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When a smart person accidentally does something stupid, we always say:
"This person is smart all his life, but he is confused for a moment."
But how do you know, that confusion is a kind of wisdom? Woolen cloth.
There is a saying that goes, "If you are smart, you will be misled by your cleverness."
Although being smart is indeed a good thing, sometimes it depends on the situation and other factors are not paid attention to.
will only bring trouble to yourself. Acting stupid occasionally is the real smart thing.
When people live in the world, they must express themselves, but they must also avoid making too many enemies for themselves.
Proving that you are capable is a good thing;
but sometimes it can seem too eager for quick success, making people feel uncomfortable, and too aggressive.
Therefore, sometimes learning to pretend to be stupid can not only make yourself shine temporarily, but also quickly improve the relationship between yourself and the people around you.
can make your life situation better and solve a lot of troubles for you.
Life, although not always smooth sailing.
But sometimes, you can also rely on your own intelligence to live better in this complex society.
In my opinion, "pretending to be stupid" is actually another form of cleverness.
We can stay rational at work, but we can choose to be emotional emotionally.
But in life, we should learn how to pretend to be stupid. After all, life lasts for a hundred years, and we must learn to be confused in life.
Sometimes, playing dumb appropriately in dealing with others can not only consolidate the relationship between you and the people around you.
provides you with convenience at work, and also helps you live more relaxedly and enjoy life to the fullest.
02
Give people a step up, and it is convenient for you
In fact, sometimes, you are not the only one who sees something is wrong.
But the reason why others choose not to speak out is because they all know the principle of "shooting the first bird".
Sometimes, it’s appropriate to keep your mouth shut.
Even if you see a flaw, you don’t have to say it, as long as you know what is going on.
After all, if you say something directly, it does show your intelligence.
But because you didn’t take the other person’s face into consideration in public;
this also created an enemy for yourself and brought you a lot of trouble.
Therefore, sometimes we can use "pretend to be stupid" to avoid a lot of unnecessary losses.
True wisdom does not care about temporary winning or losing, but to look at life from a long-term perspective.
Don't be smart just for the sake of temporary pleasure.
As long as you know the truth, it will be fine.
Sometimes pushing the other person too hard may lead to bad things and make others think you are difficult to get along with.
Appropriate "pretend to be stupid";
is not as good as giving the other party a leeway, but it is also helpful for you to establish a good image of yourself and make your life better.
03
Have a group of friends and live a comfortable life
Sometimes you are too eager for quick success. Even if you are very capable, you may not be able to get along well with the people around you.
In the TV series "Love is delicious", Xia Meng has been an excellent person since he was a child.
But because he is too strong, he has to fight for the first place in everything.
Although she did it, at the same time, she was also isolated and excluded by the people around her.
Pretending to be stupid doesn't make you really a fool, but it does it in a different way so that others can better accept you.
Nowadays, if you want to gain a foothold in society, without good popularity, it is difficult to get more opportunities.
Don’t worry about some things so much.
As long as it does not harm your own interests, we can suffer some "losses".
After all, we all know that "suffering is a blessing."
Even if sometimes you seem to be at a disadvantage, in fact you are just retreating to advance, so that you can gain more things.
In life, there is no need to put everything on the table and explain it clearly.
Playing dumb appropriately will not only help you gain the other person's favor, but will also help you live more relaxedly.
After all, don't waste your energy worrying about too many useless little things.
Instead, you should find ways to make your life easier.
04
Be open-minded and contented
In fact, pretending to be stupid can sometimes prevent you from falling into the whirlpool of struggle.
Life is only a hundred years old, so you should make your life more meaningful instead of living in intrigues with others every day.
Appropriate tolerance not only gives the other person a step up, but also shows your cultivation and open-minded heart.
and sometimes pretending to be stupid;
can also give us a true and comprehensive understanding of the overall situation, so that we will not fall into too embarrassing a situation.
Life is to live for yourself.
You don’t have to fight for some things. Do your best in everything. Your own feelings are the most important.
Pretend to be stupid, but sometimes you will live more comfortably than those "smart people".
Because people who can pretend to be stupid have a broader heart, they have less things to worry about, and their mood becomes more comfortable.
Old people often say that people should learn to be content with what they have, and those who know how to act stupid will not only be more cautious when encountering problems, but also understand that they should think twice before doing anything.
is also more open-minded and more willing to pursue what he likes.
do not want to be involved in those twists and turns. On the contrary, such people will live more freely and unrestrainedly, and be more easily satisfied.
