia: "Some people are alive, they are dead, some people are dead, they are still alive."
When Zang Kejia wrote poems, he thought of Mr. Lu Xun. Although Lu Xun has passed away for many years, his spirit is still alive, leading us to move forward bravely and to a brighter place.
It is not difficult to find that to this day, we still talk about Confucius' tireless teaching spirit, and we are still familiar with the story of Lu Xun who gave up medicine and turned to literature - this is the true meaning of life and death.
To live, you must contribute something to society and do something for others.Therefore, there have been many touching scenes and many touching people in society.
For example, the old man Bai Fangli who makes money by riding a three-wheeler and helps poor students; Lei Feng who tries his best to help others...
When we are fifty years old, we have received too many "spiritual baptisms" , Therefore, we have understood something about life and death.
If you persist in being a good person, you will have no regrets in life.
04
Ordinary people pass away and everything is let go.
Of course, most people are unknown. So what's the point of living?
There is a saying that goes well: "Death is like a lamp going out."
All worries, pain, joy, sorrow, surprise, money, luxury cars and houses, and grudges will disappear with the moment of death.
Therefore, before you die, resolve all grievances and do not leave them to the next generation. You should look down upon money. It does not matter whether you are rich or poor. Cherish every minute of the moment, and your life will be peaceful.
When Confucius was in Mount Tai, he met an old man named Rong Qiqi who was poor but very happy.
Rong Qiqi said: "Man is a member of all things, but he is nobler; men are superior to women, and as a man, I am happier; I have lived for more than ninety years, which is enough. After that, I will wait for the end of life. ."
Confucius suddenly understood and said: "One who is self-forgiving."
As a human being, no matter how much suffering you endure, no matter how angry you are, you must comfort yourself when you are about to die.
After the age of fifty, people slowly quit the workplace and return to their families; from strong to weak, from far away to hometown, from prosperous to simple. If you are still struggling, it means you have desires in your heart and cannot let go of anything.
As Zhuangzi said: "Respect by doing nothing, simplicity in the world, no one can compete with it for beauty."
Because we have no future and do not expect to be famous throughout the ages, we truly live as "ourselves". Whether it's beautiful or not, good or bad, it's all up to you.
05
Flowers are similar every year, but people are different every year.
Since birth, people have been on the train bound for the grave.
It seems to the fifty-year-old that the train has passed the halfway point. Next, at every stop, people of the same age got off the bus and waved their hands, never to be seen again.
People are alive just to take a ride and see the scenery. Why do you need to be trembling and why do you need to get entangled.
Life or death is uncertain. If you are well, it will be sunny.
Author: Commoner.
Pay attention to my words and enter your heart.
The pictures in the article come from the Internet.
Therefore, there have been many touching scenes and many touching people in society.For example, the old man Bai Fangli who makes money by riding a three-wheeler and helps poor students; Lei Feng who tries his best to help others...
When we are fifty years old, we have received too many "spiritual baptisms" , Therefore, we have understood something about life and death.
If you persist in being a good person, you will have no regrets in life.
04
Ordinary people pass away and everything is let go.
Of course, most people are unknown. So what's the point of living?
There is a saying that goes well: "Death is like a lamp going out."
All worries, pain, joy, sorrow, surprise, money, luxury cars and houses, and grudges will disappear with the moment of death.
Therefore, before you die, resolve all grievances and do not leave them to the next generation. You should look down upon money. It does not matter whether you are rich or poor. Cherish every minute of the moment, and your life will be peaceful.
When Confucius was in Mount Tai, he met an old man named Rong Qiqi who was poor but very happy.
Rong Qiqi said: "Man is a member of all things, but he is nobler; men are superior to women, and as a man, I am happier; I have lived for more than ninety years, which is enough. After that, I will wait for the end of life. ."
Confucius suddenly understood and said: "One who is self-forgiving."
As a human being, no matter how much suffering you endure, no matter how angry you are, you must comfort yourself when you are about to die.
After the age of fifty, people slowly quit the workplace and return to their families; from strong to weak, from far away to hometown, from prosperous to simple. If you are still struggling, it means you have desires in your heart and cannot let go of anything.
As Zhuangzi said: "Respect by doing nothing, simplicity in the world, no one can compete with it for beauty."
Because we have no future and do not expect to be famous throughout the ages, we truly live as "ourselves". Whether it's beautiful or not, good or bad, it's all up to you.
05
Flowers are similar every year, but people are different every year.
Since birth, people have been on the train bound for the grave.
It seems to the fifty-year-old that the train has passed the halfway point. Next, at every stop, people of the same age got off the bus and waved their hands, never to be seen again.
People are alive just to take a ride and see the scenery. Why do you need to be trembling and why do you need to get entangled.
Life or death is uncertain. If you are well, it will be sunny.
Author: Commoner.
Pay attention to my words and enter your heart.
The pictures in the article come from the Internet.
