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Tian Wenwen has lived with her grandmother since she was a child, and her feelings for her grandmother are better than her parents. So after her grandmother passed away, she would rather be frozen alone in the old house than live in the new house she bought by her parents.
Now, due to the lack of capital turnover in business, Tian’s father came back to sell the old house. The key is that they made the decision behind Tian Wenwen’s back. They don’t know the significance of the old house to Tian Wenwen.
Tian Wenwen is a child who is extremely lacking in love. She has long been used to her parents' absences all year round. After losing her grandmother, only this old house can give her spiritual comfort and warmth, which is her inner home.
Tian Wenwen couldn't accept it when she accidentally ran into her parents selling her house.
After Tian Wenwen drove away the person who took over the house, calmed down for a moment and agreed to the matter of selling the house by her parents. After all, the property certificate was the father's name, and she had no right to stop it.
"You can sell it if you want to. From a legal perspective, the real estate certificate contains my father's name, and my father has the right to control this house. From a reasonable perspective, since you chose to hide it from me, you have no intention of taking into account my emotions."
"I know it's difficult for you, it's difficult to support me in a big city, it's difficult to send me to Wuhan to go to school, it's difficult to come back to see me once, it's difficult to do business, and it's even harder to do it under the epidemic, so you can sell it if you want to."
It's better to say that Tian Wenwen is calm and rational, and she's so sad. Her parents have never cared about her psychological feelings, and she shouldn't have hope.
This time, she was completely hurt by her parents.
Tian Wenwen's final request was very simple. Before selling the old house, she asked her to continue living here. After selling it, she notified her. The last sentence she said to her parents was:
"I am in my third year of high school, and my time is very tight, so please keep quiet and don't disturb my studies. Thank you."
"Thank you" means the distance between Tian Wenwen and her parents is getting farther and farther. The more relaxed Tian Wenwen acts, the more desperate he is to her parents.
In fact, this is not the first time. Whenever Tian Wenwen has hope of love for her parents, what happens later always disappoints and is sad.
. Senior year winter vacation
My parents took their sister to do business in Wuhan. Tian Wenwen could only see them during the Chinese New Year, so Tian Wenwen would clean the new house in advance, welcome her parents back, and look forward to the family reunion.
This time, during the winter vacation of the senior high school, the epidemic broke out. Tian’s father was trapped on the road due to a car breakdown, and then returned to Wuhan directly due to work problems. Tian’s mother took her youngest daughter home to quarantine, and she didn’t meet with Tian Wenwen during the Chinese New Year.
Poor Wenwen lives alone in a cold and wet old house. She has not seen her parents, has not had a reunion dinner, and has a fever. She can only seek the teacher's help.
After the mother and her sister were released from quarantine, Tian Wenwen was finally able to reunite with her family. What followed was the phone number of her father's diagnosis. Dad only told Tian Wenwen alone and did not let her tell her mother and sister.
You should know that keeping secrets alone is a very psychological burden. Tian Wenwen was worried about her father while hiding it from her mother. Later, after being discovered by her mother, she was scolded.
Tian’s mother kept saying everything she did was for her daughter. At that time, let Tian Wenwen take the entrance exam to a Wuhan school and the whole family would be together.
But she never cared about her daughter's grades once, and even said that she didn't want to put pressure on her, but in fact she didn't care enough!
. Suspecting early love
Tian Wenwen does not have the care and company of her parents. If she has so many close friends at school, it will be a kind of happiness.
Zhou Bowen is Tian Wenwen's opposite sex friend. He often helps each other. During online classes at home, he talks about his study situation and videos to do test papers together. It is a simple and beautiful friendship.
But after Tian’s mother discovered it, she suspected that Tian Wenwen was in love with Zhou Bowen, so she took advantage of her daughter’s inattention and peeked at the chat records on her phone.
Tian Wenwen was particularly angry after being violated by privacy. When she was arguing with her mother, her mother said with confidence:
"Yes, I watched it on purpose. I was worried that you will fall in love early. I want to check it out. I am your mother. Is there anything wrong?"
is good. It is natural for mothers to care about their children, and it is even more a kind of happiness for their children. But when the child grows up, they must have their own private space. If you are worried about your daughter’s fall in love early, you can talk to her to know her heart.
Tian’s mother was angry that Tian Wenwen’s diagnosis was a kind of distrust, so isn’t it also a kind of distrust when she checked her phone with her daughter on her back?
Tian’s mother said that Tian Wenwen was not close to them, she told her parents nothing, and she didn’t tell anyone if her family was thieves. That’s because Tian Wenwen was too independent, so she said this:
“When you were young, you didn’t have the ability to bring me with you, leaving my grandmother and I to depend on each other for life. I came back to see me like a charity a year, and now my grandmother is gone. How can I not be alone? My independence is independent, lonely, lonely."
The child has pain in his heart, and his parents have their own difficulties. Tian’s mother said that they are not able to bring Wenwen by his side, but Tian Wenwen not only has never complained, but is also very sensible and does not make them worry about study and life. Tian Wenwen has done a good job in
.
But when the parents' financial conditions improved, they gave birth to a second child, and the younger ones were with them, and the older ones got less love. Isn’t this an unfair thing to the general public?
Just like what Tian Wenwen said:
I am the way to ask for directions; I am the way to throw a brick to attract jade, I am the brick.
If you can be willful, no one will be sensible too early.
If you have a choice, Tian Wenwen also wants to be the second child who is born with candy, instead of being born in pain.
If the conditions are acceptable, parents also want to bring every child with them to provide the best life for their children.
Just, survival is easy, life is too difficult!
