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After marriage, Yang Qiang resigned and started a business and registered a construction company. The start-up capital was his own savings of 200,000 plus the 500,000 given to me on the day of the wedding.
When he used to do business, he often dealt with some project-related people, which was also accumulating some connections. Shortly after the company opened, he took on several small projects and slowly got on track.
After I got married, my father and I have always had a bad relationship. He doesn't want to pay attention to me, and I don't want to see his face.
After more than half a year, I gave birth to twins and two sons. Yang Qiang was very happy and asked his mother-in-law to come and take care of me. He also hired an -month nanny .
Unexpectedly, my dad came with my mom. Although my dad didn't say too much to me, he seemed to be very happy and our relationship eased a lot.
Later, I realized that the reason why my dad came was that Yang Qiang had visited him and reached an agreement.
Yang Qiang told my dad that it would be better to have two sons with one of them and the other with my last name. I am my dad's daughter, which is equivalent to my dad having a grandson.
Of course my dad agrees, and his impression of him has also changed a lot.
But unexpectedly, after a few days, Yang Qiang asked my father for another request. He said that the company was in a difficult situation and all the funds were raised, but the project payment was not down. The capital chain was about to break. It was okay to ask my father to lend him money or use to invest in .
My dad was reluctant and gave Yang Qiang 1 million, half of which was considered shares and half of them were considered loans.
I only found out about these things more than a month later. Because I found out that two children and two surnames were two, I asked Yang Qiang what was going on.
He didn't hide it and said it all in detail.
I was a little unhappy and shouldn't have used my child to exchange for money.
He said, how great this is, your father has a grandson, your father-daughter relationship has improved, and the company has also come out of a difficult situation, a win-win situation.
Later, the company's operations were getting better and better, and every year there were good profits, , and there were houses and cars.
Our relationship is pretty good. We have never quarreled. We are so respectful to each other. He also gave me gifts every few days and took me out for dinner with my children, and traveled once a year.
He is also willing to spend money on me. There are three houses in total, and there are two houses with my name written on it. He will basically be satisfied with whatever I want to buy.
I live a simple life of taking care of my husband and children at home. I am very content and willing to live like this for the rest of my life.
But unexpectedly, he cheated on him after only 7 years of marriage.
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That night, he came back very late. After returning home, he went to the bathroom to take a shower. I turned his phone inward and found out that he had cheated for half a year.
No wonder he has become more and more cold to me over the past six months. He always says he is very busy and has fewer and fewer children with me and fewer children, and he has no patience with children. It turns out that he has fallen into another land of gentleness.
He told his mistress in the chat record that when the Spring Festival is over, he will file for divorce with me and marry her.
htmlA marriage of more than 0 years is about to enter a desperate situation because of an extramarital affair.I made a big fuss with him hysterically, but he became more determined to leave me because of this.
He said, I'm sorry, I'm not bad, but he and I have no passion. Even holding me, it feels like touching my right hand with my left hand, which feels too dull.
And the woman outside made him feel excited and felt infinite vitality...
My heart was cut like a knife, and I was extremely angry, and I couldn't help but slap him.
He slammed the door and left the house.
This mistress is not a good person. After Yang Qiang and I broke up, she called me repeatedly and insulted me, asking me to get out of his house as soon as possible.
He also followed the mistress to deal with me, from occasionally returning late to not returning home at night, to finally moving out to living with the mistress, and blatantly taking the mistress to various public places every day.
This family scandal soon swept across my network. During that time, I felt that everyone around me was watching my jokes.
I have cried to him, made trouble, begged, and even thought about committing suicide.
has been tugging back and forth for nearly a year, and I finally gave up on him completely and ended my 8-year marriage with an agreement.
One person has half of the property, one child is one, and the two houses under my name belong to me. This distribution seems fair, but in fact he is the winner.
Recalling eight years ago, he had nothing. I married him when he was the most difficult time. Even though everyone around me was opposing, I still stood firmly by his side and worked with him step by step until now.
Now, I have swallowed the bitter fruit of meeting someone wrong and paid for my wrong choice.
For him, in his 30s and successful career is the time to be proud of his youth.
and what about me? A divorced woman in her 30s, with a son, and she doesn't even have a job.
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After the divorce, the mistress quickly moved into our original house and became the mistress of the house. Yang Qiang put his son to his parents and lived a free and easy life.
I found a job in a nearby training school. I picked up my son to and from school every day, and lived a physical and mental exhaustion.
My mother said, let me go home, but what kind of face do I have to go back?
The neighbors around me are very familiar with the places where my parents live, and I don’t want to face them in such an image.
This is the path I chose. No matter how difficult it is, I have to continue to go on and pay for my mistakes.
Because the child is one person, I didn’t ask him to pay the child support at the beginning. When I raised the child alone, I realized that raising a child requires a lot of money.
Clothes, shoes, extracurricular tutoring, interest classes, etc.
As the child grows older, the expenses are getting more and more. I have to take multiple positions to create better material conditions for my son.
In addition to working in training structure, I also serve as a stylist at a friend’s wedding shop.
Unexpectedly, the mistress actually found out where I worked and came to provoke me.
She said she was going to pay three times the price and let me be her stylist on her wedding day with my ex-husband.
I refused and said there was no schedule that day, so she made a big fuss in the store, saying that we would not do business when we opened the door and simply closed down as soon as possible.
Her unreasonable acts made the customers in the store look at each other, seriously affecting the normal operation of the store.
I couldn't bear it anymore and called Yang Qiang to come and take the shrew away.
He rushed over in less than 20 minutes, coaxed her softly and told her not to mess around. He would find her a more expensive wedding shop and a better stylist, and then pulled her away.
Looking at their departure backs, the tears that I endured for a long time finally shed unyieldingly.
This man who used to speak softly next to me now hugged another woman and left me.
A friend patted my shoulder and comforted me and said, "This adulterer is not worthy of your sadness, don't think too much."
But I don't want to give up. I have calmed down and left their world, but she has been reluctant to disturb my life. I can't swallow this tone no matter what.
After thinking about it, I made a plan to teach her a lesson.
Since she likes to interfere in other people's families so much, I will let her taste the feeling of being interfered.
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The day before my son’s birthday, I asked my son to call Yang Qiang and asked him to bring his younger brother here to celebrate his birthday.
Originally, the two brothers were in the same school. After the divorce, Yang Qiang sent his youngest son to his mother-in-law to take care of him and he was no longer together.
My mother-in-law is in the county town, and we are in the city. The distance is about 100 kilometers. There is no way, I only see each other once a month.
That night, I dressed up carefully, put on a fresh and elegant makeup, sprayed his favorite perfume, and put on the white skirt we wore when we were in love. The moment
opened the door, I obviously saw his eyes with stunning and astonishment.
After my son was born, I haven't dressed up so seriously for a long time.
He looked at me carefully several times, saying that he would never have thought that after I divorced him, his life would be pretty good and he became much better.
I responded with a smile and said, "When you meet important people, of course you have to dress up beautifully."
He looked at me with a little surprise. Since he cheated, we haven't lived in harmony like this for a long time, so he probably is a little uncomfortable.
That night we celebrated a very lively and warm birthday for our sons. The son and brother were also very happy, and their parents kept calling.
He watched his sons play affectionately. For a moment, I suddenly thought I had returned to the sweet time when I just got married.
Dinner was not over yet, his newlywed wife kept calling, and he hung up several impatiently.
I told him sensibly that the cake has been cut, and the sons may have wished, so you should go back early, so she won’t be anxious.
The eldest son said in grievance that he couldn't bear to leave his father, and the younger son was unwilling to leave, saying that he wanted to sleep with his brother.
I pulled my two sons and said that my aunt was waiting for my father at home, and we would let my father come next time.
He was a little reluctant to leave, kissed his two sons, looked back at us several times before opening the door and leaving.
My face instantly regained its indifference after he closed the door. After so many years, he still took this trick. For a period of time after
, as long as it was a holiday, I would pick up my younger son or take my older son to see my younger son. The sons would call him voice and post videos, and constantly contact him in the name of his sons.
Men are like this. Wife is the best for others and children are their own.
Although he betrayed his marriage, his relationship with his sons is quite good. Every time his sons say he misses him, he will take time to visit him.
The two sons had a good relationship, but I deliberately let them get along with each other frequently, and they were increasingly reluctant to part with each other.
The youngest son told him that he didn't want to live with his grandparents, and wanted to live with his brother and mother.
My youngest son is a little uncomfortable with his grandparents. He is taciturn and unhappy and often catches colds. He is very happy when he is with me.
There is no way, Yang Qiang said, please help me take care of my son and let the two brothers live together. He paid for the child support every month, and he paid for the two children.
This way, we meet more frequently.
Every time I meet, I pretend to be gentle, considerate and understanding. His attitude towards me is getting better and better, and gradually he has changed from passive to active.
And his current employee quickly smelled the sense of crisis and often killed a series of calls urged him to go home.
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Seeing that the plan was effective, I began to carry out further attacks on him.
I sent my sons to a friend's house and told Yang Qiang that I was feeling uncomfortable and asked him to come and see me.
A man's desire to protect always gushed out when a woman was fragile. When he saw me weak, he kept busy taking care of me all night and didn't leave until midnight.
Although we didn’t have any substantial happenings that night, I feel that he made a breakthrough in his relationship with me.
After that day, he would make excuses to see me from time to time, give me a toy today and bring me a gift tomorrow.
In order to destroy his relationship with his mistress, I deliberately left some traces on his clothes and car, and occasionally fell a few hairs, and some small objects such as lipstick mirrors.
Finally one day, he came to me with a swollen nose and eyes, saying that his wife was unreasonable and insisted on grasping some clues that he cheated. They had a big fight and even started a move.
I didn't say a word, and silently found the medicine box to clean his wounds.
The ambiguous atmosphere continued to spread between us. That night, he turned off his phone and stayed with me. Although I was not happy, he still worked hard to cooperate with him.
His relationship with his current staff became worse and worse, and he became more and more sticky with me.
is the same as when he wanted to divorce me. He said he wanted to divorce his current employee and remarry me.
I told him that everything would follow his arrangements, but I have been betrayed by you and I need to see your sincerity.
He said blamingly that he was obsessed with it at the beginning, so he picked up sesame and lost the watermelon.
The woman looked well-behaved and understanding at first, but she didn't expect that she was just good at disguising her face. She spoke sarcastically and meanly, and only knew how to spend money every day and didn't care about him at all...
He said that he regretted it. He often remembered my goodness. He must divorce her and did not want to give her property. She had been married for less than a year and did not contribute to the family at all.
I looked at her without saying anything with a smile.
He kissed me when he left and asked me to wait for him to divorce.
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He seems to be less and less willing to go back to his house, and he has come to me more often.
I intentionally or unintentionally revealed to him that the stock trading has failed recently, and the fund has suffered losses again. Now the economy is very tight, so I asked him if there are any profitable projects to introduce to me.
He was a little surprised because in his heart, I have always been a cautious and conservative person and will not touch risky things like stock funds.
I pretended to be pitiful and said, after the divorce, I didn’t earn much money and didn’t want to be wronged by the child, so I learned to manage my finances, but I didn’t expect to lose money.
He asked to give me some funding, but I refused.
I said, you need to pay back the money you borrowed. If your current employee finds out, you will be uneasy and I don’t want you to make things difficult for you.
He said that he had more than 800,000 yuan in cash, so he transferred it to me first, but he had to issue an invoice in the name of the company. Anyway, the woman didn't understand it. She was just a simple-minded vase without connotation.
He transferred money to a company in the name of purchasing office supplies and went around in circles.
More than a month later, he came to me with his divorce certificate, saying that he would start over with me, and promised that he would treat me well this time.
My goal was finally achieved, but I don’t know whether to withdraw at this time.
divorced him for so long, and now he has used means to regain his heart. I actually have the idea of starting over with him.
However, he divorced me so resolutely back then, and now he divorced me for me. I can't guarantee that when the next mistress appears, I will repeat the same mistake.
I don’t want to fall twice in the same place, this time I ask my parents for advice.
My attitude made my dad both surprised and happy.
My dad said, if he really cared about you so much at the beginning, how could he divorce you for the sake of the woman outside?
Then, he gave examples to talk about many aspects of Yang Qiang, proving that he does not value feelings but only values interests. For example, for his company, he changed his child's surname and negotiated with his father-in-law...
My father talked to me a lot. He has been working in the agency for many years and has rich experience and insights into the world.
His words also alerted me. I pretended to rekindle my old relationship with him during this period and almost got myself in.
finally left this scumbag who was used to cheating, and I said I could not jump into this fire pit again.
However, he has divorced me, and I dare not break up with him rashly, for fear that he will lose his mind and do something bad to me and my children after he finds out that he has been deceived.
My dad gave me an idea, which would also allow me to see him better. If he is sincerely good to me, I can remarry him, and if not, I can get rid of him.
I asked my friend to pretend that the online lending company called him and told him that I owed more than 1 million yuan outside and asked him to help me pay back the money.
He asked me what was going on, and I said I lost money in stock trading.
He said again, what about the 800,000 I gave me last time?
I said, I lost money.
He was silent for a moment, and then said to me, in your current situation, we are not suitable for remarriage, otherwise others would ask him for a account, which would have a bad impact on his company.
He told me not to worry, he would find a way to help me.
I said with emotion, thank you.
I told myself that if he was really willing to pay off my debts for me with another million, I would remarry him.
But the facts proved once again that what my dad said was right.
From this day on, Yang Qiang will no longer come to me. Even if his son looks for him, he said he has no time and is on a business trip outside.
Later, I found out that he had blacklisted my WeChat.
Just like that, he disappeared into my world again, even more thoroughly than when he was divorced.
I originally wanted to use this method to test him, and I also wanted to give it a chance, but I didn't expect that he would run faster than I thought.
I finally saw his face clearly and secretly glad that I didn’t fall into this evil fate again.
Later, our intersection was limited to the child support he made to my bank card every month. I never saw him again, nor did he visit his son again.
I still don’t know if I did something wrong in this matter. In order to retaliate against the mistress and the scumbag, I became the character I hate the most.
But life cannot be repeated, I can only look forward.
Even if the road ahead is unknown, I will not look back.
For love and marriage, I choose to let things go, leave it to fate, I will be lucky if I get it, and I will be lucky if I lose it.
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