Ge Ding Ge We met each other playing chess.
A year ago, after I joined the "Old Moving" clan and lived in Xi'an, I had no relatives and friends, no familiar people, I did nothing all day, felt bored, and was often in a state of anxiety.
One day, I was walking in the community and walked to a secluded place. I saw two old men playing chess. I stopped and went up to watch.
Just as the two old men were fighting each other, an old man suddenly answered a phone call saying that a guest had come to his house and had to put down his chess piece and go home quickly.
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Another old man is Brother Ding. He was stunned to face the chessboard, and then he raised his head and asked me, "Brother, can we finish this chess game?"
I said, "I haven't played chess for many days, I'm afraid I'm going to do it."
Ge Ding said, "It doesn't matter whether you win or lose, it's just a play."
Ge was also very timid when I looked at the endgame where Brother Ding had the advantage.
But it was hard to let go of your affection, so I still gritted my teeth and sat down to play chess with Brother Ding.
After 749 rounds, I didn't expect that in that game, I turned defeat into victory.
So Brother Ding and we have a common topic. We often talk about chess skills together. When we are free, we walk in the community together, buy vegetables in the nearby vegetable market together, and tell each other about the strange things we heard, saw, and experienced, and chicken soup news. Naturally, we often chat about it.
Brother Ding is 72 years old this year. He has a daughter and a son. The older one is in the Xi'an system, and the younger one is the son working in Yuncheng City, Shanxi.
Two years ago, he had been living with his wife in his hometown in his rural areas in southwest Henan. Later, because Brother Ding was seriously ill, the two children were worried that their parents would continue to live alone at home. If they had any problems, they would regret it.
Later, as soon as they discussed, they felt that the two elderly people were supported by one and were under great pressure, so they decided to support one by one with the consent of Brother Ding and the couple.
So Brother Ding, who was relatively weak, came to Xi'an to live at his daughter's house, and Sister Ding went to Yuncheng to live at her son's house.
Every year, Spring Festival, May Day, National Day, or weekends, the two families walk around and reunite, and the two elderly people also feel that this kind of pension is reasonable and happy.
However, Brother Ding's son-in-law Xiao Liu is the only child. His parents are old and must live with Xiao Liu.
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Xiao Liu's family has a three-bedroom apartment. On weekdays, Xiao Liu's daughter and Brother Ding each live in a second bedroom, and Xiao Liu and his wife live in the master bedroom.
If Xiao Liu's parents arrive in Xi'an and Brother Ding continues to live here, the existing house will obviously not be able to live in.
Based on the current situation of Xiao Liu's family, they buy or rent a house to support Brother Ding, and their financial conditions are not yet mature.
Brother Ding saw that his daughter and son-in-law were really embarrassed, so he said to them readily: Children, let me go to Yuncheng. On the one hand, it is natural for a son to support his parents; on the other hand, as the saying goes, it is normal for a couple to live together when they are old.
Yesterday, although it was the Little Snow Festival, the morning was sunny and it was like a small spring. Brother Ding and I came to a place where we often played chess.
Ding Dake said very sadly: Brother, today we will play the last game of chess, and tomorrow I will go to my son’s house in Yuncheng to live...
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Seeing me looking at him in confusion, Brother Ding said: Life is playing chess, you have to follow the rules. It is natural for the son to support his parents. Although the daughter also has the obligation to support his parents, if we occupy the nest, it is not appropriate to affect the son-in-law to support his parents...
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