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I am Aunt Xue, I am 60 years old this year and have no job.
My wife works for people to decorate all year round, and I take care of three sons at home. When I was tired, I thought about how happy it would be to raise them when I was old.
The boss really couldn't study, so he followed his father to learn decoration after graduating from junior high school. When he was 22 years old, he was introduced by someone to a blind date with a girl from a neighboring village, with a bride price of 30,000 yuan, got married, and had two children.
, I have been helping my eldest daughter-in-law take care of the children. She has never given living expenses, and I am embarrassed to ask for it.
The second child graduated from college three years ago. His girlfriend was his college classmate and now he started talking about marriage. The woman said that the house was at least down payment, and the bride price was 166,000 yuan, and the wedding was held in a hotel in the city. After a lot of things, I got 500,000 or 600,000.
My wife and I are very frugal. We save everything except the necessary expenses. We bought new clothes five years ago. Therefore, I have saved 500,000 or 600,000 in recent years.
The third child is in the first year of high school and lives in the school. It is the time to spend money. We gave all the money to the second child, so we didn’t care about the third child.
The eldest daughter-in-law gave a 30,000 yuan gift back then. She didn’t have a house yet. Will she have any objections now?
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I told my wife about my doubts, and he said that the bride price ten years ago was different from now. Moreover, in the past ten years, I have been helping the boss take care of his children and do housework, and I have not asked them to get a penny for buying vegetables. Therefore, the eldest daughter-in-law should not have any objection.
As for the third brother's tuition and living expenses, he will earn it again. He will do the second brother's affairs first.
I still feel uneasy and want my second wife to ask for less bride price and give her 66,000 yuan. Get married in the village and have a lot of down payment for the three gold and house.
Unexpectedly, the second wife said that she is always married now, and she must not miss the same, otherwise she will not get married. The second brother was angry at me and said that I wanted to watch him play a bachelor.
When the eldest daughter-in-law found out, she said that I was biased towards the second child and was unfair to treat it. She let the eldest child drop out of junior high school and work, but supported the second child to go to college. Nowadays, people work with decent work and make money, unlike the boss who makes money every day.
She also said that the boss worked very hard over the years and paid the down payment based on her own efforts. The total deposits were less than 100,000! But the second brother got all this easily. We must make up for the bride price and the down payment of the house. Otherwise, they will not give us retirement when we are old.
The second child got married and spent all our savings. How could we still have money to replenish the boss?
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I made up my mind. Anyway, the eldest daughter-in-law has already married her and can't run away. We cannot let the second brother not get married because of the opposition of the eldest daughter-in-law. Will she still fail to get divorced?
We still held the wedding for the second child in a lively manner, which annoyed the eldest daughter-in-law. She always had a bad face to me. I knew I was in the wrong, so I worked harder to do housework and cook to please her, and I didn’t dare to tell her about the pain in my back and back.
My wife came to see me and saw me pounding my back from time to time, sometimes curling up on the bed. He was worried that it was gastric cancer , because Mr. Wang in the village had similar symptoms to me, so he didn't go to see it for several years. When he looked at it again, he was already in the advanced stage of gastric cancer and was unable to make up for it.
I was frightened and asked my boss to take me for a checkup. Fortunately, it was not cancer, it was gallstone . Because the stones are a bit large, surgery is required. However, the operation was very successful, and the doctor told me that I needed to rest for one or two months before taking a follow-up examination.
used New Rural Cooperative Medical Scheme , and after deduction, it still needs 10,000. My wife and I have no money anymore.
The eldest daughter-in-law said that the money was spent on the second child, and they should get the expenses. The second wife said that I have three sons and the third child is still in school and doesn’t have to get money. The remaining ten thousand should be shared by them and the boss, each with five thousand.
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3 is waiting to pay the money, and the two of them are quarreling there.
I said, "Boss wife, you can't be without a conscience." I have been bringing you a child for more than ten years, but I didn't ask you for a penny to buy vegetables and cook." Even if you are a nanny, your salary and purchase of vegetables will have to be 500,000 or 600,000 yuan, right? Now you have five thousand doctors, but you haven’t even posted it?
She paid reluctantly. After being discharged from the hospital, the two families took turns to take care of me. I went to the old man first and then to the second family.
After I recovered, my second wife reported the good news to me and said she was pregnant.
A few years ago, I have been helping everyone with the help of taking care of their children. Now it’s time to take care of their second wife. Unexpectedly, the eldest daughter-in-law opposed it again and said it was unfair.
First of all, she got married early and had no children at home. The eldest son gave birth to me. As a mother-in-law, I should have taken care of her.
Secondly, she and her boss both have to go to work, so they have no money to see their children, and they can’t see their children if they want to make money. Because I don’t help, she and her boss have to do their best to make money.
Furthermore, the second wife has not given birth yet, so there is no need to take special care.
I was refuted to say nothing.
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Several months passed, and my second wife gave birth, so I asked me to take care of her.
The eldest daughter-in-law made another request, saying that if I left, no one would take care of her two children. I said, I have helped you for several years before, but now my second wife has given birth to a child, and it’s my turn to take care of her.
The eldest daughter-in-law said that my care for the second daughter-in-law over the years was similar to the cost of the second daughter-in-law’s bride price and house, and it has been offset. Now the two are cleared. It is natural for parents-in-law to take care of their grandchildren. If I don’t take care of me, let my father-in-law take my place.
I was anxious and blamed the eldest daughter-in-law for being unreasonable and my wife went to take care of the children. Who will make money? She didn't care about the third child's tuition and living expenses, so I opposed letting my wife go there.
Finally, the eldest daughter-in-law said that she asked her mother's mother to help and asked me to give her 3,000 yuan a month, which was a compensation that could not help her take care of the children.
This is also a solution.
When I packed my things and was about to go to my second child's house, my second wife called and said she felt sorry for me to take care of the child for more than ten years and had never had a rest. I don’t have to go over and take care of her and her grandson. She will ask her mother to come. I just need to compensate 3,000 a month.
I said to my wife, look, both daughters-in-law are very smart. It is all right for mother-in-law to take care of them, and mother-in-law has to pay for them.
My wife asked me to bear it and said forget it, be a grandma, and be more responsible, after all, my grandson follows his surname. Taking advantage of the opportunity, I also took a good rest and took care of my youngest son, so that he could get into a good university.
Yes, there is also a young son. We have to go out for 6,000 every month, and the money we earned is basically nothing left. Now, what should I do? After all, my youngest son still has to get married and buy a house.
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