As the saying goes: There will be rain when the sky is mad, and there will be misfortune when the person is mad. Many people believe it, and many people don’t believe it. Whether you believe it or not, there are many such examples around us. Although it is not 100%, these things happening remind us at all times: be low-key and not too arrogant. Let me share with you a true story about me.
I don’t know if there is such a custom in other places. In rural areas, there are several houses in a row. When building houses or renovating old houses, everyone will discuss the height of the house with their neighbors. The row is the same. The first is to be neat and look good. More importantly, if someone’s house is tall, it gives people the feeling that it is deliberately superior to others and has the intention of stepping down on others. Therefore, for the sake of harmonious neighborhood relations, everyone will discuss it.
This happened in our hometown. There were three families in a row in the village. In the past, they were all old houses built by their parents, at the same height. Later, young people lived in it and thought the house was too old and too short, so they thought about renovating it. The middle household had to be renovated first, so they discussed the two households next to them and asked if the height of their house was renovated. If possible, the renovation would be done in this way in the future. Everyone was still the same height. The neighbors on both sides looked over and felt that it was OK, so they all agreed. In this way, the three families reached an agreement, and the middle household renovated the house according to the agreed height.
The family on the left has not had children for several years. The villagers are also gossiping behind their backs. He is also quite embarrassed to go to a crowded place. He feels inferior, and he is afraid that others will ask. A few years later, the wife of this family became pregnant. Everyone in the family was very happy. They served her with delicious food and drinks. They dared to stroll on the street and chat among the crowd.
Ten months pregnant, once gave birth, this daughter-in-law was very successful and gave birth to a big fat boy. Although the society now emphasizes equality between men and women, it is the same for boys and girls, but in the countryside, many people still have the same idea of boys and girls, especially the elderly. They feel uncomfortable without a grandson. They have the feeling of being superior to others and have confidence when they go out to speak, especially those who have been married for many years and don’t have children, and they are so happy that they can’t even mention the joy of having a big speaker and want to find a radio and radio in the village.
When this child was less than one year old, his family also wanted to renovate the house, so he told the neighbor of the middle house and asked someone to start construction. Because a few years ago, when the middle house was renovating, he discussed the height with him, so there was nothing else to discuss, and he just said that it might disturb others. But as the house was covered, something was wrong. The height of the neighbor's renovation was obviously higher than that of his own. The house was wondering if he had made a mistake in his work. The height of the house had been agreed on a long time ago, so he asked the worker, and the worker said that people asked us to do this, and it was impossible to make a mistake. This family in the middle of
also felt strange. The neighbors usually have a good relationship, so they shouldn't do this on purpose. Did they forget it? So I found the neighbor and asked, saying that I had already agreed on it. We will all renovate it at that time. Wouldn't you be so overwhelmed by me? Unexpectedly, the neighbor didn't even look at him and said, "Hmph, I want to be the same tall, but that little guy in my family doesn't want to."
I'm so sad, who is his little guy referring to? His son who is less than one year old. When the middle-aged family saw this attitude, it was intentional and could not be argued. People felt that they had a son, so the house had to be higher than yours, so they had to deliberately lower you. The neighbors in the middle were so angry, but they could not put down their own house and rebuild them. They could only swallow their anger. Although they were unwilling to accept it, there was nothing they could do. Because of this, the two families would no longer interact and stop talking when they met. It was a complete break.
, the family on the left has a son and a new house. It feels like he is a good person, and he even walks with wind. People in the village say that he is so angry that he doesn't know what his surname is.
Otherwise, there will be rain when the sky is crazy, and there will be disaster when people are crazy. Good times will not last long. As his son grows up, everyone finds an imagination that his son still can't stand when he is over one year old. Many children over one year old can walk and will stand for seven or eight months, but they can't stand at this station at home, and their legs are weak. At first, everyone thought they were spoiled and held them all day long. His family didn't feel anything, and they just carried them to show off all day long. Later, everyone found that they didn't look like this, and it wasn't like this if they lacked exercise.
Until the child is two years old, he still can't stand and can't speak. His family felt something was wrong. He went to the hospital for examination. He really didn't know if he didn't check it. He was shocked when he checked it. The result was cerebral palsy. The news was like a bolt from the blue, and the family was beaten away. Since then, he has never carried the child out to show off. He doesn't go out at home every day. The child's mother also serves him enough and doesn't want to care. There is no way. The child's grandmother takes care of him and does not eat, drink, defecate, and has to be served by others.
I met him once when I returned to my hometown the next year. In the summer, his grandmother pulled him out to get some breath, saying that he was not good at all over the house. He was a teenager and had to hold his grandmother when he moved. Seeing that his grandmother could not hold him anymore, his parents no longer cared about him and were completely taken care of by his grandmother. He had to feed him one by one when he had no words, but he had a bad temper and shouted if he was not happy. Alas, it was really a matter of the family’s lifelong thoughts.
Although the villagers also feel that the child is very pitiful, speaking more is that his family was too arrogant and arrogant when they gave birth to a son, and wanted to trample on their neighbors. Therefore, no matter when a person is, no matter how proud he is, he should not be so arrogant. No matter how happy he is, he should not be arrogant.
It will rain heavily on a day, and people will inevitably bring disaster. As the saying goes, "A gun is used to reveal his head, and a disaster is used to find arrogant people." If you are too arrogant and always show off too much, you will be targeted by trouble. If the heaven wants to die, he must first let him be crazy. Only by being a low-key person and maintaining humility can he leave a good reputation.
Be a person for a lifetime, be humble and low-key, treat others gently, and have a way out when encountering things and get good luck!
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