There will be many successes and failures in life, but these do not represent all of them. To know that failure is like a glass of bitter wine. If you indulge in it, you can only suffer unspeakably, but if you can let go of it, you will find that there is no shortage of sweet wine in your hand. Being able to calmly deal with the ups and downs of life, life will be more sensible, calm people can calmly deal with all difficulties, because calmness allows us to naturally and orderly deal with all the misfortunes that occur in the world, calm people will use a broad mind Tolerate all misfortunes.
People living in this world will not always be smooth and smooth, and will inevitably experience bumps and bumps, rifts, and even big setbacks and misfortunes. If you want to take your own path in life, you must be more atmospheric, not only to look forward to and enjoy the beautiful things, but also to be prepared to deal with difficulties and setbacks. There is a saying: "As big as a person's mind, the stage will be as big as it is." To be happy or sad for other people's praise or derogation, always led by others, do you still have time and energy to do big things? ? Therefore, one should still be more open-minded, generous, and calm.
If a person wants not to be moved by some humiliation, he must look farther and pay attention to some things he must do and what he should do. If a person encounters some difficulties, or in this ever-changing era, facing changes and unable to start, then he is destined to be eliminated.
Socrates moved into a building. This building has seven floors, and his home is on the lowest floor. The environment on the ground floor is the worst in this building. It always splashes sewage from above, throws dead rats, broken shoes, smelly socks and all kinds of dirty things. Many people living on the ground floor are frowning. Someone sees it. Socrates looked content and asked curiously: "Are you happy to live in such a room?"
"Yes! You don't know the beauty of living on the first floor! For example, you don't need to enter the door? Climbing high stairs; it is convenient to move things without a lot of effort; it is easy for friends to visit, and there is no need to knock on the door floor by floor to ask questions. What I am particularly satisfied with is that I can raise a bunch on the open space. Bunch of flowers,Growing vegetables one by one, the fun is endless! "Socrates couldn't help but said.
After a year, Socrates gave a room on the first floor to a friend. This friend had a hemiplegic old man who was inconvenient to go up and downstairs. He moved to the building. The highest floor, the seventh floor. But he is still happy every day. Someone saw it and asked, "Sir, are there many advantages to living in a seven-story building?" "Socrates said: "Yes, there are so many benefits!" Going up and downstairs every day is a good opportunity to exercise, which is good for your health; the light is good, and it does not hurt your eyes to read written articles; no one is disturbing your head, and it is very quiet day and night. "Later, that person met Socrates' student Plato and asked: "Your teacher is always so happy, but I feel that the environment he is in is not so good every time. "Plato said: "It is not the environment, but the state of mind that determines a person's mood. "
If a person's heart is calm, then even if it seems that the disaster in life falls on his head, it will not bring him a devastating disaster. But in a person's heart If you care about success and failure and gain and loss, then even a small failure will end his destiny. Calmness is to ask a person to be "satisfied and not surprised when facing the difficulties in life, and watch the flowers bloom in front of the court." ; Go and stay unintentionally, looking at the clouds and clouds in the sky. "Everyone's life is a process of "addition, subtraction, multiplication and division". Life is like a water tank. We always live "addition". If we don't add water to the tank, we lose its meaning. We must learn to dialectically. Look at life, look at gains and losses.
When you encounter things in life that make you sink, there will inevitably be things that will make you rise and warm up. When you fail, you must maintain a calm heart. When you succeed, you must maintain a calm personality. Such a person
What makes you miserable will surely make you strong.
In fact, everyone will encounter all kinds of misfortunes and suffer the oppression of life. Some people will choose to escape, hope One's own life can be smooth sailing, but only those who have endured the test of life frustration can truly grow up, and when a person experiences more pain,The deeper his experience and understanding of life, the stronger his endurance, and his ability will naturally become stronger. Because of this, when suffering approaches you, don’t always think about escape, always think about how to ask for help, don’t give up easily, don’t easily get discouraged, but stay calm, bravely stand up your chest and endure all kinds of blows and hardships. . Because these blows, pressures and pains are a kind of hardship and test of life for us, and they are tools to enhance our own ability and potential. When you endure more pain and suffering, your ability to bear and control life will also increase. These setbacks are actually the most nutritious substance in growth.
"How steel is made " Ostrovsky once said: "Steel is tempered by fire and rapid cooling, so Can be hard and not afraid of anything. Our generation is also trained in struggles and terrible trials, learning not to yield in front of life." A person wants to be a strong body like steel, wants to have a tenacious will like steel , Then we must know how to endure hardships, know how to calm down to experience hardships, only in this way, we can continue to thrive in the exercise. Because only by accepting the pain can the pain be transformed into the most powerful motivation.
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