Chapter Lin worked hard in his small town in his hometown for ten years. He finally made some progress from being poor and was profitable since the previous year. He saved some "small money" in the past two years, bought a house, a car, and got married, and his life became rich. Although Zhang Lin is very modest and low-key and never shows his wealth, his acquaintances often use "rich" to make jokes about him.
Chapter Lin's senior high school graduation class was the best class at that time, and a "college entrance examination class" composed of forty top students was selected from the county. Therefore, the college entrance examination achieved a great harvest that year, and most of the students were admitted to the first class. Zhang Lin fell seriously ill before the college entrance examination, but his progress could not keep up and became a "poor student". The class teacher organized the whole class to take turns to give him some lessons, but he eventually failed and was admitted to only one college.
After graduation, most of the classmates stayed in big cities to develop, and there were only five or six students who returned to their hometown to find jobs, and they were doing better than him. Because of his inferiority complex when he failed the exam, Zhang Lin was not very proactive in contacting his classmates. Birds of a feather flock together, and after work, classmates naturally differentiated into several circles, almost all of whom have forgotten this "poor student".
The five or six classmates who went home to work were not very good at playing with Zhang Lin. Among them, three students were enrolled in the system and formed a small group and played a lot. They initially felt that they were one level higher than Zhang Lin and were unwilling to pay attention to Zhang Lin. Later, they found that Zhang Lin was successful in his career and was jealous of him, so they didn't call him Zhang Lin during the party.
This National Day holiday, there are many students coming back from other places. The class monitor organized a class reunion, and there were a large table full of more than a dozen people. Zhang Lin thanked his classmates from the bottom of his heart. He took turns to give him some lessons, which reflected a strong friendship between classmates. Zhang Lin quietly told the class leader that he wanted to pay the bill, which was considered to be thankful for his feelings for making lessons back then. The squad leader rejected Zhang Lin's kindness and implemented an AA system of 200 yuan per person. At the dinner, Zhang Lin always kept a modest and low-key, and toasted every student very sincerely. After three rounds of drinking, the three local students started to make excuses by taking advantage of the alcohol: Zhang Lin, now he is turning against the wind and becoming a local tycoon. You don’t want everyone to drink good wine and smoke good cigarettes! Don't forget, everyone helped you back then. The class monitor immediately wanted to stop the three classmates, but in the end, they just refused to give in.
Chapter Lin actually really wanted to make some contribution to the class reunion, so he said loudly: I am especially grateful to everyone for their help back then. I can’t repay it. It just so happened that this reunion will make me feel good. I will pay for all the consumption at this party, and everyone will gather together! The students applauded.
The three students ordered expensive white wine and cigarettes, added a few expensive "hard dishes", and continued to shout and yell. Zhang Lin had a habit of not drinking too much or coming back late. He felt that the time was almost over, so he quietly came out to check out the bill. Zhang Lin met an acquaintance at the door and went to their private room to have a few drinks.
Chapter Lin came to the bar and saw the bill, and found that he had an extra six or seven thousand yuan, which was inconsistent with the actual consumption. The waiter quickly explained: Just now, three people left in your private room. They all said they were your loyal friends. They took away two good cigarettes and said they had already agreed with you.
Chapter Lin was stunned for a moment. Although he was a little unhappy, he thought: it is not a loss to recognize their character with a few cigarettes. It is not worth calculating. If you don’t interact in the future, you will be fine. So, without saying a word, scan the code to pay. The class leader of
happened to come out to stop Zhang Lin from paying the bill, but insisted on implementing the AA system. After learning the truth, he was very angry and said: These three students should not be allowed to destroy the friendship between classmates. After saying that, he had to call the three classmates, but Zhang Lin stopped him: Today, the overall atmosphere of everyone's party is good, there is no need to let a few cigarettes destroy the overall atmosphere. Never tell the classmates about this, so as not to affect everyone's elegance.
The class monitor has since been respectful to Zhang Lin. No wonder he can still work hard from the bottom after encountering setbacks. It seems that successful people have their own underlying logic:
First, we are grateful and sincerely contribute to the class reunion.Successful people know how to be grateful and are willing to help those who have helped themselves. Therefore, energy is conserved and blessings will be gathered. More people are willing to help them and can dispatch more resources.
The second is to take the overall situation into consideration and not destroy the overall atmosphere. Successful people can understand the general and take care of the whole story. and sing songs. . Understand what is the most important thing at the moment. A small impatience will cause trouble. They will not affect the atmosphere of the team because of personal joys, sorrows, sorrows, and happiness. If they are wronged, they will find a corner to lick their wounds.
Third, it is broad-minded and does not care about villains' evil deeds. Successful people are not born, but are supported by suffering. They are good at identifying people, making close friends, distinguishing hypocrites from real villains, and being good at turning bad things into good things. The villain disgusted him, he would not care. Turning this behavior into a harvest. It is not worth tangling with flies when you recognize a person.
Fourth, you are detached from your mentality and will not be affected by negative events. Successful people have a strong heart, which does not mean that they have strong tolerance, but that they do not go to the heart, do not bear weight, and do not add to themselves. If you are unpleasant things, just take it as wind in your ears and will not leave a shadow in your heart. Concentrate your energy and do your own big things. This is the kingdom.
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