I was 58 years old and emptied 1 million savings for my son to get married, but I was disliked by my prospective daughter-in-law in the countryside. I was shocked to learn the truth.
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My name is Ruoyi, I am 58 years old this year. I was a high school mathematics teacher before retirement.
I divorced my son when he was three years old. For so many years, my mother and son depend on each other. My son has been very sensible since he was a child. Since he was four years old, I have taken him to travel all over the country.
Serena is very successful. He passed the high school entrance exam and passed the key point here. In the past three years, we have not been out. He himself held his breath and finally got into Jiangnan University in one fell swoop, and later successfully took the postgraduate entrance examination.
After graduating from graduate school, my son stayed in Wuxi and entered the system. He always wanted me to sell my house in Suzhou with him to Wuxi. I was hesitating and just dragged it down.
Four years later, Serena Williams said he had a girlfriend while having dinner and asked how he was hesitating.
Our family is basically college students, and the older generation is mostly teachers, so when his son was studying, he told her that he should have better academic qualifications in the future, so that the genes he gave birth to are good and the family background should not be too bad, otherwise he would have too heavy burdens in the future.
He didn't dare to say it later, because his girlfriend's education is not very high and her adult college degree is still from the countryside.
This shocked me. Our ancestors, , five generations, , and there was no rural person. I asked him carefully: "Can you chat with her?"
"Of course, she is a very interesting person, very cute."
Speaking of her girlfriend, her son was flirting and counting the cuteness of her girlfriend one by one. These are boring tricks in my opinion, but my son was very happy.
Forget it, he is happy. I said, "Looking for a wife, love or not, the first is to make you happy, and the second is to help you. In the next few decades, you must go on together. You can't just look cute, it must be practical."
's son curled his lips and said nothing.
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For so many years, it is said that there are many people chasing their son, but he only talked to me one or two, and almost no one could last for half a year. I just watched coldly, maybe I couldn't hold on for half a year.
Unexpectedly, my son became serious this time. After eight months of talk, my son said he wanted me to meet this girl and he wanted to get married.
Looking at his tall and powerful son in front of him, he suddenly felt that he had grown up and had his own life.
On the weekend, my son took the girl to visit me. The girl was dressed simply, carried a bag of fruit, and followed her son crampedly.
While pushing the girl, my son said, "My mom is easy to talk to, don't be nervous, right? Mom, this is Xiaoqing."
I quickly let them in, poured a glass of water for Xiaoqing, and we sat on the sofa together.
Xiaoqing looked at her son who was busy in and out nervously. I patted Xiaoqing's hand and said, "Xiao Wei feels sorry for others. He has been like this since he was a child. When we went out together at the age of four, he was responsible for getting his luggage."
Xiaoqing turned her head curiously and looked at me. I continued, "We often go out for travel. Every time he has to keep the keys of the hotel room. He is worried about putting his pants pockets, so he puts the pockets of his coat and has to zip them up. He is so hot that he sweats heavily and refuses to take off his coat. Even if he takes it off, he will still put it here. Take care of it again and again. "
" Let's go out together, he will give me pink slippers and blue ones. Even if he's small at that time, he will insist on wearing big blue slippers."
Xiaoqing covered her mouth with her hands and laughed. At this time, her son came over with a basin of fruit and said, "What are you talking about me?"
"You have so many embarrassing things?" I looked at my son and said with a smile, three of them greeted me, and I also found the growth diary that my son made for him when he was a child. Xiaoqing looked at him with relish.
Xiaoqing doesn’t talk much, and most of the time she just listens. The girls in rural areas probably don’t have much knowledge. I thought to myself, the overall look is OK, but I don’t have high requirements for my daughter-in-law. If I don’t act weird, my son just likes it.
Thinking of my son's phone call last night and said to me: "Mom, Xiaoqing and I are going to get married."
"Then where are you going to get married?" I asked nervously.
"We are ready to settle in Wuxi.”
The son said on the other end of the phone: “Mom, you can actually come to Wuxi. "
Thinking of this, I couldn't help but feel a little confused.
My son saw me distracted and pulled me and said, let's go to have a meal together first, I booked a restaurant.
Three people had a meal talking and laughing, and I tried my best to hide my inner loss. Yes, my son is old and has his own life. I shouldn't interfere with him and tie him up, but I feel uncomfortable. I used to say I didn't think so, but now he takes care of me When my wife came to my house, I felt a little empty.
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Another weekend, my son came back alone, I took out a bank card and said to him: "There is 1 million yuan in it, which is my mother's savings for many years. You can buy a house in Wuxi to get married. This amount of money is always enough to pay a down payment. We always have to prepare a house. What are the conditions of Xiaoqing's family? ”
The son looked at me and said, “Mom, Xiaoqing said, you don’t have to spend money. "
I was furious as soon as I heard this, "I don't agree to be my son-in-law, so I'll be angry. "
The son shook his hand and said, "No, Xiaoqing's family has good conditions. Although their family is a farmer, his father is quite good at it and has several houses.
Xiaoqing's father told Xiaoqing to find someone with high education so that the child born in this way can be good at studying in the future. When I went to their house, his father pulled me and said that he suffered a loss of uneducatedness, so both Xiaoqing and her brother had to find a good student.
"He repeatedly said that their family does not value boys over girls, and their sons and daughters are the same. He is very satisfied with me and said that I am the most educated person in their family. Therefore, we gave us two houses in , in Wuxi City, and said that it is not easy for you to raise me. One house is for you to live in, so let us respect you."
I held my son's hand, so excited that I couldn't speak. I didn't expect that my prospective daughter-in-law's family was so powerful. The heart that had been hanging before finally let go.
My son said that Xiaoqing is now working in self-media, selling goods on live streaming, and said that she has a high income. I was curious about how her son met such an excellent girl, but her son suddenly became shy.
After repeated questions from me, I realized that my son’s colleague and Xiaoqing were neighbors. They were originally planning to match his son and Xiaoqing’s high school classmates. Xiaoqing’s high school classmates are beautiful and work in a foreign company.
Unexpectedly, during a blind date, the son fell in love with the simple Xiaoqing next to him at first sight.
In the subsequent chat, my son felt that although Xiaoqing didn’t talk much, she was very steady and could touch him every word.
As the relationship deepened, he found that Xiaoqing's perspective on problems was always unique, and Xiaoqing could resolve the problems he was confused about in just a few words. In this way, the son fell.
, the son who thought he would be single until he was old, actually successfully gotten single at the age of 30.
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@Soushen Thanks to Ruoyi for sharing. During the chat with Ruoyi, I found that both Ruoyi and her son are people with a very clear sense of purpose.
The purpose of marriage is to reproduce and to make progress together. When Serena Williams is looking for a girlfriend, she is not beautiful and confused, but the simple and simple Xiaoqing.
Seem Wei and Xiaoqing, two people with highly consistent understanding of marriage, come together, and their future marriage stability will be higher than that of ordinary people.
And Ruoyi also devotes her efforts to the children. Whether it is education or companionship, the final money is the deep love of a mother. The parents' love for their children should be far-reaching.
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