If you want to ask how uncomfortable the man who was green was, I understand today because this happened to me. My name is Xiaowan, I am 37 years old, and I have been married for 5 years.

I want to ask how uncomfortable the man who was green was. I understand today because this happened to me.

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My name is Xiaowan, I am 37 years old, and I have been married for 5 years.

I have a beautiful and generous wife who lives a very happy life.

I always thought that my happiness would continue, but it turns out that I just lived in the world I imagined, and what should come is still coming.

Not long ago, I could see clearly the process of my wife cheating in my private car, and also caught two people in a straightforward manner, and took revenge in a relatively radical way.

But even so, I still feel uncomfortable. After all, I think no man will feel happy when he sees his wife being intimate with other men.

But when things happen, they have to face it, and so do I.

In order to reduce my depression and anger, I chose to post the video of my wife's affair on my Moments. I would rather lose one thousand more than kill eight hundred enemies.

htmlJune 18th is my wife and I’m married for 5 years. As long as we arrive that day, we will be married for exactly 5 years.

That’s right, I am a man who focuses on life and a man who is willing to be romantic. I think this is indispensable in life.

When you hear this, you may think that I am a man who knows nothing and can’t do anything, otherwise I wouldn’t be so willing to revolve around my wife for the sake of my family.

But you are very wrong, I'm not that kind of person.

is different from what you think, I am a career-oriented man.

Although I am only 37 years old this year, I am already a department director, and my salary is calculated based on annual salary, which can be said to be young and promising.

Of course, I also know that this age is not really young, but since I am working alone outside, I am still satisfied with the achievement of this.

When I married my wife, we started from scratch. Neither parents helped us. At the beginning, we were working hard in big cities and once thought about leaving.

But fortunately, they all persevered in the end, and from the beginning, they couldn't make it through, to having their own house and their own life.

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I thought that all my efforts could be recognized and enjoyed by my wife, but the facts proved that my wife only enjoyed it and did not recognize it.

Since I got married, I have not allowed my wife to go to work. She used to be a nurse. Although her salary is not high, she can make some money.

However, because I think my wife's job is too hard, and we are already married, I also have some machismos in my bones. I hope I can support her and this family so that she can happily be a housewife.

So after we discussed, our wife quit her job outside and stayed at home every day.

At first my wife was also very happy, but after a long time, my wife was young, so she couldn't stay. She often complained to me that the family was too boring and wanted to go out for a walk.

But since I was still very busy with work here and I didn’t have time, I promised her to go out for a walk together and never realized this wish.

However, although my wife is younger than me, she is very sensible.

Although I have never realized her wish, she has never had a temper with me. She still understands me very much and says when we will go on a trip when we are free.

That's it, I put my mind completely on my work and care less and less about her and her family.

Now think about it, I admit that it was wrong for me. If I could have given her more care, it might not have been the consequences.

But no matter how much I say that everything happened, it was too late to think about it. You guys listen to me first.

It took almost two months, and my wife was so bored, so she expressed her inner demands to me.

"Husband, otherwise you can sign me up for a fitness class. I am so uncomfortable at home every day. And you see, I have gained more than ten pounds, my waist is gone, and my clothes are not good-looking. Just think that I have multiple hobbies and exercise in my daily life. Is it okay?"

looked at my wife's increasingly rounded face. To be honest, I am happy. Who doesn't want my woman to have some happiness and fat? But from the perspective of a girl, I also understand my wife’s thoughts.

Indeed, for their young girls, their figure is beautiful, so I agreed to see my wife acting cute.

Then he handed the card to his wife, preparing to let her recharge a card to get a member tomorrow, which can be considered as going out to have fun.

However, if I had known earlier that my move would lead to the subsequent result, then I would not have done this.

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At the beginning, my wife would lie on me and act coquettishly after returning home from fitness, telling me what she saw and heard about today’s fitness day.

And I was also addicted to this kind of tenderness, and I didn't realize anything for a moment.

lasted about two months, and I found that my wife no longer sticks to me as she used to, and sometimes she rejects my approach.

At the beginning, my child was a little awkward when my wife showed me for not being able to accompany her.

But as time goes by, my wife's behavior has not changed at all, but on the contrary it has become more and more serious. At this time, I was a little aware that things may have developed in a direction that I cannot predict.

After realizing this, I immediately put down my work and began to put my mind back to my family as before. I thought this would make my wife return to the same way she used to be, but my wife didn't care about my actions at all.

I began to feel something was wrong.

In order to figure out what happened, I asked the company for two weeks off.

Of course, I didn't tell my wife about this. And the purpose of all this is just to let me see what happened to her recently.

I still remember it was the morning of the 26th. After my wife drove to the gym, I also took a taxi and followed her. After my wife arrived at the gym, I also followed her.

After I got there, I realized that my wife was looking for a personal trainer, and she was also a young male coach with a very good appearance.

To be honest, when I saw this, I rumbling in my heart, feeling something was wrong, but my subconscious mind told myself that my wife is not such a person, maybe I was thinking too much.

But from the next actions of my wife and her personal trainer, I obviously felt discomfort.

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It turns out that my wife is very close to this personal trainer. Not only do they often have unnecessary physical contact, such as holding hands and shoulders, but their eye contact is also quite ambiguous, and they even drink water from the same cup.

To be honest, I can't stand it anymore, because these actions and the atmosphere between them are obviously only when they are in love.

However, although I am very angry now, I also know that nothing can be determined by these simple actions, so I still remained silent.

But their actions really hurt my eyes and my heart, so I turned my head and left.

On the way home, I told myself over and over again that maybe all this was just a coincidence, but I had already admitted it in my heart that my wife's move was a cheating act.

I went back to the gym again by mistake, preparing to see what my wife will do with this handsome fitness coach next.

Although I was prepared in my heart, I still exploded when I saw the scene behind.

After the fitness, my wife did not drive away directly, but got into the handsome personal trainer's car. The two of them drove all the way to an unmanned and dim roadside, and all this was seen by me who were following behind.

After the two people's cars parked on the side of the road, there was no movement.And I walked out of the car without being controlled and walked straight to their car, observing every move inside the car.

At this time, my wife had already started kissing the fitness coach fiercely, and naturally I couldn't bear the pressure in my heart, and began to tap on the windows frantically, and recorded all this with my mobile phone.

I have to say that the violent impact broke the two people fighting fiercely. My wife was shocked when she saw me, and then hurriedly explained to me.

But I already see all this, so how could she change it with just a few explanations? I broke out.

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"I know why you are cold to me and rejected me these days. I really didn't expect that I have worked so hard over the years, and I actually got such a result for this family. But it doesn't matter. I have already photographed the evidence of your affair. Aren't you shameless? OK, I will post it in our group and circle of friends at that time. I will make you shameless."

My wife was angry when she saw me, and she begged me with tears in her eyes: "Can you not post it on circle of friends?"

I ignored her. She began to get up and chase me, but at this time I had already returned to my own car and left.

I was really mixed with feelings in the car. On the one hand, I felt sorry for the pathetic self in the marriage, and on the other hand, I was honest with myself for not caring about my concern in the marriage.

I admit that our marriage has my own responsibilities to this point, but if my wife is a person who is a loyal and loves her family, then this will not happen.

I blame me for being too careless at the beginning and also for being blind.