Story: I offer 5,000 yuan to raise my grandson every month, and you give your parents 3,000 yuan to retire every month. Why?
Wang Dan’s mother-in-law is very good. She usually contributes money and efforts, and is also very good to this small family, so Wang Dan’s husband feels very grateful.
But Wang Dan is not grateful. He usually feels that his parents have not done enough, and he also says that his parents-in-law just enjoys his happiness. He has never helped me take care of the children. He also said that he is taking care of us. This is fake.
Wang Dan is an employee of an ordinary company. Because of a business deal, he met Zhang Ping. At that time, Zhang Ping was a young and promising manager of a company, and he looked handsome.
Wang Dan was instantly attracted by this little brother. Everyone knows that his family's conditions are so good, so Wang Dan thinks that this person must be taken.
At the beginning, this man didn't like Wang Dan, so he could only say that he should be an ordinary friend, but after getting along with the two, he found that this girl had different charms.
At that time, Wang Dan was constantly pursuing each other, so the man also fell in love with Wang Dan, and the two of them naturally got together. The two of them just met for about a year and went straight to get their marriage certificate, which was still quite crazy.
At that time, after getting married, the man handed over all his salary to his wife. Although his wife accepted it, the money was not managed well.
Because this money is enough for both of them to spend enough money, what did Wang Dan do to do? Zhang Ping is really curious. Once, Zhang Ping had to pay more than 10,000 yuan for the company, but found that there was only a few cents in it, so he was very curious about where the money was spent.
At that time, Wang Dan said, "I gave all the money to my parents. Because something happened to my parents, I was in a hurry to use the money, so I didn't discuss it with you."
Zhang Ping never said anything about filial piety to his parents, because it was a good thing, but he couldn't subsidize all his family's money to the other party.
So Zhang Ping became more careful and from then on he gave his salary part to Wang Dan and saved all the rest himself. In this way, Wang Dan had money to give to his parents' family, so that he would not give all of this money to the other party.
But Wang Dan still does such excessive things. Even if he has 1,000 yuan in his hand, he has to give his parents 900 yuan. Therefore, Wang Dan always doesn't have enough money whenever his husband pays his salary, because all of this money is given to his parents.
And this incident also aroused Zhang Ping's anger and could give money to his parents' home, but he couldn't give it to others all the time, and he gave it to them all. What is the logic?
Not long after, Wang Dan kept vomiting, and it seemed that he was pregnant, so Zhang Ping took Wang Dan to the hospital for examination. Sure enough, he had been pregnant for two months.
Then Wang Dan took care of his baby at home until he successfully gave birth to his child. However, during the pregnancy, Wang Dan thought about who should take care of his child?
In fact, it is just that my mother-in-law wants her mother-in-law to take care of her children, but her mother-in-law is not very close to her in another city, so the local epidemic is quite serious, so my mother-in-law can't come at all.
So Wang Dan said directly: "It's okay not to show me the child, but you have to give me some money, otherwise I won't work if I raise the child."
mother-in-law said very readily: "Then I will give you 5,000 yuan a month. Whether it's milk powder or food, I'll pack all of it. This should be enough.
Because my mother-in-law has a pension, she doesn't care much about this matter. Then Wang San gave her mother-in-law 5,000 yuan and took care of the child by herself.
Her husband works outside, while Wang Dan takes care of the child at home, but the 5,000 yuan given by her mother-in-law every month is not enough, so Zhang Ping had a little doubt about where Wang Dan used the money.
Children's expenses are quite large, but it is not enough for 5,000 yuan per month. In addition, the child just bought some milk powder and diapers, so the money should not be spent so quickly.
But the mother-in-law didn't say anything. After all, the daughter-in-law is not her own daughter. Some things can be said, but some things cannot be said. Since everyone has given this money to others, don’t worry about how they use it.
However, Wang Dan often asks her husband for money because she doesn't have enough money. Her husband doesn't say anything, so she just needs to give it to her for two years.
At that time, my mother-in-law always suspected where Wang Dan’s Liushui uncle went, and the card in our class belonged to me, so it was more convenient to check it. Wang Dan’s mother-in-law checked the expenses of this bank card.
After reading this, Wang Dan's mother-in-law smiled instantly and said that the 5,000 yuan was not spent on my grandson. My mother-in-law thinks that I spend 5,000 yuan a month to raise my grandson, and it does not include some things I buy, but you can give your parents 3,000 yuan with my money. What's going on?
After returning home, Wang Dan’s mother-in-law went to find her daughter-in-law in a hurry, but her daughter-in-law hadn’t figured out what was going on. My daughter-in-law was very angry at that time and said, "You don't know what you did to me?" Don’t you know what my parents are like?
It turns out that Wang Dan’s parents were in very bad health, so they often got sick, so Wang Dan gave his mother-in-law the five thousand yuan to three thousand yuan as their parents’ pension.
It has not been easy for my parents for so many years, and they are in poor health. When I first gave birth, my mother endured the pain and came to help me take care of the child, so Wang Dan felt that it was appropriate to give my mother three thousand yuan to 5,000 yuan.
This means that the mother-in-law can obviously take on the responsibility of taking care of herself and her children, but the mother-in-law only gives money but does not take care of herself, pretending to be confused when she understands it.
Wang Dan felt that the 5,000 yuan was actually given to him. As for how to send it to whom he was, it was all his business, including that he should not be blocked.
Although my mother-in-law was very angry, Wang Dan felt that she had done nothing wrong. And her mother-in-law also said, "Your parents are only in their early 50s now, and they are in good health. It is normal to be sick. I also have physical illnesses, but I haven't spent so much money."
When faced my mother-in-law's scolding, Wang Dan did not dare to refute it. She could only say that she would not make any more mistakes in the future, and that her mother-in-law and Zhang Ping no longer trusted her daughter-in-law.
The mother-in-law took the money back and raised her grandson by herself, and her husband also handed over the money to herself, so Wang Dan didn't have a penny.
But Wang Dan regretted it very much. If he hadn't done this at the beginning, this might not have happened. All the sources of the order have been cut off. If you want money for yourself, you must not take money.
So Wang Dan really regretted that he never dared to take a penny from this family again, and he didn't dare to tell her husband that he could only make money for his parents by himself.