Rumor has it that there was a lazy man in ancient times who lay in bed all day without his feet touching the floor. When he was hungry, he called his mother to feed him.
As the New Year approaches, her mother is about to leave home to send clothes and food to her husband who is far away. Before leaving, worried that his son would not be able to support himself, made a big cake and hung it around his neck.
After the arrangements were made, he left with peace of mind. Ten days later, when I returned home and opened the door, I saw that my son was still lying on the bed. When I took a closer look, I found that he was no longer breathing.
The mother cried bitterly, thinking that the cake she made was too small, causing her son to starve to death. However, after careful observation, he found that only 1/4 of the big cake was eaten.
It turned out that my son only bit off the food that his mouth could reach, and didn't even bother to turn the pie with his hands. Only then did the mother realize that her own pampering had actually killed her son.
The authenticity of this story cannot be verified, and it has always been used to educate children. No one could have imagined that the rumored story actually happened.
In Xinyang, Henan, there really was a lazy man who was greedy and lazy. He stretched out his hands from clothes to food and opened his mouth. He didn't learn to walk until he was 7 years old. The extent of his father's doting was unimaginable.
He was called "The No. 1 Lazy Man in Henan" Yang Suo. Even if there were rice, flour and rapeseed at home, he was too lazy to do it. He would not go to the ground even if the food rotted. At the age of 123, he starved to death at home.
A child who grew up on a pole
In 1986, Yang Suo was born in Luoshan County, Xinyang City, Henan Province. His parents were both pragmatic old farmers. They had been childless for many years after getting married, and they only had children in their 40s.
The two parents had a son in old age, so they naturally doted on their son in every possible way. As soon as Yang Suo was born, his father found an old silversmith and spent a lot of money to make an exquisite longevity lock for his son.
The two elders named their child Yang Suo in order to keep their son close to him and accompany him day and night, but they never thought that this "lock" would really lock his life.
The elders in the village felt that this name was inappropriate when they heard about it, so they came to Yang's house and wanted to give their child a new name. Unexpectedly, the two parents were very stubborn and decided on the word "lock".
In their eyes, Yang Suo is a blessing from God, which has brought infinite happiness and hope to the family. Their son should be locked by their side and locked in the love of the two of them.
Although Yang Suo's family is not considered wealthy, they are still able to provide for their son to thrive. His parents regard it as a treasure and hold it in their hands. People in the village also think it is extremely exaggerated.
When other children were two or three years old, they were already on the ground laughing and playing, having a great time, but Yang Suo was still held in his arms. When he got tired, he put him on the bed and lay down. He did not study all day long. walk.
One day, the eldest sister next door was playing in the sand with her child at the door. She turned around and saw Yang Suo's mother holding her child, so she kindly advised her: "My wife, this baby is over 2 years old. It's time to learn to walk. Look at my youngest child, he learned it through bumps and bumps. "
never thought that this kind words of advice would be seen as "evil-hearted" by Yang's mother. Before she could finish her tone, she yelled: " My son is. Baby, can compare with your homely doll?"
said and walked away without looking back, leaving the eldest sister next door feeling aggrieved: "Sooner or later, the baby will be ruined!"
follows! As Yang Suo grew older, his weight also gradually increased. When html was 16 or 7 years old, his parents were already 50 years old, and his body was declining. Even though he still wanted to hold his son in his arms, his physical strength was no longer enough.
Even so, the two elders were unwilling to let him walk on the ground and racked their brains to think about how to better "care" for their son.
Father Yang worked in the fields all day long, and set out early every morning with a pole and a bamboo basket. Only then did he think that since couldn't carry his son, he would use a pole to carry his son.
In the scorching summer, an elderly couple can often be seen on the country roads of Zhutang Township . The woman is carrying a bamboo basket on her back, and the man is carrying a pole. is sitting in the bamboo basket at one end of the pole. Yang Suo walking.
In rural areas in the 1980s and 1990s, although the poverty of the past was eradicated, their lives were still not as good as those in the cities, and they were somewhat poor.
Therefore, when children are young, they will cook by themselves, prepare hot meals, and wait for their parents to return home from farming. Even if can't make a fire to cook, it can at least share some housework.
Yang Suo is completely different from any other child. He does not come from a wealthy family. In order to provide his son with nutritious meals, the elders spend almost all the money they earn every day on buying meat for their son, three meals a day. Eat in different ways and don’t repeat it for a week.
The couple pampered their son and met any request unconditionally. In order to let his son eat his favorite chicken drumsticks, the father worked tirelessly and went back and forth between the market in the town and home every day.
Such pampering will inevitably make Yang Suo develop a temperamental character. If he is slightly unsatisfied, he will cry and cry. His parents will be heartbroken when they see this.
However, the couple gradually realized that it would be difficult to achieve great results by keeping their children by their side all day long. might as well send their son to the village middle school to learn knowledge and gain insights.
However, Yang Suo had never gone out alone since he was a child. The children around him disliked him very much. They all thought he was a freak, so his way to school was naturally not smooth.
Yang's mother sent her son to school in the morning. As soon as she sat down at home, Yang Suo ran back. With an aggrieved look on his face, he told his mother that he did not want to study.
After a while of persuasion, Yang Suo obeyed obediently. Since Yang Suo was born, the couple believed that their son was a gift from God. must be an extremely smart person. They sent him to school to study and he would soon return home.
This was not the case. He, who had always been pampered, could not stand the pressure of study and was unwilling to complete the homework assigned by the teacher. For this, he was criticized by the teacher.
One afternoon, Yang Suo's mother was making her son's favorite chicken drumsticks when she heard her son crying in the courtyard and asked anxiously: "My precious son, who bullied you?"
Yang Suo met his mother. , cried even harder, and said breathlessly: "The teacher made me stand all afternoon, and he criticized me in class! "
After hearing this, Mother Yang couldn't help but think too much about her son's cry. She had already lost her mind and took her son all the way to the school leader's house.
The school leaders had heard about Yang Suo for a long time, but they did not expect that his parents were so ignorant. With no choice but to let Yang Suo fend for himself, no teacher dared to reprimand him.
His parents suddenly passed away, and Yang Suo ushered in a tragic life.
In fact, if Yang Suo could listen to the teacher's instructions while he was in school, , even if he was allowed to be spoiled by his parents, he would be able to learn to be independent and have the ability to take care of himself.
The fault lies in the stubbornness of Yang Suo's parents, who have always encouraged their son's squeamishness. He has never been wronged for a day. In the end, it is the family of three who suffer.
Although Yang Suo successfully completed primary school, , no teacher dared to teach him in the past 6 years, and his classmates unanimously rejected Yang Suo, so he did not learn knowledge.
When he entered junior high school, Yang Suo refused to go, and his parents couldn't bear to force the child, so they had to take the child back to their side.
At this time, the couple no longer felt aloof in the past, and accepted the advice of their neighbors, trying to teach their son some common sense in life.
How can a son who has grown up in a honeypot do hard work? He neither wants to go to the fields to do farm work, nor does he want to wash and cook. He just curls up in bed all day long, eats and sleeps, and eats when he sleeps. He looks like a "waste" "appearance.
One night, Yang Suo, who was sleeping, suddenly stood up and shouted: "I am the True Dragon Emperor, and my name is Yang Delong!"
This sentence made the old couple confused, and they suddenly realized that these were two people. The bitter fruit caused by years of doting can only be swallowed in the stomach now, and no one else can be blamed.
In 1999, 13-year-old Yang Suo experienced the first major change in his life. His father felt unwell and immediately went to the hospital for a check-up. This check brought the whole family to collapse.
My father worked hard for many years and suffered from liver cancer. But the family had no savings, and the father, who was poor and sick, could only lie at home all day long, taking medicine to stay alive.
Not long after, his father died of illness, and the burden of the family fell on his mother. But Yang Suo remained unmoved, and faced his father's death without any disturbance.
Yang's mother thought that her son had lost his father at a young age. Instead, she doted on Yang Suo even more , letting him lie at home while she worked in the fields in the scorching sun and wind and snow.
Long-term hard work made the gray-haired mother feel unwell and she could only stay in bed at home to recuperate. But Yang Suo was not even willing to bring her a cup of hot water.
Now that my son has become like this, I can't blame myself. Even though he is sick, he still works and prepares three meals a day for his son.
Mother Yang gritted her teeth and took care of her son's daily life, but looking at her son lying on the bed all day long, the resentment accumulated in her heart gradually made her feel trance-like.
html One day 15 years later, Yang's mother was doing laundry for her son by the river, but she suddenly became dizzy and fell into the river. She could not be rescued in time and passed away.
This year, Yang Suo was 18 years old and just an adult. However, he did not look like an adult at all. Instead, he continued to live a lazy life like a mental patient.
The cousins felt sorry for Yang Suo because his parents had worked hard all his life, and they couldn't bear to let his younger brother live at home alone. After some discussion, several cousins took turns taking care of Yang Suo.
Everyone has heard about the "giant baby" Yang Suo for a long time, and they are already ready to take care of his brother's food, clothing, and daily life. However, no one expected that Yang Suo doesn't even have basic self-care abilities.
He doesn't know how to wash and bathe, or make a fire to cook, let alone let him go out to work. And when he is hungry, he will call for someone to bring him food. must eat one chicken drumstick a day, otherwise he will yell loudly at home and make the whole family uneasy.
Several cousins kicked Yang Suo around like a ball, and no one was willing to keep him for one more day. As the eldest brother, Yang Deyu was dissatisfied and thought that his cousins were shirking their responsibilities.
With a wave of his hand, he told his cousins that he would raise Yang Suo himself. As you can imagine, Yang Deyu was also very angry. This brother's clothes were dirty and he didn't know how to change them. His hair was swished and he didn't wash it.
In order to allow Yang Suo to live independently, he brought his younger brother to the construction site , hoping that he could change himself through hard work, and arranged a simple job of moving bricks for him.
However, Yang Suo slept at the construction site and stayed in the dormitory unshakable. No matter how dissatisfied Yang Deyu was, he still had to be patient and teach him step by step.
After a while of earnest persuasion, Yang Suo finally went out to move bricks. Within a few minutes, he complained that he was tired and said he was unwilling to work anymore.
Yang Deyu is unwilling to give up. If he abandons Yang Suo, he will really become an unsupervised vagabond. So, he took Yang Suo to a friend's restaurant to wash the dishes.
There is no wind or sun here, and there is no need to exert any effort. When Yang Suo heard that he was going to work in the restaurant, his face suddenly lit up with joy. His cousin thought that his younger brother was enlightened. In fact, Yang Suo just wanted to eat some good food.
Sure enough, during the past few days of working in the restaurant, Yang Suo often stole the guests' food. After being discovered, he refused to change his ways and even threw dozens of plates in a rage.
Yang Deyu finally saw what the "giant baby" was capable of. This time he had no choice but to send his cousin back to his hometown village and let him live alone.
But the kind-hearted cousin will still deliver meals to Yang Suo at regular times every day. When Yang Suo returned home, he was lying on the bed as usual, unwilling to even leave the door.
23-year-old died of starvation at home. What is the reality?
Neighbors in the village are not surprised when they see Yang Suo's current situation, but everyone hopes that he can change his appearance. He is not required to work in the fields, but at least he must be able to take care of his own daily life.
When Yang Suo first returned home, villagers often came to his house to clean up the yard and brought him delicious hot meals , but he never changed.
In order to make a living, Yang Suo had to sell off his family assets one by one. Even Yin Suo, who had been with him since birth, was not spared. Until even the pots and pans were sold, the house was empty, leaving only Some wooden furniture.
Sometimes he couldn't eat, so he looked for food in the garbage dump outside. When winter came and there was no heating tool, would just light the furniture on fire to keep warm.
A handsome young man gradually changed from short hair to long hair and was too lazy to go out and cut it off. How lazy is he? Since the toilet was in the courtyard, he didn't even bother to go out and went to the toilet directly in the living room.
Yang Suo's home smelled so bad that his neighbors were no longer willing to take care of this "giant baby".
Until December 2009, it was a cold winter and there was a strong wind outside. Yang Deyu was going to deliver some more food to his cousin. In fact, before that, Yang Deyu discovered that the food he had delivered was placed in the living room, and Yang Suo allowed it to become moldy and rancid. Too lazy to get out of bed to eat.
Yang Deyu was inevitably worried and wanted to see if Yang Suo had eaten. When the door was pushed open, a stench came oncoming, and the food on the table was rotten.
When I walked to my cousin's bedside, I found that he was motionless and not breathing. He immediately sighed: "My cousin is so lazy! " This year, Yang Suo was 23 years old and in his prime.
Since then, Yang Suo has been known as the most lazy person in Henan. He relies on food to eat without touching his feet. He died of laziness at the age of 23. What is the truth?
In fact, Yang Suo's tragedy stems from the over-indulgence of his parents. They do not want their children to suffer the hardship of studying, do not want their children to be bullied, and do not want their children to do heavy or tiring work.
While other people's children were studying in school, Yang Suo lay at home all day long because he didn't want to do homework, living a life of having to stretch out his hands for food and open his mouth for food.
In this way, Yang Suo has lost his basic ability to survive in society , thinking that as long as he lies down, he can have meat to eat.
Parents cannot accompany their children throughout their lives. Although Yang Suo's parents have a son in old age, they cannot be so pampered. Isn't it a joke that they still hold him in their arms at the age of 7?
When his parents were alive, Yang Suo could lie at home. When he shouted when he was hungry, he would be given chicken drumsticks. When he was thirsty, if he shouted again, he would be given drinks. After his parents passed away, he was already struggling on the edge of death. Seeing this,
's cousins were willing to take care of him and help him find simple and easy jobs. However, they were thrown away one by one by Yang Suo, and he became despised by everyone again.
In the end, no one could take care of Yang Suo and sent him home. At this time, Yang Suo still had no intention of repenting. Faced with everyone's persuasion, he simply locked the door.
In order to fill his belly, he was too lazy to go out to work, so he sold the valuable things in the house. However, the family fortune had already been wiped out, so there was nothing valuable left.
is the silver lock around his neck. was sold in exchange for a few days of food. However, after becoming a homeless man, instead of seeking salvation, he lay in bed "waiting to die."
Yang Suo's tragedy shocked many people and made countless parents realize how serious the consequences of spoiling their children are and how painful the price is.
When a child is born, he is actually a blank piece of paper. As the child's first teacher, parents have a subtle influence on the child's future growth.
There are some pains and hardships that children need to experience by themselves. Only through training can they truly grow as human beings. hopes that there will never be another "Yang Suo"!
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