They all felt that we protected and cared for our son so well. Maybe they are right. If time can be repeated, I must be a lazy mother. My son started working. I originally planned to drive my car for him and let him go to and from get off work by himself. But my husband is worrie

They all feel that we have protected and taken care of our son so well. Maybe they are right. If time can be repeated, I must be a lazy mother.

My son started working. I originally planned to drive my car for him and let him go to and from get off work by himself. But my husband is worried. He said that his son had just started working and his work and rest time had not been completely corrected. He still slept very late at night, woke up late in the morning, and was in a bad state. It would be unsafe if he was allowed to drive to work by himself. So he said that we should send him some time in the next few days and let him drive by himself.

I asked my son for his opinion, and he also agreed to let us send him. So we took turns picking up and dropping off. When I go to and from get off work, I drive around to his company first and then to my own unit. But that's it. He would have been a good time to check out the spot in the morning or he would have been a few minutes late. Because he had difficulty getting up, he had to shout several times, but when he got up, he was slow and the journey was a bit far.

Yesterday, after I got off work, I drove around to pick him up home. I met their manager at the door of the company. He was a very capable and strict strong woman. She said she criticized him for being late in the morning, and said that he always had to sleep until two or three at noon, and others went to work at 1:30. So she didn't allow him to take a nap yesterday. I told the manager that it is right that you are strict with him. He just doesn't sleep well at night, can't get up again in the morning, and is not energetic during the day. She said you can't let him play video games at night. I said he didn't play video games. What did she say she didn't play video games? Just watch TV and phone, I told her.

I told the manager, don’t have too high expectations for him. He has poor mobility and slow work. She said he was slower and he was eating very slowly. I said yes, it's very slow to do anything. He is also very introverted, doesn't like to talk, and doesn't like to go out to date others. The manager said that he shouldn't have this kind of personality. I just want to train him more and ask him to change his too introverted personality. You may have protected him so well that he could drive a tram to work by himself. I said his father just saw that he was not in good spirits these days and was worried that he would not be safe in driving. Let him adapt for a few days first, and then let him drive to and from get off work by himself.

My son came out and was very unhappy. I chatted with his manager. He didn't like him and I care too much about him.

My school colleagues heard that my husband and I picked up my son to and from get off work every day, and they also felt that we really protected our son too well.

I admit that I have taken care of my son so well. Because of work, there are many holidays. Basically, he was brought with him. Maybe it's because of the only child, so I naturally value it very seriously. In addition, his son is stubborn and slow to do things. So he took care of many things. He did not cultivate his hands-on ability well, so his hands-on ability was very poor and lazy.

is also because he is the only child, and his request is basically met. Therefore, most of the only children are selfish and self-centered. I only know how to get, but I don’t know how to give.

Because he is an only child, he has no siblings and is often alone. In addition, my hometown is far away, and my brothers and sisters are far away, and it is rare to meet once a year. My husband is also an only child, and he is from a single-parent family, and his family conditions are very bad. So my son has no cousins ​​who can often play together, whether in his grandfather's house or in his grandparents' house. Even if I spend very little time with my grandparents, grandparents and grandparents. So my son developed a very lonely personality.

Children who get all their loves do not necessarily know how to be grateful. That's how many only children are. Parents regard them as pearls in their hands, with thousands of love and care for them. But they are very indifferent to their parents and they think everything is right. It seems that my parents owe him.

If the years can be repeated, the policy can allow two children. Then no matter how hard or tired I am, I will have to have two children, otherwise I won’t have either. He will not spoil his children too much, and he must cultivate his ability to take care of himself and do things. We must focus on cultivating his emotional intelligence, know how to be grateful and filial.

Learning is not the most important thing, being a talent is the most important thing. Do you think it is right, friends?