In the evening, my brother and sister suddenly called and said: "Brother, please come back and see what your brother did!
I can't live this life. What he did went too far. I said What's wrong , my brother and sister said: "I can't explain this in one sentence or two, please come back soon!"
Until after my father left, I thought that my family was quite peaceful, and my brothers and sisters were quite sensible, but suddenly something happened to me. I'm a little confused!
I I hurriedly drove over to my second brother's house. I knocked on the door and my sister-in-law opened the door. I walked in. My second brother was sitting on the stool, smoking, and there were more than ten cigarette butts thrown on the ground. 0 I asked my younger brother and sister what was going on?
My younger brother and sister said, first ask him what good thing he did? I then turned around and asked my second brother: "Why is this going on? How old are you to do this!"
Adi said angrily that I didn’t do anything.
I said, you didn't do anything, why? Please tell me why my brother and sister called me and said you did something wrong.
I asked again, and the second brother lit up another cigarette and ignored me.
I dragged my younger brother and sister to the west room and said, "Tell me first. Let's see what's going on." My younger brother and sister said, "He secretly bought a camera online and installed it in your niece's house without consulting me." , you said that the child is in adolescence and needs attention, but He doesn't even think about how old the child is! The child also needs his own space?
found out and he still didn't admit it. He didn't know how long it took to install it. He asked him to hand over the camera. He even hid it and said he didn't have it. Tell me what to do, brother.
Now the whole child has had a huge quarrel with him and won’t go to that room to sleep? He keeps yelling that he has no sense of privacy and no sense of security.
After hearing what my younger siblings said, I probably know the cause of this matter. What this second brother did is a bit too much. When children are older, they have their own space. Their own privacy, especially girls, must be respected as parents. It is really inappropriate for a child to do this.
As a parent taking care of children, especially girls, the father cannot do everything by himself, and the mother must be responsible for the management?
I blame the second brother, what you did is really unreasonable, please hand over the camera.
The second brother still wants to quibble, but I said this matter is not negotiable. Besides, it’s a girl. You pretend to be in a girl’s room. Even though it’s your own daughter, it’s not okay. The child has grown up in puberty. , and there is too much gender privacy. There are many places that do not require your control and are not convenient for you to control. Instead, they need to be taken care of by the mother. As a father, there is nothing wrong with you caring about and taking care of your children! But it must be done in a moderate manner, but your approach has seriously violated Personal privacy of children is not desirable and not allowed by law. While
was talking, the little sister heard the noise and came over again. After listening to my simple narrative, the little sister immediately pointed out loudly and scolded the second brother: "What did this and that do? Can this and this be done? If If your brother-in-law were to do this, I would immediately hit him with a rolling pin. Why would you admit your mistake? What? This matter must not be done, that is, the younger brother and sister indulge you and accommodate you.
My younger sister and I kept reprimanding the second brother. After half an hour, the second brother may feel that he has done this. The matter may have been over, so he timidly said: "I didn't realize that this matter was really serious. How should we deal with it?
I said hand over the camera to eliminate the hidden dangers for children, and directly explain to the children that the purpose of installing the camera is to pay better attention to you. The children can understand it, but it is a bit too much. Please forgive the children for making a mistake. Just dare to admit your mistakes. After all, wrong is wrong and right is right. You must set an example for your children in everything.
Finally, the second brother took out his hidden camera, lowered his head and said: "I don't mean any harm, it's just that the child has reached adolescence and is a bit rebellious at school. The last time the school held a parent-teacher conference, the head teacher said that the child was in school A bit of puppy love Like, maybe I have a boyfriend or something. Didn’t I install a camera out of a hurry? I just want to pay attention to what the child does in daily life. Who knows, but I have inadvertently violated the child’s privacy. In fact, there is nothing wrong with it. Malicious, I just wanted to pay attention to the child, but I didn't expect it to be serious.
I said that some things at home need to be communicated, instead of just saying that you have to deal with it in the way you think is right. Sometimes your good intentions can often lead to irreparable mistakes and even family discord. See Look at this What are you trying to do with good intentions? Oh, you made your children turn against each other, and your wife also had a cold war and quarrel with you. What did you do in the end?
The younger brother and sister said at this time: "You can't do this again. If you do it again, this is This can no longer be the case.
I laughed and said: "This time, he knew he was wrong after everything happened, so he still dares to do it next time. If there is another time, let's tie him up with a rope, whip him hard with a whip, interrogate him, and let him grow up." Long memory.
On the way home, I thought to myself: "My second brother did this. Although he is well-intentioned, he cares too much about his children. After all, children are older, especially girls, who already have their own privacy. Especially as a father, he always feels that caring about his children is natural. In fact, it is not the case. He overindulges. Excessive attention may have the opposite effect.
