It was past nine o'clock in the evening. After washing up, I was about to go to bed. "Dongdong! Dadongdong" Suddenly I heard someone knocking on my door. From the door mirror , I saw a gray-haired old man standing outside the door dirty and shouting non-stop! Can't hear clearly what he is saying?
I opened the door and asked him, "Old man, have you walked into the wrong door, right? This is not your house!" After hearing what I said, he might have realized that he had walked into the wrong door, so he turned around and was about to leave. "It's so late. Where is your home? Tell me, okay? I'll take you home!"
At this time, the neighbor next to him came out. "His family lives in our community. I often see him. Severe Alzheimer's disease , stay away from it, don't ask him to cheat you?" I think the neighbors are also out of kindness. Nowadays, there are incidents of cheating in society, and no one wants to cause trouble. But if you know that he suffers from Alzheimer's disease and lives in the same community, you can't bear to ignore it because you can't get over it.
Alzheimer's disease is an unconscious memory disorder, which is also caused by the disease. The elderly mistakenly think that my home is his home, so they knock on my door. I think maybe the old man’s family is looking for him, it’s so late now, so it’s normal to send him home.
People all get old one day, and the old man’s today is our tomorrow. The most valuable thing in life is life, and the most precious thing is quality. A person’s health and character are the most valuable in his life. Without a healthy body, even if he has more money, he will be anxious and painful.
A person's character not only depends on his words, but mainly on his actions. A person has a famous tree and a shadow, and a god is raised three feet tall. A person's character does not lie in material abundance, but in his own quality and behavior.
Later I learned that this dementia elderly man was an executive of a company before he got sick, with a successful career and good family conditions. When I was old, I should have enjoyed the joy of life, but I didn’t expect to suffer from Alzheimer’s disease and become what I am now. How can a resourceful and predictable person become stupid? I realized that this disease was so abominable.
As time goes by, fewer and fewer people are with us. Most of our parents, ancestors and other relatives have left us, and most of our peers are too busy with their own affairs, and our younger generations are busy with their own affairs, even for couples. I don't know who will take the lead.
Therefore we must learn to live alone, taste and face loneliness. With the development of technology and the abundant material, people's sense of loneliness is not reduced, but is buried deeper. Loneliness is terrible, quietness is not that boring. What is frightening is the burden that Alzheimer's disease brings to your family. But who could have expected what will happen tomorrow? .
When we are in our thirties and forties, we will spend more energy and thoughts outside of work on our parents and children, and spend very little time on ourselves. When we were fifty or sixty, our lives had passed by more than half, and our parents passed away one after another, and we were old too! So, cherish the people in front of you and cherish the time. The rest of your life will not last long, and your greatest wish is to live healthy and safe!
Looking back at the past, you will find that the rest of your life is getting faster and faster, and the attention of society is getting smaller and smaller. No matter how glorious your career was before or how famous you are, aging will make you become an ordinary old man and an old lady. The spotlight will no longer be shining. You have to learn to stay quietly in a corner to appreciate the excitement and scenery of later generations, and at the same time you will also think of the past, which is the time when you can be moved when you think of yourself in the future.
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