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Everyone is longing for love, pursuing love and warmth, but it is difficult to guarantee that they will not be hurt.
True love is originally the most expensive thing in the world. It is naturally difficult and difficult to chase. Injuries are inevitable. Everything is a price for growth and an experience.
Perhaps everyone lives in a special person, who has loved deeply but cannot be together, because of misunderstanding or other reasons hurriedly parting, turning into a regret in life.
The sweet scenes of the past, but the person in the story has already become a passer-by in life. The sudden sweetness and intensity, separated by reality, will make us hard to let go.
No one can erase the past, in fact, it is normal to not let go of the people you once loved deeply. With the long journey of life, there will always be moments of tossing and turning.
People nowadays are always too anxious, and they can't wait to get to the end of the story at once. In fact, love but not forgiveness is just a small part of your whole life. Sometimes you can't look away, just because you stand high enough.
When you stand in the perspective of life, you are often not so limited to this. The failure of a relationship does not determine anything. The last thing you should not lose is your belief in yourself and the pursuit of good happiness.
can't love it, and when you can't let it go, you might as well give yourself more time. Believe in time, believe in yourself, all the beauty and light will be waiting for you in the future, but the current situation is only short-lived.
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Before dealing with the problem,Solve your emotions first
love but can’t let go, when you can’t let go, people are fragile and sensitive, and their emotions are changeable. If you want to open up for a moment, you force yourself to let go. Memories and unwillingness.
Actually, you might as well give yourself some time to know that love is not the norm in life, so don’t be ashamed and don’t rush to force yourself to let go. You might as well deal with your emotions before solving this emotional problem.
Humans are emotional animals. A person who once liked so hard has disappeared. It will be regrettable, tangled, and painful. It is all normal.
Those in the past are real, or sweet or disputes, are all real, now regrets and sadness, mixed with unwillingness, and even hatred are normal, accepting your complex and changeable emotions and Feel.
The more you want to deny, the more turbulent those emotions will make you trapped in thinking dilemma and deep in a cage of pain.
And when you open your heart and are willing to openly accept all kinds of negative emotions, the energy is flowing. You just feel it, but you won't get stuck in it and become entangled.
Unsolved problems are handed over to the time
No one is omnipotent, no matter how powerful people have shortcomings, there are also problems that cannot be solved, and emotional matters are even more for the benevolent and the wise and the wise.
And time is the best antidote.
When you can’t afford to love, and when you can’t let go in your relationship, you might as well give yourself more time.Let time heal your scars and deal with those delicate and changeable feelings.
In order to prove themselves, many people force themselves to disconnect from the black line, thinking that they will let it go. In fact, they are just deceiving themselves.
Emotional scars are not caused overnight, so it takes time to heal.
Don’t torture yourself so much. When you can’t let it go, accept it, and be frank that you can’t let it go, not ashamed, so anxious problems, if you can’t solve them now, just deal with them coldly. One day they will melt away, in the rush of time. .
The more painful you are, the more you have to love yourself.
In the past, you gave too much attention to your feelings and ignored your own feelings. Now the feelings have been lost. You have more time to spend time with yourself and do all the things you like to please Own.
When you learn to live in the present, know and act, pamper yourself, and learn to love yourself, you will not be so obsessed with the love and dislike of others.
The person you think you can’t forget is just thinking about being forgotten
You think you can’t forget, so you’re suffering all day long, forcing yourself to let go, and then you will make your dream come true. I live in my thinking and fantasy, in the cage of the past.
Learn to let yourself go. Reconciliation with yourself is the ultimate goal of life. You will eventually learn to be alone, through the inner storm, and go where you want.
Learning to say goodbye is an adult’s homework.
No matter how good people are in the past, they have already left, and no matter how bad the past is, you have also come over.
Live in the present, live every moment you are willing to live well, be true, simple, with regrets and incomprehensions, set out again and start a new lesson in your life.
Then you put on your new clothes, walked on the longing path, and lived a brand-new appearance, and the person you thought would stay with you in your heart for the rest of your life, you thought you would never forget it. People are forgotten in unforgettable thoughts.
Memory will not be erased, but it can be diluted and replaced without giving up. Go on bravely, and time will give you a satisfactory answer.
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People who have not suffered in the middle of the night are not enough to talk about life.
Perhaps everyone has such a person in their hearts, sweet and regretful, which constitutes the main theme of youth.
But life is valuable in experience. The past is nothing but enriching our life experience. We can't escape, we can only accept it, and continue to move forward.
Life is like a Pandora’s box, and all of this is attracted by yourself. Only by adjusting yourself can you better move forward and dilute and settle those regrets.Be your stepping stone.
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