A men are usually honest and honest in the eyes of others. They go to and from get off work normally, do not smoke or drink, and have never heard of any bad hobbies.
Wife Ding is also a lady in the eyes of ordinary people.
The relationship between A and Ding is very good.
One day, Ding told Man A that he missed his parents and wanted to stay at his parents' home for a few days. It has only been less than two years since the two got married and they have no children. It is reasonable for the wife to think of her parents. Man A said to Ding, then you can stay for a few days.
One night after a few days, Man A came home. After dinner, the house was empty and very bored and had no interest in watching TV.
Man A was lying on the bed playing with his mobile phone. As he was swiping, he suddenly thought of "people nearby" , so he used another WeChat account to find people nearby to relieve his boredom. After clicking on people nearby, several "people nearby" appeared. Man A chose one of them named "I'm waiting for you in the old place" and started chatting. As the chatting, the other party's fresh and exciting words made Man A hot all over his body. The two then went straight to the topic and went to a hotel to check in. To show sincerity, Man A also said that he would transfer the money for the booking room. Unexpectedly, the person who "I'm waiting for you in the old place" said that he would give it to him when he met and asked Man A to wait for news.
I have long wanted to relax the A man, and this sentence made A man rather go to the fire than go over immediately.
Another half hour passed, and Man A received the message in Room 708 of a certain hotel.
Because he was afraid that his wife would come back in the evening, Man A was about to call his wife before leaving, but he didn't expect that his wife called first: "Where are you?"
Man A: "Where can I be? I'm not at home yet, do you want to have a video?"
Wife: "I'll ask if you care, why do you do it seriously?"
Man A: "Have you lived enough, come back quickly."
Wife: "I know, I'll go back tomorrow."
When he went out, Man A was glad that he had not gone out yet, otherwise the video would not be able to be said. When he went downstairs, Man Jia hesitated, but still couldn't resist the temptation.
A man rushed to the hotel he agreed to with "I'm waiting for you in the old place" and went straight to Room 708. After arriving outside the door of the room, he looked around habitually. Seeing that there was no one around, he knocked on the door gently with his excited and trembling hands. The moment the door opened, both of them were stunned.
"Why are you?" , the two of them said this at the same time.
After entering the house, Ding said that he wanted to test the other party whether he was suspected of cheating. Man A said that he thought so too. As he spoke, even he found it funny.
Thinking of his beloved wife making an appointment with others so skillfully, Man A thought Ding must have done it many times and could not accept this fact anyway. In anger, he pressed Ding on the floor of the room and started to beat him, which made Ding plead and plead for mercy.
was in a panic and took advantage of the opportunity of man A's fight and ran into the toilet. He called the police and said that he was beaten and injured in a certain hotel.
A man opened the toilet door and beat Ding again.
After the security personnel arrived at the room, they took the two away to investigate. Man A said that the couple quarreled over family affairs. Ding said that Man A was soliciting prostitution and provided a chat record of the two. In the face of the evidence, Man A had nothing to say, but Ding said that he was just testing Man A and that the agreement to open a room was not his original intention.
He also called his husband, Man A before going out. Ding said something reasonable. Although the agreement between the two of them was in line with the characteristics of prostitution, they were husband and wife after all, and they did not have a relationship after meeting. Although they did not know that the other party was a husband and wife, and the person was a de facto husband and wife, it was not advisable for the wife to test this way.
plus Ding's case report, he was leniently dealt with, and was only criticized and educated. In addition to being fined 500 yuan, he was detained for public security for five days.
Conclusion:
01 The most basic trust between husband and wife. If there is no basic trust, there will be many contradictions. At the same time, it is not possible to test it in extreme ways. This is a seduction type of mistake. Even if one party makes such a mistake, the responsibility cannot be completely attributed to the other party. At least the seduction party also has certain responsibility;
02 Even if one party makes mistakes occasionally, it is necessary to distinguish whether it is an occasional or a habitual offender. The occasional offender can be forgiven, but the habitual offender cannot be accommodated. If you don’t change your lessons after repeated instruction, don’t force yourself;
03 Equality between husband and wife is not empty talk, it should be reflected in specific matters. The two agreed to book a room even if Ding is in the same situation. Man A should not hurt her. Both of them did something wrong, and both husband and wife have the obligation to be loyal to each other. There is no prejudice that men can be forgiven for cheating, but women cannot be forgiven for cheating.
