It is easy to get a teacher of scriptures, but it is difficult to find a teacher of others.
In life, it is undoubtedly very lucky to meet an excellent life mentor.
The luckiest thing in life is this excellent life mentor, who is your own parents.
1, why do you need a mentor in life
In this world, most people find it difficult to reach the upper limit of their own destiny, or even far from reaching it.
So many people have been living a very unsatisfactory life because of this.
For example, a common reason for this situation is that many people have formed a more passive personality due to acquired influence, that is, they are used to being dominated and lack the willingness to dominate.
In other words, many people lack the sense of autonomy or the so-called sense of ownership. Even lacks the awareness to dominate one's own life, not to mention lacks the sense of kingship mentioned in the previous article.
Therefore, after entering society, even if you have the capital and ability to be a leader, you have no intention of this.
However, reproduction determines that people should strive to have more and greater territory. Therefore, those who do not want to be a leader and are unwilling to dominate others will inevitably be dominated by others and will find it difficult to obtain sufficient resources for survival and reproduction.
This will inevitably make it difficult for him to live a life that is difficult to stretch and live the wonderful life.
But if someone appropriately guides his or her desires, cultivates his or her character and strategies during his or her growth, teaches the importance of becoming a leader, and motivates him or her to be a master of life, etc., as we discussed in the article "Life should be King", then the life endings of these people who live very passively will be very different.
There are many similar life situations, and they exist in all aspects of life.
people came to this world in a daze and ignorant way, and often left in a daze before they could figure out what was going on in their lifetime.
Maybe some people will say, so what if you spend your life in a confused way?
But even if we are willing to endure all kinds of sufferings in life, it doesn’t matter, but what we often can’t bear is:
We usually leave our children and grandchildren in this world, and they will continue to be in this world because of our confusion, and suffer hardships due to ignorance.
However, destiny will inevitably make human beings reproduce, at least for a long time in the future: most people will have their own descendants.
is a human being, and everyone hopes that they can live well, and hope that their descendants can live better. This is human nature and is the result of human evolution.
Therefore, destiny makes us unable to live without understanding, nor can we always repeat the unnecessary sufferings of life generation after generation.
It is precisely because of this that people will continue to think about life, and let us see the emergence of many ancient sages and wise men in human history, as well as various life thoughts as brilliant as stars.
Since life cannot be started over, someone must be guided.
This means that life needs a guide, and this guide is best at the tutor level.
When we appreciate the stories of outstanding figures from ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, it is not difficult to find that they are more from famous families or scholarly families.
Of course, we will also find that there are still phenomena in the world where wealthy families have more defeated children and poor families have more outstanding scholars.
Why is this?
In fact, whether it is from a wealthy or a poor family, if you carefully appreciate it, the key is whether future generations can live clearly.
Because it is more wise or wise, people can transform from Bai Ding into a wealthy or famous family.
But the so-called successful people who rely on wisdom and lack wisdom often suffer more defeats; while those who can lead their descendants with wisdom will have more virtuous descendants.
Therefore, it is not difficult for us to understand that being able to lead by wisdom will make it easier for poor families to have more outstanding scholars - the experience of suffering will allow smart people to deeply understand the wisdom of life.
