Talk: Compensation

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House. Either the environment is too bad or the house is too far away. In fact, the most important thing is that they cannot find a house that can only be rented for one month.

Running around was very hard, but I still got nothing. Chen Yang and I are like depressed balloons.

It was sunset soon, and the bus home was at 6:30 pm at the latest. I had to rush to the station with Chen Yang. I went to see the house every day, and the house search hadn't been dealt with yet, so I lost a lot of money in the car fare.

is really disappointing.

Chen Yang sat in the window seat and muttered, “If we can find a suitable house sooner, we don’t have to go back and forth by bus every day.”

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I hurriedly echoed: "Who said no! But the right house is so hard to find?"

After returning home,As soon as my mother-in-law saw Chen Yang and me in this state, she knew that today was another day of inaction.

After dinner, my mother-in-law ran over and said to us: "Yangzi, why don't you live in your sister's house. She lives in the county town."

2 0 _span13 As if full of electricity, I stood up quickly: "Yeah! Why didn't I expect that my sister is in the county seat!" Frowning, this matter is determined not to work.

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Chen Yang and I were both born in rural areas. After graduating from junior high school, none of us went to school, but it happened that he and I often ran into each other in the town.

Later I learned that his father is a contractor, and now he has contracted a newly developed community in our town.

This was originally a classmate, and the two people met frequently, the topic gradually increased, and the relationship gradually heated up. It didn’t take long for Chen Yang’s father to find out about us.Let us get married soon.

My parents must agree. In terms of family conditions, his home is much better than mine.

The most important thing is that Chen Yang's father happily gave a one-time gift of 200,000 yuan, which made my parents' eyes shine, and his family still has 3 houses in the town.

For me in the countryside, it is like a sparrow flying on a branch and making a phoenix.

One year after marriage, I gave birth to a baby boy. My mother suggested that Chen Yang and I buy a house in the county seat, saying that it was for the sake of the child's future studies. After hearing this, the in-laws paid the full amount generously.

Seriously, since I got married with Chen Yang, I have not suffered any bitterness. Everything is done by my in-laws. However, Chen Yang and I agreed on the decoration, that the thinking of our parents is lagging behind ours, and we have different visions. We must follow our own ideas.

For house decoration, we planned to rent a house in the city for a period of time, but after running for many days, we couldn’t rent a suitable house.

and the decoration side,I've been in touch long ago. If our house was not rented well, the renovation project could only be delayed.

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Because I can't find a suitable house for our daughter, Chen Yang is anxious about it.

Although Chen Yang decided to live in his sister's house after listening, I still didn't want to.

There is a custom in our rural areas, that is, couples cannot live in relatives' homes, because this may bring bad luck to relatives' homes.

My mother-in-law is obviously my elder, so it stands to reason that she should know these things better than me. Why do we want us to live in my sister’s house now?

I directly expressed my position with my mother-in-law: "Mom, I would rather spend a little more money to rent a house than live in a relative's house. It is not my own home, so it is not convenient to do anything."

's mother-in-law is very persistent: "These are all my family members. What can be restrained? Whatever is at home, it will be what she is at home."

Chen Yang also said: "It's okay, that's my sister's house, what's the matter, why have to spend more money on renting a house." "

As I talked, I became annoyed. This cousin is not a relative, even if I live in my sister’s house, it depends on the face of my brother-in-law! Chen Yang is really greedy for cheap

And the mother-in-law was also mad at my attitude, she said directly: "You are so stubborn, you run around and can't find a house every day. It's not just right to live in your sister's house. She is looking at my face. What do you care about so much? You girl is really heartbroken. "

I'm too lazy to care my mother, a person close to sleep.

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next morning, Chen Yang on Let's pack our bags and go to his sister's house, and said that the mother-in-law told his sister.

I was speechless, and returned to Chen Yang and said: "My mother speaks, even if they don't want to accept us, they can only Say yes! You have no eyesight at all."

Chen Yang turned around and threw the clothes in his hands on the bed: "Just because you have a lot of ghosts and eyes, it's no wonder your relatives are cold and don't usually come and go. "

I lifted up the quilt and quarreled with Chen Yang: "You said that I belong to me, why are you talking about my family, how my parents deal with things, and what does it have to do with you." "

The mother-in-law came to put out the fire for us, but she must be standing by Chen Yang, after all, that is her son.

After my mother-in-law discouraged her to calm down, she slammed the door out. I sat on the bed alone and became annoyed and collapsed.

My mother-in-law told me not to fight with Chen Yang, saying that he would have that temper. The mother-in-law took a look at me and went out.

I can tell from the mother-in-law's behavior that she is dissatisfied with me.

results,The conflict between Chen Yang and I hadn't subsided yet, and an unexpected person appeared.

Just after dinner in the afternoon, my sister-in-law came to the door. After a few simple greetings, she and her mother-in-law went into the house to look for me.

As soon as we met, after a while, my sister-in-law brought the topic to our most troublesome thing recently: "Sister, I heard that you are looking for a house to rent recently, why don't you be with me? Say it. My house is big with four rooms. If you and Chen Yang live in my house, it must be more comfortable than living in a rented house."

I quickly wanted to say no, but my mother-in-law walked in and immediately Scolding me, saying that I am a very good person and don't want to get along with everyone, I'm so angry.

her aunt is not annoyed at all, she is not anxious or slow to round the field and said: "After all, younger brothers and sisters are not familiar with me, it is normal to be a little strange."

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2 _span14 With that said, the mother-in-law stopped a little.

The next day my brother-in-law and my sister came over again, and told me a lot of things, and asked me to give them a face and stay at their house for a while, as a chance to cultivate relationships with them . Furthermore, they have had the experience of decorating new houses, and they can also provide me with some reference.

The sisters and sisters are so hospitable,In addition, my mother-in-law and Chen Yang also had trouble with me because of this. If I follow my own temperament, I really can't find a step down.

I finally accepted it.

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I just rushed to the county to clean up. Before I went, I bought two cartons of milk and some fruits. The aunt greeted us warmly and complained that we bought too many things.

Auntie's daughter is about to enter the entrance exam. Chen Yang and I also split the room to sleep in order not to cause trouble for them. Although Chen Yang felt that I was unnecessary, I insisted on insisting, and he had no choice but to do what I wanted.

My sister’s house was bought early, so I bought a four-bedroom and two-living house for just over 200,000 yuan. I still admire it in my heart. At the same time, I silently imagined the scene of us moving into a new house in the future.

At night, Chen Yang and I were in the remaining two rooms of my sister’s house, each sleeping in one room.

during the day,We are busy dealing with the decoration, and the sisters and sisters will occasionally help us to take a look at the scene and give some advice.

I am still very moved, so I will buy some gifts and clothes for my children from time to time.

And we usually don’t eat at my sister’s house. We simply eat a little bit at the restaurant by ourselves, but I’m afraid to trouble the sister’s family.

To be honest, Chen Yang was very unwilling in his heart at first. He felt that I was too far-sighted. I persuaded him that he can eat it out to his own taste. And we went back late at night, maybe the food was cold at that time.

After nearly two months, the decoration is almost complete, which made Chen Yang and I breathe a sigh of relief.

Before we moved from my sister’s house, Chen Yang and I decided to give them a meal.

Chen Yang and I are not stingy people. We went to a nice restaurant in the county for this meal. I am afraid of owing others.

However, to be honest, this month at my sister’s house,I did feel the preciousness of relatives.

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The decoration of the new house is over. Finally, Chen Yang and I are in the heart of the new house. But I did not expect that there will be new troubles.

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Chen Yang comforted her on the phone: "It’s okay to go to a vocational high school. It’s good to learn a technique, and I will be popular in the future."

Correspondingly: "That's right, going to school is not the only way out. Ask your child what he thinks. If you are really unwilling, then try to repeat the course for a year."

turned out, but the phone end The child exploded, and the aunt yelled like a mad lion: "Reading is not a way out, so what do you want her to do? Is it possible to do nothing at home like a younger sibling?"

, I can't comfort,On the contrary, I was involved, so I won't say anything.

Chen Yang patiently calmed his sister's mood on the phone, but did not say a few words, and the important words finally came out.

I just listened to my auntie scolding angrily on the other side: "It's really unlucky. If you didn't live in, how could our children fail to pass the high school. Your house is decorated, it's unlucky." Yun Kequan has brought us to our house. You and your husband and wife have moved into my house. Two couples appear in one house. What will it look like? It will not be ashamed to spread out..."

This is even Chen Yang also had no patience, so he hung up the phone.

The mother-in-law came and asked about the situation. Chen Yang told her about it. The mother-in-law who was still clamoring in front of me before suddenly became dumb. On the contrary, I sat comfortably holding my son and licking sunflower seeds. Thinking of the way my mother-in-law was before, now I feel ridiculous and ironic.

Chen Yang's both nostrils were on fire. For a while, the mother-in-law muttered softly: "Your sister may be in a bad mood after seeing the child not taking the exam, so speak hard. Don't think too much about it. She will be better tomorrow."

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6 o'clock in the morning,I was still asleep, and there was a rapid ringing on my phone. I hung up subconsciously, but I called back one after another.

finally opened his eyes and took a closer look. It was a sister.

I answered the question impatiently with the anger of getting up. Who ever thought, before I got angry, the other party started to get angry, and there was a reprimand on the phone, the voice was so loud that my son was scared to cry.

I threw the phone directly to Chen Yang and went to coax my son.

Interestingly, Chen Yang was also wiped black. My sister-in-law was still holding on to yesterday's affairs. She always felt that her child did not pass the high school entrance examination, and she blamed Chen Yang and me.

Immediately afterwards, the phone called to the mother-in-law's side, and the mother-in-law also blew her face gray. The mother-in-law who hung up the phone sat on the stool and frowned, and then looked at me and Chen Yang. , I asked: "Have you two live in your sister's house?"

When I heard this, I was too ashamed, so I hurried to the house. Chen Yang was also embarrassed to say: "Mom, what are you talking about? Don't say anything like that, OK? Song Qian and I sleep in the same room."

Then,The mother-in-law fell into a period of contemplation again.

Chen Yang turned around and went back to the room, saying that her aunt might be in a state of confusion. She woke up early in the morning to make trouble, and then we all mute the phones and go to bed.

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I thought it would be over here. Who ever thought that my aunt and her husband came to the door personally for this.

The sister-in-law changed her previous gentleness, her face was angry, and sometimes made a noise and sobbed. She said that they had worked so hard to nurture their children for so many years. This time she failed the exam. How can she read it casually? Vocational high school. How much did their family put on their children? Even on weekends, they hired tutors. If it weren't for me and Chen Yang to live in their homes, how could they have paid for the children in vain.

At this time, I couldn't hold back anymore, jumped up and confronted her: "Obviously you had to let us live in before, and it was just to give you face, but now I'm pushing the blame It's on us."

Now that the reason is not valid in her, my aunt cried and said, "Auntie asked me to make room for you. Can I agree? Do you live if you live? Don’t you know the rules?"

We haven’t recovered yet,She said again: "You have to compensate me for what I have paid for so many years."

This time not only involved the mother-in-law, but also involved money disputes, which seems to be a big drama. NS.

Chen Yang first rushed in front of me and said to his aunt: "Your child’s grades are not good since he was a child, and his junior high school grades are still bad. This is something everyone knows, otherwise you please What does the tutor do? You used to worry about your children failing to enter high school, but now you have the face to lay the blame on us."

Actually, this is really hard to measure. I really can’t argue with it. .

There are more and more people watching the excitement at the door of the house. The mother-in-law’s face is really ugly, and some people are pointing at the back.

The mother-in-law walked over, handed a piece of paper to the sister-in-law, comforted and coaxed: "Don’t cry, it’s all my fault. I asked Yangzi to give you 3000 yuan. Go back and buy something for your child."

Unexpectedly, my sister-in-law doesn't want it at all. People want something that everyone can never imagine.

my sister asked for 500,000,Or give her the house that Chen Yang and I just bought in the county seat.

Suddenly, I think this seems to be a calculation, but it may not be too surprising. A house is a joke.

Chen Yang was furious and was about to go over and get angry with his red eyes. Suddenly, the mother-in-law pulled Chen Yang away and walked in front of her aunt.

I thought she was going to apologize for us, but she did not expect that she dug up all the grievances and secrets she had suffered for many years.

The mother-in-law stood calmly and stared at her auntie: "Yoko has lived in your house for a few days, and you are thinking about blackmailing? I have raised you for 15 years, so I take care of me. You can be regarded as half a mother, and Yoko is comparable to your brother, don't you have no conscience?"

For a moment, I was dumbfounded, and my sister was stunned.

Then the mother-in-law said: "You came to my house when you were 6 years old. Because your parents were divorced, no one cares about you. I ignored Yangzi's dad's objection and just took you over. You were young. The food, clothing, housing and transportation are all made by Yangzi’s father who worked hard outside. You never bought anything for us after you got married. Every time you come back, you think about squeezing. After all, I raised a wolf."

My aunt was flustered for a while,But he was immediately angered by her mother-in-law's words: "You are not as good to me as you are to your son. Why don't you give Chen Yang the money you make?" I slapped it and said, "When you got married, I gave you 88,000 as a dowry and bought you a new mobile phone. In the end, you sold the mobile phone to your second aunt's son. When you came back, I lied and said that I lost it and asked me to renew it. I bought one for you. If it weren't for my second aunt to tell me this, I might still be kept in the dark. You haven't changed at all for so many years. I spoiled you."

My aunt panicked instantly and did something bad, thinking that no one else knew it, and she was pierced all at once. That kind of frustration was really embarrassing, and she couldn't say anything to resist. Amidst the accusations of Chen Yang and outsiders, she was pulled out of the door by her sister-in-law.

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I asked Chen Yang why I hadn’t lived with my sister after all these years.

Chen Yang sighed and said, you have also seen that this kind of people with no conscience is always the pain in our body. I thought she discovered her conscience this time, but she didn't expect her nature to be hard to change.

Chen Yang also said,Before, the mother-in-law was obsessed with her aunt. She tried her best to be nice to her aunt, always thinking that her aunt would be filial to her. So she has been waiting for the day when her conscience discovers her conscience, but in the end, she still failed to achieve it.

Moreover, the mother-in-law used to be very obedient to the sister-in-law, so the sister-in-law dare to be so arrogant, thinking that this time she can plan to succeed.

Later, the mother-in-law also figured it out and advised us not to contact the sister-in-law, otherwise it would definitely be calculated. The mother-in-law also blamed herself, and she blamed herself for being ruthless to educate her at the beginning, and for not being able to stop her waywardness in time. Everything was caused by her temperament, and now it has caused a catastrophe.

I sighed that if I gave blindly, I would not get the gratitude of others, but would incur resentment. My mother-in-law repeatedly said that she had done bad things with kind intentions.

After that, the mother-in-law called the eldest aunt again and told her all the things the aunt had done in recent years, including this time. I hope the aunt can have some time to educate the aunt and let her always Keep a kind heart.

After this lesson, I also understand: When getting along with relatives, you must never treat other people's homes as your own. Sometimes, some rules still need to be exquisite, even if others don't say or complain, you have to set a standard in your heart.

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