text/Xia Mo
01, intro
Time is like a magician, it makes everyone's life different.
Time is fair to everyone, no matter poor or rich, everyone has the right to use time equally.
Some people do nothing all their lives and spend their time on something meaningless; while some people are good at managing time and change their lives through hard work.
Schopenhauer said: "Mediocre people care about how time is spent, and talented people try their best to use time."
A person can lead a life as he arranges his time.
Whether a person is rich or poor can be seen from the way he manages his time.
Poor people are always consuming time and let time slip away in a hurry; while rich people are good at using time to make money, using time to improve themselves, and using time to create opportunities for themselves.
So, how will rich people use and manage their time in the future?
02. A person who is capable will not spend his time arguing
If a person has money in the future, whether he has any prospects, see if he knows how to spend time to enhance his value .
The stronger the person, the better at using time to prove himself. And the weaker the person, always anxious to prove himself.
When arguing with others, he has to win; when he disagrees with others, he has to argue; when cooperating with others, he is strong and has to fight for a place in everything...
The weaker the person,Spending time on meaningless arguments, not good at reflecting, not good at using time, and breaking through yourself.
Smart people understand that they want to be in front of others, and they don’t need to be questioned by others. Instead of using words to explain, they should settle down, do what they should do, improve their knowledge, and enrich their experience. .
And, knowing that if you want to become stronger, you must make the most of your time.
Capable people tend to be calm and don't make unnecessary disputes with others. Because they know that as long as they have real talents, they will not be buried like gold.
A person who has the ability to have disputes with others, he will not spend too much time to consume himself, but will use more time to improve himself and prove his point of view and value.
The more people who know how to use time to enhance their value, the more promising they will be in the future.
03. Will not spend time on endless complaints
Complaining is not only a negative energy mentality, but also a waste of time.
In Mr. Lu Xun's wife Xianglin, the child was taken away by a wolf, which is an unacceptable tragedy. But she said it to others over and over again, turning them from sympathy to numbness, and from numbness to boredom.
Afterwards, no one sympathized with her anymore, she still talked like that, did not change her life at all, nor did she lose any pain in her heart.
As time passed, Xianglin's wife became more and more haggard, because her spirit was hit hard and she lost the motivation to do things. She was no longer a living life, and eventually died in the wind and snow.
There are always some unbearable sorrows and traumas in life. If you can make good use of your time to heal your injuries,Regroup yourself and you will eventually be cured.
Complaining can't solve all problems, but will make a person's spirit more and more wilting.
When a person loses hope, he should adjust his mentality, stop complaining, try to find a "stepping stone" for his life, and try to live in the sun.
A capable person never spends time on endless complaints.
When encountering troughs, encountering poverty, stopping complaining, setting new goals for oneself, and then working hard, it is often a turning point in life.
Complaining is actually a waste of time and disrespect for life.
The most precious thing for a person is time. If you don't even cherish yourself, no one can redeem you from your miserable fate. people who can change their destiny are often those who are good at using time and changing their embarrassment.
04. Will not squander time in invalid social interaction
From the habit of making friends, one can tell whether a person has money in the future.
Strong people are good at choosing friends and being alone. The weak are always afraid of loneliness and continue to indulge themselves in low-quality social interactions.
Goethe said: "Between today and tomorrow, there is a long time; while you are still in spirit, learn to do things quickly."
Actually, in this world, you can resonate with your soul There are very few people. When there are no high-quality friends around, don't pay attention to low-quality social interactions.
If you don’t know how to choose friends and just blindly deliver your heart, it will not only waste your time,It is also easy to be disappointed by low-quality social interactions.
Instead of constantly making friends and eliminating inner loneliness, it is better to improve yourself. Let one's heart become strong, become abundance, and no longer be afraid of loneliness.
When you can quickly improve yourself in a certain field, you will be attracted to like-minded friends. This kind of friendship is often stronger and longer than the fate that comes from deliberately trying to curry favor.
A capable person, even if there is no friend around him, can be alone and use time to improve himself.
When you are alone, you can be more clear about what you should do, make better use of time, and improve your learning efficiency.
Don't be afraid of being alone, try to get used to being alone and enjoy being alone.
When you are lonely, you can be better at yourself, and you can spend all your time very fulfilling. You can calm down to accomplish something, and it won't be that difficult to succeed.
05. Summary
The stronger a person’s ability, the better he knows how to manage his time. The more people who know how to use their time, the more promising they will be and the more money they will have in the future.
Pavlov said: "In the world, we only live once, so we should cherish our time. We must live a real life and live a valuable life."
To be alive, we must manage ourselves reasonably Time, don’t be easily influenced by the environment or others. Try to improve your concentration so that you can accomplish more in a shorter time.
As a human being, we should try our best to give play to our value. When we shine, we will have more sincere friends.Appear in your own life.
Don't complain about life, failure is the norm.
When encountering difficulties and setbacks, first try to change your mentality, change your use of time, have fewer complaints and more practical actions.
People who are better at using time will have a wider road in life.
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Author: Xia Mo MO, cutting-edge emotional mentor, psychologist, more than 1 billion popular emotional writers across the network, happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
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