Two male nannies moved into the home of a JingShenBing widowed sister-in-law. What happened four years later?
Opening remarks
28-year-old Shanwa stood silently in front of Shansheng's grave after attending the funeral of his old friend Shansheng, feeling very heavy.
The beating of our old friend here is equivalent to the begging of a man in the world. He and Shan Sheng were originally from the same village. They have been in YiQiWan since they were young. They have had a good relationship, so they beat up their old friend. He was three years old when he was growing up in the mountains, so he naturally became brother.
Before the year, Shan Sheng asked Shan’s kid to work in the city. Back then, Shanwa's father was paralyzed in bed, Shanwa's mother was weak and sickly. Shanwa had not yet married, and Shanwa really couldn't leave, so she did not enter the city with Shansheng.
Shansheng quickly took root in the city, bought a house and married a wife, and TaDie had passed away, so he took his mother into the city. He came back to visit Shanwa's Die Niang from time to time. Although he was not rich, he would give Shanwa more or less money to help make up for the family every time he came back.
Shanwa's Die Niang died of illness one after another. Shanwa had no worries, so Shansheng introduced him to work in his factory.
Now, Shan Sheng died in a car accident, leaving behind his sick mother, his 30-year-old wife, and his two-year-old daughter.
The pillar of Shansheng left, the entire burden was on his wife Shuxian.
Unexpectedly, Shuxian could not withstand the sudden blow and actually developed a mental state.
[The road of life always has variables, and no one can predict what path they will face. 】
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1. Shanwa's fiancée Mingxiu
After someone introduced, Shanwa and Mingxiu from Shanhou Village were engaged. They just waited for Shanwa to repair the house and then held the wedding.
Unexpectedly, Shansheng’s wife Shuxian was too sad and became mentally confused. Shanwa discussed with her fiancée Mingxiu how to help Shuxian. Mingxiu means that she has not married Shanwa, so it is not convenient to express her opinion, so she just needs to make her own decisions.
Shanwa said, "Then I'll go to Shuxian's house to take a look first, okay?"
Mingxiu replied, "You can do it, I'll wait for your reply."
Shanwa came back after leaving for a few days.
Shanwa was in a heavy mood. He said to Mingxiu, "Shuxian has become a fool and can't do anything. What do you think?"
Mingxiu said, "What do you say, I will listen to you."
Shanwa said, "I think you go to her house with me, and I will still go to the factory to work. You take care of them at her house. You think this is great."
Mingxiu was very straightforward and said : "I have no objection, but I have to go back and talk to my parents and see what they say."
Shanwa said, "Okay, you can discuss with your parents so that you can go to her house and take care of them for a while. After Shuxian gets better, then talk again. I have to rush back now, I'll wait for your letter."
[Friendship between people, when you are good and I am good, I can't tell whether it is really good. Only when you are good or not can you tell whether it is really good or not. 】
2. Shanwa has become a real nanny in the house
Shuxian does not eat or drink, does not talk or laugh, does not comb his head or wash his face, and does not have any clothes. I sat on the threshold all day long and stared at the door blankly.
Her mother-in-law dragged her sick body and barely prepared the meal. She held it in her hands, but she just held it and didn't eat it.
Her mother-in-law hugged her two-year-old granddaughter and sighed, without any help.
Her mother-in-law saw the arrival of Shanwa as if she saw hope. She held Sanwa's hand and said, "You old friend was in a hurry to leave, so she left us and left. Fortunately, you came to take care of us, otherwise how would we live our lives?"
Shanwa said, "Old friend's mother, don't say that. My old friend left, my parents also left, you are my real mother. I will take responsibility for your family to the end like an old friend, so don't worry."
Sanwa does housework after work, and other things are easy to talk about, and Shuxian's personal hygiene is difficult to handle.
Shanwa took a photo of the situation here, sent it to Mingxiu's mobile phone, and urged her to make a decision quickly. It is indeed necessary to have a manpower here.
Two days later, Shanwa received Mingxiu's WeiXin: At first, my parents disagreed, it was so kind to live with his fiancé. Later I showed them the photos you sent, and they agreed. But let’s talk about some things when we meet.
[It is the time to use people. Thanks to Mingxiu’s parents’ reasonable parents, they support Mingxiu to take care of my old friend’s house. 】
3. Shansheng’s mother advocated that Shanwa and Mingxiu get married at Shansheng’s house.
Mingxiu arrived soon, and she said: My parents support me, but he said, "I am also worried. After all, I haven't officially held a wedding with you yet, so I just lived together like this, which is inappropriate."
I said, "What should I do?"
Shansheng's mother said, "Your parents reminded me right. Shanhu was dragged down by my family and would not be able to go home to repair the new house for a while. I'll be the master, you two will do the wedding at my house."
I agreed and thanked.
Mingxiu told her parents about this, and Mingxiu's parents also agreed.
So, by Mingxiu's parents, Mingxiu and Shanwa entered the bridal chamber at Shansheng's house.
Shanwa goes to work in the factory, and Mingxiu takes care of housework at Shansheng's house.
[People, as long as the true love is there, all difficulties can be solved easily. 】
4. Shansheng’s iron buddy Ahu
Ahu is also a rural person. He entered the factory with Shansheng and became a son-in-law in the city.
His wife is Amei, who usually keeps Ah Hu tightly, and Ah Hu is a son-in-law who is in charge of the family. In addition to obeying the management, he is also obeying the management. After YuNan, she followed Ah Hu to Shansheng's house for several times. Later, Ah Hu was not allowed to go to Shansheng's house again.
After Shansheng's wife became ignorant, Ahu once said to Amei: "You know that Shansheng's wife is crazy and doesn't care about the old and the young, I think."
Before Ahu finished speaking, Amei took over the conversation and shouted: "What do you think? I know, don't you just want me to replace the crazy man and take care of the old and the young man for her? You dream. Not only do I not go, you are not allowed to cross the threshold of the crazy man's family again."
Ahu and Shanwa mentioned this matter very distressed. On one side is a good guy, and on the other side is a Lion Roar in Hedong. He doesn't know how to face Shan Sheng's family.
Shanwa comforted Ah Hu: "It's a visitor, what if you don't give in? My old friend Shansheng's family, you don't have to worry about it. Just have my husband and I take care of you."
Ah Hu nodded helplessly and said, "I live a frustrated life."
[Ah Hu is also a kind and righteous man, but he was defeated by his unhuman wife and turned himself into an unkind and unrighteous villain. It is just in line with a saying: If you don’t have to plant crops, you will only miss a season, and if you don’t have to marry a wife, you will only miss a lifetime. 】
5. There was an accident in Mingxiu's family
Mingxiu's mother suddenly suffered a stroke and suffered from the sequelae of hemiplegia . Mingbei has gone, and the distance cannot quench the near thirst, so Mingxiu has to go home to take care of her mother. Although Xiu has an older sister, she has already married to Dong
. After Mingxiu left, Shansheng's family fell into trouble again.
Shanwa decisively quit his job at the factory and devoted himself to becoming a nanny at the Shansheng family.
Faced with Shan Wa's actions, Ah Hu could not remain silent. He discussed with Shan Wa that the two of them took turns to be the nanny of Shan Sheng's family.
Shanwa agreed, but Ahu's wife was furious: "Okay, you are becoming more and more lawless. I am talking ugly words in my head. If you dare to go, I will break up with you and get a divorce."
Ahu said: "You must be grateful in life. If Shansheng hadn't given me blood transfusions, my bones would have been knocked long ago."
Ahu sneered: "Don't you just give you some blood? He is also in the limelight and has received a reward?"
Ahu saw Amei's frivolous look and couldn't bear it anymore, so he slapped her.
is amazing now. Amei sat on the ground and was snot and tearfully scolding Ah Hu.
This time, Ah Hu's tiger's strength came up. They had no children, so he had no worries. He became a man who was willing to rush to his friends.
Ahu and Amei divorced, although they left the house in vain, they seemed to have removed the tight curse on their heads, and they were light and shouted, "I'm free!"
Ahu decisively quit his job in the factory, moved into Shansheng's house, and worked as a nanny at the residence.
Ahu said: "Shanwa, the reason why I agreed to divorce is to help my brother Shansheng and take good care of his family. I have achieved my goal, so I will be the nanny of Shansheng's family. You should apply to resume work."
Shanwa said: "I admire your loyalty, but I have to face the reality. It is more appropriate for us to take turns to be a nanny."
The plan they agreed on before was to be a nanny and the other to work to earn living expenses. Only by taking turns in this way can we last for a long time.
Ahu thought about it carefully and felt that there was something wrong with it. Besides, given that Shansheng died for the factory, the factory applied to work in the rotation of Shanwa and Ah Hu.
Ahu said, "Okay, then let's settle it."
[The mountain is born in the spirit of heaven, and you will definitely be able to sense how his good friends help him take care of his family. As long as the true love is there, it doesn’t matter whether there is any entrustedness during your lifetime. 】
6. Three men in Shuxian's eyes
Since Shan Sheng suddenly passed away, Shuxian, who was extremely loving to Shan Sheng, was stunned. She didn't believe this. When people told her that the urn was filled with Shan Sheng's ashes, she hugged the urn tightly in her arms and never let go of her hands all day and night.
She was tired and her energy was gone. She didn't know how to be hungry, didn't know how to sleep, and forgot that she had a two-year-old daughter.
She just stared at the door blankly, looking forward to her sky, her earth, and her heart - Shan Sheng, appeared in front of the door, and shouted with a smile: "Shuxian, I'm back."
Day by day, day by day, I don't know how many days have passed, she can't wait for Shan Sheng to appear.
So she walked around, muttering, "Shansheng is back, Shansheng is back", while using a stick to search on the ground.
Mingxiu took care of her in those days, combing her hair, washing her body, and wiping her face. Put her in clean clothes. I chatted with her and told her many stories.
combined with the drug Zhiliao, she became much quieter.
She will bring her rice bowl to her mother-in-law and pick up food for her mother-in-law. He will feed his daughter and comb his hair.
Suddenly one day, Mingxiu disappeared.
She knew that it was Shansheng’s good friend Ahu who came to her house to cook, wash clothes, and talk to her.
But, Ah Hu is gone, Shanwa, yes, the mountain kid who fought with Shansheng is here.
Cooking, washing clothes, and talking to her.
The mountain baby is gone again, and Ah Hu is here again, but he just can't see the mountain life.
Where did Shansheng go? He took a shower with
and didn't want me anymore.
Mingxiu is here and washes me away.
She said to her mother-in-law: "Mother-in-law, there are two men at home, one is Ahu and the other is Shanwa. No, there must be three men, and my man Shansheng. Mother-in-law, why is your son Shansheng missing? I'll look for it-"
She picked up the stick, shouted Shansheng, and started looking for it on the ground.
[What does it mean to have a deep love between husband and wife? Shuxian dedicated her whole body and mind to Shansheng. Shansheng is her support, and everything about her. If Shansheng is gone, everything about her will be gone. 】
7. The drizzle is silent and sound
. Shuxian is sometimes awake and sometimes confused. The overall trend is moving in a positive direction, which makes Shansheng's mother very pleased.
Shansheng's mother never gives up on her guidance to her daughter-in-law Shuxian.
She and Shuxian slept in the same room, chatting with her, talking about the sky and the earth, just looking at the scenery but not the mountain life.
is to dilute Shan Sheng’s memory in Shuxian’s heart, so that she can free herself from her extreme longing for Shan Sheng and face a new life as soon as possible.
This is the doctor's advice. Shanwa and Ahu cooperated with Shansheng's mother and persevered in doing so.
Shanhua borrowed a car from a friend and took her to the suburbs for a ride, climbing a mountain, and rowing a boat, guiding her to recall interesting stories from childhood.
Shanwa specifically said to Ah Hu: "It seems that during these times, our psychological suggestion and guidance to Shuxian was not in vain. I think you have to play the role of a lover and ignite her extinguished love fire, so that she may be able to return to reality faster."
Ah Hu pondered for a while and said, "I have thought about it this way, but I'm afraid of taking advantage of others' danger. I heard you think so too, so I'll try it."
Shanwa smiled friendly and said, "Try it, try it boldly, but you have to master the measure and don't be too hasty."
Ah Hu said, "This is natural, I know it in my heart."
[As the saying goes, heart disease requires heart medicine. They, Shanshengma, Shanwa, Mingxiu, and Ahu, are all Shuxian's psychological coaches. In Shanwa's words: "Especially Ahu has a greater effect, believe it or not." ]
8. Time is the TeXiao medicine to soothe spiritual trauma
Four years is long and short.
As for Shuxian's mental trauma, how much has it been cured?
In Shansheng MaDe words, it is "My daughter-in-law Shuxian, her heart is like a mirror. She told me that she just can't overcome this hurdle. In the past four years, under the guidance of our unyielding, she finally let it go. She said that her daughter is four years old, but isn't her daughter a mountain? Isn't her mountain by my side? Listen to it, it's so good. Unfortunately, my son Shanshan has a weak life and has no blessings to be with Shuxian until he grows old."
Shuxian is now untied, and she is freed from the abyss of sadness, and she has returned to normal.
After four years of running-in with Ah Hu, she seemed to see the shadow of Shan Sheng in Ah Hu.
This time, Mingxiu combed Shuxian's hair, not combing the knotted hair back then, but combed her bride's hairstyle.
In a peaceful atmosphere, the groom Ahu and the bride Shuxian accept the blessings of the people who came to congratulate.
【Time can calm the trauma of the mind, which seems to have become a consensus among people. However, waiting passively for the efficacy is not significant, but actively guiding it to see the effect. 】
Epilogue
After Shan Sheng left, the courtyard that was once depressed has now become a popular courtyard.
On the 70th birthday of Shansheng Mom, those who surrounded Shansheng Mom were: Shansheng's daughter, Ahu, Shuxian, and their sons, Shanwa, Mingxiu, and their sons.
A song wishes you a happy birthday, which is enough to comfort the spirit born in the mountains.
[Endless time, endless life, although it is always in the cycle of reincarnation, it is constantly updated. It shows righteousness and abandons WoChuo. 】
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