Story｜Three-child mother·Zixin

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Yesterday, when my husband was out and passing the high-speed rail station, he ran into a neighbor in the district where he was before, a mother with three babies.

At dinner, the husband said with emotion, “Yiyi’s mother, holding a child in one hand, the eldest child is probably going to school, she looks a lot older!”

For, sir, I think about it. I want to say, "Bringing children is a very worrying thing. A mother has to take care of three children. There are many things to worry about. Naturally, she will get old quickly."

The children are talking to their husbands. School matter. I just ate myself, thinking about Yiyi's mother.

Yiyi’s mother has a nice name, Zixin, tall, thin and tall, with double eyelids, big eyes, white and delicate skin, generous personality, warm and hospitable.

I saw her for the first time. She was dressed in a fairy dress. She was very beautiful. She greeted me with a smile. At that time, she only gave birth to a daughter. Her face was ruddy, and she was still a pretty lady who had never been born with a doll.

Her whole body exudes feminine beauty, radiance and temperament, a little bit of jasper, and a little girly, just one glance makes people feel comfortable.

Zi Xin is a post-80s and her husband is from the Northeast. Both she and her husband hope to have a boy again. For this, a lot of thought has been spent.

When the eldest daughter was 4 years old, she gave birth to a second child. Since the second-child policy had not been fully liberalized at that time, it was heard that the couple had gone through a fake divorce and then married under another name. The birth permit was obtained, but the result was a daughter.

when the second child was born,Her mother-in-law came from the northeast and said she was taking care of her, but she said she could not cook, so she had to hire a babysitter.

Zi Xin's grievances and grievances can only be buried in the bottom of my heart. The mother-in-law stayed up to the full moon and hurried back. Zi Xin felt aggrieved and uncomfortable, so she had a fight with her youngest member and gave her husband a long meal, which made her heart feel more comfortable.

With the arrival of the second child, Zixin was unable to go to work, and the cost of the nanny was too high, so she had to quit her job and bring her baby at home and became a full-time mother. At this time, her husband also started a business, invested in business, and started a company.

Zi Xin, one person takes care of two children, all sorts of hardships, all kinds of hardships with babies, tired of her back pain, due to lack of sleep for a long time, the body is deteriorating, and people are getting more and more haggard. .

The fairy-like appearance, face, no longer exists.

When her second daughter was two years old, Zi Xin became pregnant again. Before she became pregnant, she tried all kinds of methods, such as taking Chinese medicine for conditioning, drinking soda, and so on. As long as she heard about having a son, she tried them all.

If the third child is not a boy, she may continue to choose to have four children. The couple wanted a boy with all their heart, and no one could stop it.

had three children, and it really gave birth to a boy.

Zixin invited Yuesao. Zi Xin said, "This time the mother-in-law came and left for seven days. She didn't know how to cook, nor did she help with the children. That is to say, she came to see her grandson symbolically."

Soon.

in the community,I often see Zi Xin pushing a stroller, with her third child lying in the car, pulling her second child in her hands, and sometimes the boss will follow. This is a beautiful scenery in the community.

Zixin has a cheerful personality, greets people when he meets people, warm and hospitable, and likes to say anything that is unpleasant, nagging with others, and soothing his tight nerves. Broken heart for the child.

For a while, I was very busy at work and there were few people going downstairs. When I saw Zi Xin again, I almost didn't recognize her.

My son already knows how to walk, and my second child is also going to the kindergarten. A beautiful hair is reduced and short, a lot of freckles grow on the face, the thin cheekbones are a little protruding, and the face looks a little shriveled. Zi Xin is obviously much older.

She said, "I am going to take the time to massage and practice yoga."

I think she just thinks about it. With 3 children, she won't have time until the third child goes to kindergarten.

Zi Xin never complains about the bitterness of raising children. She said, “The path of life is chosen by herself and cannot rely on others. Instead of complaining, it is better to face it bravely.”

Sometimes she will come back from get off work. When I met her downstairs, she enthusiastically talked to me. She said, "It's better to go to work, you still look very energetic, you look at my full-fledged old mother." After that, she giggled.

I said, "When your third child goes to kindergarten, you will be relaxed."

"Yes, but that's the way I live my whole life. I live for children."

I show her my heart,"When you get old, you will be blessed. At that time, a bunch of children will be around you, and you will be a blessed old lady."

Zi Xin, when she heard that I was comforting her, she smiled Smile, "Yes, in this life, I just want to spend my old age in peace."

We moved out of that community for two years. Mr.

said that her current state can be expected. If a woman is overworked, she will definitely look older.

Although we are not afraid of aging and accept this state of life that humans must go through, we must try our best to organize our appearance and at least stay healthy. If we can't be very elegant, then keep smiling.

A woman with a smile will not be robbed of her brilliance by the years, but will only add a lot of charm to the years.

Zi Xin, a three-child mother, is doing her best to prove her mother's power and maternal love.

Love is the priceless wealth in life, and those who have love will have a strong heart.

Zixin is using a strong inner heart, extending infinite strength and warmth to the outside. With a love heart, she uses her bravery to warm her lover, children and family.

I believe that life is not splendid because of how many days you have lived, but because of how many days you have devoted to love. Please make every day you live, full of love and hope.

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