There are many interesting legends and stories in Japan, and this story from "Kingluzi Daocheng Temple" is very attractive.
According to legend, there was a woman named Kiyomi in ancient Japan. She fell in love with An Zhen, a monk who went to Kumano to worship the Bodhisattva; but An Zhen was a monk, how could she be charmed by beauty? So he decisively rejected Qing Ji, but Qing Ji refused to give up. She chased her beloved An Zhen for thousands of miles and suffered a lot along the way. Finally, she finally chased An Zhen. However, Qing Ji was no longer like a human or a ghost at that time. An Zhen was so scared that she ran away. When she crossed a big river first, there was no ship. Qing Ji jumped directly into the river, and turned into a big snake and continued to catch up with the shore.
An Zhen fled all the way and fled to Daocheng Temple . The monks and masters could not deal with the snake, so they hid An Zhen in the clock. When Qing Ji chased her in, she soon found An Zhen hiding in the clock, and "hula" entangled the clock. But unfortunately, Zhong was too strong, Qing Ji had no choice but to give up, so she spontaneously ignited and burned herself, along with Zhong and An Zhen, who was hiding in the clock, into black charcoal. If you cannot live with your beloved, then you will die together.
"If you can't get it, you will be ruined". How terrible is this kind of woman, An Zhen is also unlucky. She was just attracted to her for nothing and lost her life.
people will not admit that they can’t get anything unless they are too desperate. The world has given him too much misfortune. He does not believe that he can get it, and he will not let others get it. It is very common in psychology to turn from love to hate.
possessiveness is a normal psychological phenomenon. Everyone has possessiveness, but excessive possessiveness will lead to many problems and even some extreme thoughts. In terms of emotions, having excessive possessiveness will not only make one feel uncomfortable, but will also make the other person feel depressed and bound.
This is individualism, self-centeredness. As long as it is what you want, you think it should be your own, and if you can't get it, you will destroy it. This is the perverted psychology caused by "extremism of individualism".
People like this are often depressed and selfish. They feel that what is his is his. No one wants it. They are manipulative and possessive. In his eyes, the lives of others are not as sensitive as theirs. The key is that such people are persistent, paranoid, and extreme. They must stay away from them when they encounter them. Because once you are entangled, it is difficult to get out. Whether it is making friends or falling in love, if the other person is such a person, you must not have a deep relationship with the other person.
