Evening Reading | The biggest waste of life: worry, complain, accuse, compare!

People's life, time is precious.

cannot waste time indefinitely worrying, complaining, accusing, comparing.

01

Worrying about

is actually embarrassing yourself. Tension and worry every day will only make you tired physically and mentally. There will always be variables in

life, there will always be wind and rain, and no one can predict everything in advance.

Therefore, instead of worrying and worrying about yourself, it is better to let yourself relax and spend every day easily, let nature take its course, face everything calmly, and don’t let worry imprison your body and your heart.

02

complain

A life full of complaints will be far from happiness. Dissatisfaction with the environment, dissatisfaction with others, dissatisfaction with fate, dissatisfaction with reality, and finally dissatisfaction with your own choices and decisions...

Complaining will weaken your strength of struggle, hinder your progress, and make you fall into negative emotions. extricate themselves.

try to face all the wind and rain bravely and calmly, accept every decision you make, even if the process is full of hardships, don't give up easily, let alone hold back and feel sorry for yourself.

03

accuses

of encountering troubles, blame others first; if things go wrong, complain about conditions first. This is a passive attitude towards life and a manifestation of lack of responsibility.

complaining blindly will only make you lose sight of your own problems and your mistakes. Smart people know how to reflect on themselves first and find answers from themselves.

Only by facing the problems encountered in life with a positive attitude can you learn lessons, gain experience, and make your life go smoothly in the future.

04

Comparison

In life, it is the most important thing that you feel happy or not, satisfied or not, happy or not.

Don't fall into constant comparison with others, don't disturb your pace because of others.

Everyone has their own opportunities and luck, and also encounters ups and downs and twists and turns.

Don't compare the achievements of others with your own, and don't forget your original intention and pursuit because you blindly follow and imitate other people's way of life.

Listen to your heart more, think more about the life you want to live, walk your own way, and live your own life.

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source | Internet, the original text has been deleted

Producer: Wang Shibin Zhang Xiaohui

editor: Ou Can Zou Fei

Responsible editor: Gu Shuai Xie Fei