Xiao Hou met Xiao Ye through a matchmaker's introduction in 2021. The two families were three kilometers apart and they felt that they could meet. After three days of knowing each other, the two got engaged.

Xiaohou met Xiaoye through a matchmaker's introduction in 2021. The two families were three kilometers apart and they felt that they could meet. After three days of knowing each other, the two got engaged.

Xiaohou has a traditional idea and believes that Xiao Ye is his wife after being engaged, and he will wait to see a good day to marry Xiao Ye home.

After getting engaged, Xiaohou went to Wenzhou to deliver takeout. His father went to the construction site to work, his mother worked as a waiter in a hotel, and his fiancee Xiao Ye was in his hometown county town in Henan.

After the engagement, the young man was very aimed, determined and motivated because he had his fiancée Xiaoye, because he wanted to give Xiaoye a romantic and beautiful wedding. So, he was very motivated to make money!

When she was just in contact with Xiaoye, she felt that she was not very enthusiastic, always treated him lukewarmly, and sometimes didn't reply to his chat messages. Xiao Hou always thought that Xiao Ye was introverted or busy with work, so he forgot to reply to him.

Xiaohou believes that as long as he is kind to Xiaoye and sincerely contributes to her, she will gradually be enthusiastic to him.

So shortly after I met, Xiao Ye borrowed money from him. He transferred all the money he had on to Xiao Ye without hesitation, and transferred a total of more than 10,000 yuan.

Valentine's Day, Chinese Valentine's Day, Xiaoye's birthday, and mother-in-law's birthday, Xiaohou made polite expressions of the sense of ceremony on these festivals and also made the romantic as it should be.

But the end of the year is coming, and Xiaohou is coming back, but Xiaoye only gave Xiaohou a woman's watch that he couldn't call him, and he never called Xiaohou "husband", but Xiaohou didn't care and thought that the two of them could go on.

At the end of the year, Xiaohou and his parents came back. When their parents came back, they urged their son to get married and wanted to hold the wedding as soon as possible. The young man didn't want to discourage his parents' interest, and he also wanted to marry Xiaoye early, so he proposed to Xiaoye.

But Xiaoye didn't want to get married. She said, "I really don't want to get married like this. It's different from what I imagined. Why should I get married so anxiously? I have to force me to make a choice! I don't want to wait after the New Year, but I'm not worth it."

Xiaohou said, "It's the same as soon as we have each other in our hearts. I didn't force you, I would treat you well, I would be nice to you, if you don't want to, I'll choose the way myself, and no one can force anyone to do it." When discussing the marriage at the end of the year, the young man's parents said, "If you have any requirements, you can raise anything you want, and marrying a daughter cannot make you wronged."

Xiaoye is a single-parent family, with only a mother and no father. Finally, the Xiaohou family took out the money to hold the wedding according to Xiaoye's requirements:

Xiaohou's four people have a car at home, but Xiaoye asked to buy another car worth 160,000 yuan to drive it to his home, treating it as his dowry and to give himself face, because her dowry was only 8 quilts and some small items. Xiaohou's family gritted their teeth and agreed to all requests

This car was bought for Xiaoye, but when they bought it, they did not agree to write Xiaoye's name for the time being.

Xiaohou's parents think that as long as they are a family, they don't have enough money to borrow, and they don't want their son and daughter-in-law to repay it in the future, and the old couple will make money to repay it. Xiaohou also compromisedly met all Xiaoye's requirements.

A wedding cost more than 510,000 yuan, exhausting the entire family's wealth and owing foreign debts.

On January 28, 2022, Xiaohou and Xiaoye got married.

After marriage, Xiaohou went to work. Xiaoye was at home. Her previous job was to do caier in a friend's store. After marriage, Xiaohou didn't want her to do this job.

On March 3, 2022, Xiaohou went home at 8 or 9 o'clock in the evening. Xiaoye went to the ear picking shop to help the boss, and the two of them didn't quarrel. When the young man came home, he closed the door, and the only one at home was at home.

Xiaoye went home at around twelve o'clock in the evening and couldn't open the door with the key. He called Xiaohou but no one answered the call, so she went back to her parents' home.

The next morning, Xiaohou apologized to Xiaoye and made up, but she had to live in her parents' home and would not come back.

March 8 She said she was pregnant and went to check together and was indeed pregnant. She didn't want to come back when she asked her back. She didn't want to come back when she called her several times.

In April, she said she was in poor health and had a miscarriage from the child. Xiaohou also went over to see Xiaoye. Their relationship was normal and there was no noise.

quarrel started in mid-May. The newlyweds, Xiao Ye, found various excuses not to go home, saying that he had no money to spend and wanted to go to work.

But Xiaohou felt that it was impossible to spend so much money in three months, so he asked, "Have you spent all the money?"

bride gift Xiaohou did not plan to get back the money. Even if she bought a house for her brother, she would pay back some of the money before marriage, but she could not spend it so quickly, right? Don't go home under this excuse.

Xiaohou’s mother came back from working outside at the end of May. She went to pick Xiaoye up and went home. Why did she say good things? Xiaoye just won’t come back!

Xiaohou June 8th When he went to pick Xiaoye up and went home, he had an argument with his mother-in-law. When Xiaoye saw Xiaohou arguing with his mother, he took his nephew home and locked the door, took her clothes and left.

After Xiaoye left, he blocked Xiaohou's phone number, WeChat, and all of them were blocked. , Douyin, was also cancelled, and he was unable to contact him when he hid.

Xiaohou went to find his mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law said, "If you two can't survive, you can get apart. The property belongs to each other in their own names."

Xiaohou said, "Mom, we will return part of the bride price to us!"

Mother-in-law turned against him and said, "If you like, sue wherever you like!"

Xiaohou went to court to sue, and also went to the community of mother-in-law's house to find someone, knocking on the door to negotiate, but the mother-in-law refused to negotiate. Then he shouted downstairs with a loudspeaker, asking his mother-in-law to return the bride price, and was arrested by the police five times.

Because of this, it is easy to cause fight accidents, so the police have to take care of it, and this matter must be resolved by the court.

Xiaoye ran away and heard that he ran to Guangdong. She didn't come when the court opened the trial, but only brought a letter to the judge, saying that she and Xiaohou had a good relationship and firmly disagreed with the divorce, which led to the first instance court not issuing a divorce.

Xiaohou felt that Xiaoye was cheating the judge and had not been home for several months, and he could not contact him. He also said that his relationship was good, and he clearly wanted to continue to delay time and let Xiaohou compromise and not give him a bride money. The next time you sue, you have to wait half a year.

Xiaohou just wants to get together and end this unfortunate marriage with the bride price. Now Xiao Ye escaped from regret and agreed to the police station, and repeatedly deceived Xiao Hou.

Now Xiao Ye still doesn’t come forward to negotiate and can’t contact him. Xiao Hou doesn’t know what to do now. But he and his family never gave up on asking for money for bride gifts and gold and silver jewelry.

A few days ago, the mother-in-law told the matchmaker that she would give 60,000 yuan. Xiao Hou and her father were not willing to give Xiao Ye a total of 300,000 yuan. Who would be willing to return 60,000 yuan?

These are the money given to Xiaoye: engagement money 8,000 yuan, wedding money 9,000 yuan, gold and silver jewelry 2,000 yuan, change of words 2,000 yuan, get on and get off the car and pour wine 5,000 yuan, lent Xiaoye 0,000 yuan before marriage, and send Xiaoye's relatives to give gifts 5,000 yuan.

This money and the money for weddings cost more than 510,000 yuan. The young man has been trying to find a way to get the money back. A TV station is contacting the young man to see if there is any progress. This money should indeed be refunded.

Because Xiao Hou and his parents are both from rural Henan, money is earned by coolies. It is not easy for rich people to make money. How can they cheat others of their hard-earned money like this?

Xiaohou also only went to middle school, delivered express delivery, tookout, worked short-term work, and studied chef.

My father is a construction worker and my mother works as a waiter in a hotel. It can be seen that the money is hard-earned, so the young man felt that he was not qualified to give up asking for some of the betrothal money back.

Xiaohou has been on the bumpy road of asking for money. What are some good ways for friends? You can leave a message to help him! In this way, the two young people didn’t apply for an divorce certificate and , so they didn’t get married even if they dragged it?