I told my mother-in-law that I was going to get a divorce.

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2021-06-07

Jiang Qiu had decided to divorce, and made an agreement with Xu Shen to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau on Monday to go through the procedure.

When the two met on the same day, Xu Shen's unshaven face was not very good. On the other hand, Jiang Qiu stepped on high heels and wore a dress, and at a glance, he knew that he was well-dressed. Jiang Qiu knew that this was not the end of marriage life, but a new beginning.

entered the Civil Affairs Bureau, and the staff gave two forms. Just as the two were filling out the form, Jiang Qiu's cell phone rang, and when she saw that it was her mother's phone, she thought that there shouldn't be a big deal, and the application form was finished immediately. Not wanting anything to go wrong with the divorce, she hung up the phone first.

Xu Shen also saw the phone call from his mother-in-law and said, "Go ahead, what if there is an emergency?" Take time out of my busy schedule to cooperate with my divorce, I can’t wait.”

Xu Shen knew that Jiang Qiu’s words were mocking himself, but he didn’t get angry, “Come on, our husband and wife fight, I can afford to wait. If there is an urgent matter, it won't take a few minutes if I have nothing to do, so please rest assured." She raised her eyes to see Xu Shen's sincere eyes when he said these words, and did not refuse. When I called back, I didn't expect my mother to tell her on the phone that 's father suddenly fainted and went to the hospital.

dropped the pen, and Jiang Qiu rushed outside. Seeing Jiang Qiu's appearance, Xu Shen had a premonition that something must have happened, so he rushed out. Help Jiang Qiu get a taxi and go to the hospital together.

went to the hospital, doctor said that Jiang's father's condition was not very good, it was hypertensive heart disease , and he needed to be hospitalized for further examination, and if necessary, he needed to undergo surgery to implant a mechanical auxiliary device.

Hospitalization, examination, surgery This is not a small sum. The doctor said that at least 100,000 should be prepared in the early stage, and the family members should pay the hospitalization fee first.

Jiang Qiu looked at the payment slip in his hand, thinking about his father, who had worked hard for him for half his life, and could not give up treatment no matter what. But where did this astronomical figure come from? It really made Tiantian not call the earth to be inactive, Jiang Qiu was worried and helpless.

At this time, Xu Shen came out of the doctor's office with the preliminary examination sheet of the old man in his hand, and patted Jiang Qiu on the back: "Don't worry, let's think about and together, and our father will be fine."

As he said that, he took out a wallet from his trouser pocket, and took out a bank card at the innermost layer and handed it to Jiang Qiu: "This is all the savings of our family since we got married, a total of more than 80,000 points. You take it first. Now, if it's not enough, I'll think of a way, the password is our wedding anniversary."

Jiang Qiu was stunned for a while, she didn't expect Xu Shen to save 80,000 yuan, and she didn't expect that he would take it all out to save her at this time. 's father.

Xu Shen saw the disbelief in Jiang Qiu's eyes, and said, "This is originally for you to get divorced. I didn't have time to mention it to you at the Civil Affairs Bureau just now. You accept it first, and it's important to treat Dad first. We'll talk about it later."

On one side is his father who needs money for medical treatment, and on the other side is his husband who was going through a divorce a second. Jiang Qiu didn't have time to think too much, so he received the card and hurried to pay.

Jiang Qiu had decided to divorce, and made an agreement with Xu Shen to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau on Monday to go through the procedure.

Xu Shen also saw the phone call from his mother-in-law and said, "Go ahead, what if there is an emergency?" Take time out of my busy schedule to cooperate with my divorce, I can’t wait.”

went to the hospital, doctor said that Jiang's father's condition was not very good. It was hypertensive heart disease.

Jiang Qiu was stunned for a while, she didn't expect Xu Shen to save 80,000 yuan, and she didn't expect that he would take it all out to save her at this time. 's father.

Jiang Qiu and Xu Shen are alumni of different majors in the same university. They met at the fellowship meeting. Xu Shen was once the boy who ran to see her, and they once talked about a sweet love that they had to kiss each other. The beauty of

didn't last long until they became a long-distance couple.

When they just graduated, they decided to stay in the city, work together and get married. Jiang Qiu and Xu Shen are both authentic rural families, and it is not easy for their parents to support them to finish university, so they are considered naked marriages.

Or say poor couples are sad. Jiang Qiu became pregnant in the second month after receiving the certificate. In three or four months, Jiang Qiu morning sickness was particularly severe. In his spare time, Xu Shen is also unable to do what he wants, not to mention the birth of a baby, confinement, , and breastfeeding. So the two discussed and asked Jiang Qiu to temporarily return to the county to be taken care of by his parents.

This time, it is three years.

The marriage of two people in different places is less and more. Jiang Qiu gave birth to a son , and faced pulling and pulling a child alone, the child ate, drank and lasagna, the child went to the hospital when he was ill, got vaccine , went to kindergarten and so on. Although the elderly on both sides will also help, but after all, they cannot replace the roles of father and husband.

To make matters worse, 's mother-in-law suffered a moderate stroke when the baby was one year old, and the treatment cost a lot of money, and she will not be able to take care of her in the future. Jiang Qiu took care of her mother-in-law while taking care of the children, and managed the family's large and small affairs , and never went out to work again.

And Xu Shen has been a small leader in the company over the years,The salary is also stretched to face the life of a large family. If you give up your current job and come back to develop, the rice tank at home will be bottomed out. Helpless, the two had to maintain the status quo of long-distance marriage.

all say that women with palms up will not have a good time, Jiang Qiu is a typical example. Without a source of income, he had to ask Xu Shen for everything. And Xu Shen always blamed Jiang Qiu for spending a lot of money and spending money indiscriminately.

Jiang Qiu is full of grievances , the children and the elderly in the family don't need money, usually is reluctant to eat and wear , but I can't wrong my children.

Every time Jiang Qiu asked for money, Xu Shen would cross-examine where the money she gave last time was spent? Jiang Qiu had to report everything clearly, and occasionally Xu Shen felt that he should not spend money, and the two had to argue for a long time.

This made Jiang Qiu feel extremely distrustful. He worked hard for this family, but could not get Xu Shen's understanding. Every time the two communicated, it was money, and Xu Shen became more and more impatient, and came back less and less often.

Jiang Qiu once doubted whether Xu Shen had a woman outside, otherwise, although the monthly salary was not much, it would not be so stingy. She even left the child at her parents' house and came to the city to follow Xu Shen.

I didn't expect to say nothing, but Xu Shen found out, scolded Jiang Qiu and accused her of being ignorant. Jiang Qiu had no evidence, so he had no choice but to give up.

What made Jiang Qiu decide to divorce was the rainy night when his son was sick.

It has been raining for several days, the little boy is always naughty,After a while, I ran out to tread water to play. Get covered in water, caught cold. If not, in the middle of the night, Jiang Qiu discovered that his son had initiated a high fever of and .

The nearly 38-degree figure in the thermometer frightened Jiang Qiu. She hurriedly picked up her son, dressed it up, and prepared to go to the hospital with an umbrella. There are very few late-night cars in and . Jiang Qiu waited for a while without waiting for a taxi.

Looking at his son's distressed face, Jiang Qiu was so anxious that he stopped the car when he saw it, and finally a car was willing to take them. I thought I would meet a kind and well-meaning person, but the driver saw that the machine fell into the ground and asked for 50 tolls. Said that their mother had soiled the seats, and it was difficult to walk in the rain. It was very rare to ask for 50.

How could Jiang Qiu care about the theory and readily agreed. Just get to the hospital quickly.

The doctor said that fortunately, it was delivered in time, so I'll check the situation first. With the assurance from the doctor that there is no serious problem, Jiang Qiu's mother's heart can breathe a sigh of relief.

After all this tossing, Jiang Qiuji was penniless. She called Xu Shen, told him about his son's illness, and asked him to transfer some money.

Xu Shen froze when he heard it: "What son has a fever? How can you be a mother? Just looking at my son for a day doesn't look good, how much does it cost to get sick!" Especially knowing that Jiang Qiu spent 50 taxis, he was even more angry He was furious and complained that his wife would not live.

When Xu Shen blamed him, he shot him like a machine gun, and Jiang Qiu couldn't even get a word in. The son in his arms finally fell asleep. Jiang Qiu couldn't bear to wake him up, so he suppressed his anger and said, "You bastard." He hung up the phone.

Jiang Qiu's tears could no longer be held back. The chills are piled up again and again by disappointment,Think about things like today, which have happened a lot over the past few years. Have you been compromising yourself all the time? What did the long-distance marriage bring her?

Jiang Qiu wanted to understand a lot that night, and lived a widowed marriage instead. It is better to live with dignity alone. Although it must be a very hard road, but there is no need to look at other people's faces.

Jiang Qiu thought that after their divorce, their children can go to kindergarten and go out to find a job by themselves. There are also parents at home to help, the situation will not be worse than now.

I think that I can leave this blood-sucking marriage. No matter how difficult the road ahead is, the future is also promising, and the days are promising.

When Jiang Qiu filed for divorce from Xu Shen, Xu Shen was very surprised and asked Jiang Qiu why? Jiang Qiu talked about the sadness and grievances of these years, and there was a bit of luck in his heart, maybe Xu Shen would realize the problems of their two marriages.

I didn't expect Xu Shen to say; "Just because of these little things? You're going to get a divorce? I'm afraid you have other dog men. You have been a monster several times just for divorce?" It wouldn't be because she had an extramarital affair, deliberately suspected someone outside her, deliberately provoked conflicts and wanted a divorce, otherwise how would she live without her?

Jiang Qiu heard Xu Shen not only unrepentant, but also insulted himself. In a fit of anger, he said harshly: "I'm divorced from this marriage."

Jiang Qiu told her mother-in-law of her decision. Her mother-in-law was anxious when she heard that Jiang Qiu was about to get a divorce. She didn't care about Jiang Qiu, who was still in front of her. I want my son not to get divorced. I need someone to take care of me because of my stroke. My father-in-law is also getting old.What's more, the son can't come back. After the divorce, the grandson can only be raised by the daughter-in-law. Isn't it difficult to see the grandson in the future.

My mother-in-law spoke the truth in a hurry, even more so than drinking . Xu Shen couldn't see Jiang Qiu's efforts over the years, but her mother-in-law saw it in her eyes. After she fell ill, Jiang Qiu tried her best. As a woman, my mother-in-law didn't say a word for herself.

Every word is in its own interest. This family is always selfish and only considers itself.

Before her mother-in-law and Xu Shen finished talking on the phone, Jiang Qiu turned around and left. Sincerely wrong, nothing can change her determination to divorce.

If it wasn't for his father's sudden illness and hospitalization, Jiang Qiu would definitely divorce without hesitation. But during the time my father was hospitalized, things changed again.

Xu Shen and the company have taken annual leave, thanks to him for helping a lot. Jiang Qiu was a woman after all, so it was very inconvenient to take care of her father.

During this period, neither of them mentioned the divorce again. Jiang Qiu was also beating drums in his heart, and he was hesitant about divorce.

On the one hand, Xu Shen not only took out all his savings when his father fell ill this time, but also took time off to take care of his father by himself. He is really a good husband. When Jiang Qiu refused to take care of his father, Xu Shen said, "Don't you also take care of my sick mother for a long time? We haven't divorced yet, so your father is still my father."

Jiang Qiu was even a little moved. If she could face life together like this before, she would have nothing else to ask for.

On the other hand, Jiang Qiu is worried that even if we make up this time,Then she will still have to go back to the days of free babysitting and winking.

Jiang Qiu had no idea for a while. After thinking about it, he felt that procrastinating all the time was not the way to go. It was better for two people to sit down and talk.

Jiang Qiu first went to Xu Shen and said, "We divorced, you..." Jiang Qiuyuan wanted to say, what do you think.

Xu Shen thought that Jiang Qiu wanted to continue the divorce procedure, so he hurriedly interrupted her and said urgently, "Wife, I know I'm wrong. When I come back this time, my father is hospitalized, my mother needs someone to take care of me, and we have a son. It is also inseparable from people. I only know how hard you are. It’s also my fault that I don’t have any great skills. I thought that I could not open source but only reduce expenditure, and let your mother and wife live in their own house as soon as possible, but I have been ignoring your feelings. If you give me another chance, I will definitely change! Can we leave?”

It is not easy for grass-roots graduates to work outside without a background, not only to face the high pressure of 996, 007, but also New competitors come in, and they can't keep up if they're not careful. Xu Shen also vented his emotions outside to his wife.

In recent years, I have rarely heard Xu Shen say these words calmly and at one time. In the past, the two always quarreled without saying a word.

Jiang Qiu was still digesting what Xu Shen said, but when Xu Shen saw that Jiang Qiu didn't respond, he thought she was determined to leave, so he stopped Jiang Qiu and hugged him.

added: "In the future, we will hand over our family's money to you for safekeeping, and hand in my salary card. Look at my performance and approve my living expenses. I will definitely work harder to give you and your son the best life, okay? ?" Jiang Qiu couldn't see Xu Shen's face,However, Xu Shen's voice was slightly choked up.

Jiang Qiu also hugged Xu Shen back: "My husband, I am also at fault, it must be difficult for you to work outside alone. I always complain to you about life, but I haven't heard about your things outside. We will work hard together in the future. "

Marriage looks like thousands of thousands, not all families are rich, not all couples can stay together every day.

Maybe we have a bad card at the beginning, as long as the husband and wife have the heart to keep going and are willing to solve the problem together, then it will definitely be a win-win situation.

If you give up your current job and come back to develop, the rice tank at home will be bottomed out. Helpless, the two had to maintain the status quo of long-distance marriage.

Jiang Qiu is full of grievances , the children and the elderly in the family don't need money, usually is reluctant to eat and wear , but I can't wrong my children.

I didn't expect to say nothing, but Xu Shen found out, scolded Jiang Qiu and accused her of being ignorant. Jiang Qiu had no evidence, so he had no choice but to give up.

What made Jiang Qiu decide to divorce was the rainy night when his son was sick.

It has been raining for several days, and the little boy is always naughty. After a while, he runs outside to tread water to play. Get covered in water, caught cold.If not, in the middle of the night, Jiang Qiu discovered that his son had initiated a high fever of and .

How could Jiang Qiu care about the theory and readily agreed. Just get to the hospital quickly.

After all this tossing, Jiang Qiuji was penniless. She called Xu Shen, told him about his son's illness, and asked him to transfer some money.

Jiang Qiu's tears could no longer be held back. The chills are accumulated over and over again by disappointment. Think about things like today, which have not happened less often in the past few years.Have you been compromising yourself all the time? What did the long-distance marriage bring her?

I think that I can leave this blood-sucking marriage. No matter how difficult the road ahead is, the future is also promising, and the days are promising.

Jiang Qiu heard Xu Shen not only unrepentant, but also insulted himself. In a fit of anger, he said harshly: "I'm divorced from this marriage."

Jiang Qiu told her mother-in-law of her decision. Her mother-in-law was anxious when she heard that Jiang Qiu was about to get a divorce. She didn't care about Jiang Qiu, who was still in front of her.I want my son not to get divorced. I need someone to take care of me because I have a stroke. My father-in-law is getting old, not to mention that my son can't come back. After the divorce, my grandson can only be raised by my daughter-in-law.

Every word is in its own interest. This family is always selfish and only considers itself.

Before her mother-in-law and Xu Shen finished talking on the phone, Jiang Qiu turned around and left. Sincerely wrong, nothing can change her determination to divorce.

If it wasn't for his father's sudden illness and hospitalization, Jiang Qiu would definitely divorce without hesitation. But during the time my father was hospitalized, things changed again.

Xu Shen and the company have taken annual leave, thanks to him for helping a lot. Jiang Qiu was a woman after all, so it was very inconvenient to take care of her father.

During this period, neither of them mentioned the divorce again. Jiang Qiu was also beating drums in his heart, and he was hesitant about divorce.

Jiang Qiu was even a little moved. If she could face life together like this before, she would have nothing else to ask for.

On the other hand, Jiang Qiu was worried that even if she reconciled this time, she would still have to go back to the days of free babysitting and winking.

Jiang Qiu had no idea for a while. After thinking about it, he felt that procrastinating all the time was not the way to go. It was better for two people to sit down and talk.

Jiang Qiu first went to Xu Shen and said, "We divorced, you..." Jiang Qiuyuan wanted to say, what do you think.

In recent years, I have rarely heard Xu Shen say these words calmly and at one time. In the past, the two always quarreled without saying a word.

Jiang Qiu was still digesting what Xu Shen said, but when Xu Shen saw that Jiang Qiu didn't respond, he thought she was determined to leave, so he stopped Jiang Qiu and hugged him.

added: "In the future, our money will be handed over to you for safekeeping, and my salary card will be handed in. Look at my performance and give me the living expenses.I'll definitely work harder to give you and your son the best life, okay? Jiang Qiu couldn't see Xu Shen's face, but he could hear Xu Shen's voice choked. I'm complaining to you about life, but I didn't listen to what you were doing outside. We will work hard together in the future. "

Marriage looks like thousands of thousands, not all families are rich, not all couples can stay together every day.

Maybe we have a bad card at the beginning, as long as the husband and wife have the heart to keep going If you are willing to solve problems together, then you will definitely be able to win.

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