classmate Dongmei shared a ridiculous story with me. Of course, it was an accident for them.
Yesterday was Xiaomei’s 87th birthday. The whole family sat together for a reunion dinner, and they were all happy.
But somehow, as he talked about the elderly’s pension problem.
Xiaomei's husband's surname is Bai, and his name is Bai Qingchuan. He is the youngest of the five siblings. He is the old son of his parents. His mother gave birth to him at the age of 42.
The eldest sister is Qingluan, she is 65 years old this year. She said that her mother is older, her ears are deaf, and her legs are getting more and more difficult. She asked if she could discuss how to take care of the elderly in the future while everyone is here.
Is it a rich person who contributes money and strongly, or is it a take-and-take care?
The second sister Qingfeng said: "I think it's better for our mother to choose. Should we take turns to live in our five families, or would we be willing to stay in the house without moving.
If she doesn't want to live in the same house, she will take care of her family, and the rest will be funded according to the salary of our town factory."
"This method is good and fair. Ask my mother what she means, just decide this matter." Everyone agreed.
"Mom, we think that you are old and we are not at ease to live in the future. Think about it yourself, will it be your turn to live in a family or a family?" Qingluan shouted in front of her mother's ear.
"I don't have to do it. The old man in the east of the village said that the old man takes turns to raise his life, and his lifespan is not long. The family is rushing to the other family to chase him, just like begging for food..."
"Then let's live in a family. If you look at whoever is good or who likes us, you can live in a house!"
"You guys are all good. The palms and backs of your hands are flesh, and everyone likes who likes you."
"Then there must be someone who is the best, but you have a good person, choose one!"
"I won't go to my daughter's house, I have a son, I will go to my daughter's house to support the elderly!"
"I'm fine, my son's house, I don't object to anyone who goes to..."
Chunfeng heard the old mother's words and smiled: "My mother is getting more and more energetic as she gets older, and no one of her three sons is willing to offend..."
The eldest brother Qingshan said: "Mom, why don't you go to my house?"
"No! Your family is in the same courtyard as your grandson and daughter-in-law. You are old, deaf and dizzy, and you are so snot that you can relax. The young ones don't like it..."
The second brother Qinghe almost got angry: "Mom, you are always really energetic, so go to my house."
The second brother is a cadre in the town and takes the elevator in the building: "No, your wife is a teacher, and she treats me as a student at any time..."
The second sister-in-law smiled and shook her head. Her daughter Bai Xiaohan was raised by her grandmother:
"When I was a child, my mother scolded me and grandmother, and she said one by one.
probably because my grandmother had a psychological shadow..."
The eldest sister said, "Mom, after all, you still want to live in the third family.
You said you can go around this circle. But the third brother works outside, and Dongmei also works in the town factory. If you go to his house, who will take care of you?"
"Didn't you say that you can pay together? I remember Dongmei can earn 4,000 a month, and you can give it to the four families."
4,000 a month, and the family will get 1,000, 12,000 a year. In the countryside, this is not a small amount.
Before anyone could say anything, the eldest daughter-in-law stopped doing it first: "Old lady, your heart is on the verge of the west.
No matter whether others give it to me or not, my family won't give it to me anyway! If you marry me into your house, your bowl of water will not be even. I'll give you some food and drinks.
Now you are so arrogant and want me to take money to supplement your old son. I tell you, it's okay to ask my family to get money, you give me 100,000 first!
Otherwise, , there is no door! "
" The eldest daughter-in-law, why is my bowl of water not flat? Tell me, if you make sense, I will smash my old bones with this money, I will give it to you!" "
" When I got married with Qingshan, three thatched houses, stone walls, and yellow mud were embedded with cracks, it would be ugly.
When the second child got married, three tiled houses were brought out of the building, which was spacious and bright.
The third child got married, and five bungalows were equipped with eaves, which was dozens of times better than my family.
Have you served a bowl of water equally in this house? "
My two children, family planning is tight, the two sons are only eleven months apart. When I gave birth to the second child, you cried so hard that you didn't even show it for a day. After you finished your family, you didn't stretch your hands.
You brought your second daughter from birth to elementary school. Is this fair?
These two things, I want you not to have more than 100,000, right?"
The old lady almost got excited after hearing these words from her eldest daughter-in-law:
"Boss wife, I'm old, but I'm not confused, I'll make a calculation for you.
Boss, you said, when you got married, do you have tiled houses in our village? No.
Although it's a thatched house, all the houses are built for you, it's the first in our village, right?
The second child is three years younger than you, and you got married late. At that time, tiled houses were popular in the village. Your father and I built tiled houses for you, right?
What's more, the second child worked for several years when building a house. He paid for the bricks and tiles himself. Do you have a calculation?
As for the third brother, the eldest brother, he is eighteen years younger than you and 6 years older than your eldest brother. How can you be so embarrassed to compete with him?
He went out to work at the age of 17 and got married at the age of 28. How much money did we add to the house?
count it over and over again, it is your house. You didn't pay a penny, it was all built by my father and I.
Let's talk about the children, the eldest daughter-in-law, these two grandchildren I have seen little, but Qingfeng has seen a lot.
The eldest grandson is full moon and the second grandson is on your body. You won’t hug him for 6 months. It’s all Qingfeng’s care.
Watching him during the day and hugging him at night, have you ever fucked you at a snack?
She is my daughter, think about who she is?
If you want to say look at the child, I’m the most sorry for Dongmei, two children, I haven’t seen it for a day..."
The old lady said, and tears almost flowed out.
What else should the eldest daughter-in-law say? Dongmei was pulled by him and turned to Dongmei and said, "Why are you pulling me? The old lady is obviously biased towards you. Don't be good at getting cheap!"
"Are you just jealous of my house better than yours? Sister-in-law, you can see clearly, my eldest son is seventeen, your grandson is fourteen.
I am earlier than your son. We have been married for 4 years, right? "
" Yes, what's wrong? "
" No, don't think I'm rude. If you get married for twenty years late, five bungalows with eaves, my mother-in-law won't build you, I'll build you!
If you get married for 40 years late, a small villa with two and three floors, what style do you say, I'll find someone to build you!
The premise is that you Rebirth your son and grandson once again.
got married for twenty years at night, your son is not much older than your grandson.
got married forty years at night, your son is still drinking milk! "
sister-in-law's face turned red...
Dongmei said that if she lets the old man live in her house, she doesn't want a penny: "Now there are so many only children, I don't believe it, their elderly will No one cares.
If you don’t care, I will think that my husband is the only child..."
Conclusion:
The biggest problem facing elderly people with many children is only two words, one is “climbing” and the other is “die.”
Climbing is a comparative heart. It is not who is filial, but who is not filial. Everyone gives me a bowl of porridge, but my second family gives me a bowl of thin rice. Why can I drink porridge but not thin rice?
is to shirk each other. Anyway, you are not me. I still have to worry about it. If you can pay less money, you can pay less, and if you can get less effort, you can get less effort.
But there are benefits to many children, and there will always be people who feel sorry for their parents, and unfilial piety is just an isolated case.
Like Dongmei’s eldest brother, that’s the case.
Finally, they agreed that their mother-in-law lived in Dongmei’s house, and gave Dongmei one acre and two cents of elderly care land, and each of the four brothers and sisters gave each month a subsidy of 500 yuan.
I was hospitalized if I was sick, the fees were spread equally...
