I sat on the winding and rugged road, enjoying the scenery along the way. My boyfriend, who is my future husband, feels a little solemn.
This is my junior year. After the winter vacation, I must go to my boyfriend Yifan’s house to check it out. Yifan was very hesitant at the beginning, and his hesitation made me feel very angry.
I have been dating him for so many years, and I don’t know the situation at all. This time I want to go to his hometown to see it, and I also want to fully understand his previous living environment.
Yifan's family lives in a remote countryside, traveling back and forth for several places, and then walks from the town to the village, because I wear high heels, and the road from the town to the village is that kind of muddy path.
In order not to sprain my ankle, Yifan took the initiative to carry me on the mountain road that I had been walking on for a long time. This is where I like Yifan. Although he is very ordinary, he is very good to me.
We walked around and stopped and finally arrived at Yifan's home. Yifan's family was in very poor conditions, a tiled house that was in and out, and there was no decent furniture at home.
I finally understood why Yifan was so stingy in college. It turns out that Yifan was able to go to college in such a family, which shows that Yifan's father had suffered a different hardship than ordinary people.
The time in college is vivid in my mind, and the scenes of my pursuit of immortality surged into my heart. I realized that the person I liked used to live so hard.
At this time, my eyes were wet because I have lived in big cities since I was a child. To be honest, my parents didn’t want me to marry a rural person.
In the eyes of parents, being a good match is very important because they always feel that if their daughter marrys someone with a poor family, it may make their daughter's life very hard.
I can understand my parents’ mood, and they all hope that I can live a happy life.
Yifan's mother passed away early. It was his father who brought him to the old age since he was a child. When he first came to Yifan's house, Yifan's father was very kind and treated me very well. He also personally made a sumptuous lunch for me.
That's it, I was very happy at Yifan's house. About half a month later, Yifan and I returned to school. The time of college flashed by and finally graduated.
After graduation, Yifan and I worked in the same city. At that time, we had just graduated and had no money to buy a house, so we rented a house. At that time, my parents didn’t know that Yifan and I were with us.
If they knew, they would not agree, I took the initiative to explain to my parents about Yifan and I. My parents refused and insisted that I and Yifan break up.
I was very confused during that time. On one side was the person I loved deeply, and on the other side were the person I loved. I wanted to balance between them. To be honest, I was really a little overwhelmed.
Just when I was in a state of great anxiety, Yifan's father came to visit Yifan in the city. I didn't know what Yifan was thinking, but he actually told his father about marriage.
Yifan's father was very happy after hearing this and asked me directly: "Meizi, see what your parents have to ask me if I need to communicate with them in advance."
When I heard this, I felt mixed feelings. My parents had already given me an ultimatum to leave Yifan. I really don't know how to reply to Yifan's father.
But after thinking for a long time, I confessed to Yifan’s father and expressed my parents’ thoughts. After Yifan’s father heard this, he didn’t know what to say for a while. Yifan was also very sad after hearing this.
But Yifan was very rational. He ignored my parents' ideas, but asked me, "Meizi, I live with you, not with your parents, what do you think!"
I looked at Yifan and said, "Of course I chose you, but that is my parents after all, I have to consider them!"
The father-in-law next to me listened to Yifan's discussion again, and then gave us some ideas from time to time. Later, Yifan's father asked me to use pregnancy tricks to deceive his parents.
After hearing this, Yifan and I thought this idea was good. So I told my parents that they were pregnant. They had no choice but to agree to the marriage between Yifan.
And after learning that I was pregnant, my parents urged me to meet Yifan’s father. Yifan’s father received the notice and went to my house. In order to go to my house, Yifan’s father bought a new set of clothes, and then he, who likes to smoke dry cigarettes on weekdays, also quit smoking.
That's it. Yifan's father went to my house. His parents asked for a bride price of 88,000 yuan. Yifan's father did not refuse, but agreed in one go. Yifan and I were very curious, how could he have so much money?
later found out that Yifan's father saved money over the years and raised a lot of livestock. He sold a sum of money every year. In addition to providing Yifan with school, he even saved it. No wonder the house was very dilapidated, he did not repair it, and his family did not buy furniture.
That's it. Yifan and I got married because my parents were both employees of urban units and were unwilling to live with us. Later, Yifan and I had children. In order to take good care of the children, Yifan called my father-in-law.
But after all, my father-in-law is a man, and I was always worried that he would not be able to take care of the child well, so I went to business company to hire an aunt. At that time, my father-in-law refused, and we told him for a long time before he agreed.
The aunt is named Yufen. Yufen is a very clean person and is also from the countryside. She is about fifty years old, eight or nine years younger than her father-in-law.
Yufen got along well with her father-in-law. After all, she was about the same age and was both from the countryside, and there were many topics. However, Yufen and her father-in-law were not well educated. Later, I discussed with Yifan and decided to replace Yufen and replace a younger and educated nanny to take care of the children.
So Yufen stayed in our house for more than a year and left. A young nanny came. Since Yufen left, her father-in-law has been depressed and always complained that the nanny is not good like this or that is not good.
Once, my father-in-law told me, "Meizi! It's not that I said that the little girl nowadays, I can't be the leader at all. It's not that I'm sorry for you Aunt Yufen."
To be honest, I was very angry when I heard this. It's our young people's business. As elders, I think my father-in-law should consider it from our perspective, rather than pointing fingers at us.
But the next father-in-law, which left us speechless. He actually scolded the little nanny and cried, and asked everyone to find another way out. Don't stay at my house. Yifan and I heard the nanny's crying and said that my father-in-law was too ridiculous. There was no way behind
, so we fired the nanny and called Yufen back. Two years later, my father-in-law actually told us that he was going to marry Yufen.
After hearing this, Yifan and I said bluntly that my father-in-law was too ridiculous. After all, they are all so old, and Yufen is so much younger than him. Do they really like him?
I don’t care. After all, I think my father-in-law is alone. I just think that my father-in-law’s way of treating the nanny in the past is a bit ridiculous. For the sake of his love, he deliberately let the nanny leave our house.
However, Yifan couldn't accept it. Although Yifan's mother left early, Yifan had already lived a life with only his father in his heart. He had an extra mother out of thin air, and Yifan could never accept it.
And in the words, it was all absurdity that accused my father-in-law of his father-in-law, and it was because I advised Yifan that Yifan agreed to the marriage.
We still held a grand wedding for our father-in-law. After all, this is his happiest moment!
The novel ends here.
In fact, sometimes as young people, we still have to consider their parents. After all, the elderly who are widowed in their early years need a partner most in their later years.
Find someone to accompany him, which is even more precious than anything you give him about material things!
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