The college entrance examination ended on June 8. The moment I saw my child walking out of the examination room, I filed for divorce with my wife who was waiting beside me. 1. In my marriage to Wang Yingxiao, I was indeed the one who climbed high.

The college entrance examination ended on June 8. The moment I saw my child walking out of the examination room, I filed for divorce with my wife who was waiting beside me.

1.

In my marriage with Wang Yingxiao, I was indeed the one who climbed the ladder.

Wang Yingxiao is 11 years younger than me and has no history of marriage; I am 11 years older than her, have been married for a while, and have a daughter who is studying for postgraduate studies abroad;

Wang Yingxiao belongs to the intellectual group, graduated from medical school, and further studied at Xiehe After that, I am now a deputy chief doctor in a public hospital; I only have a high school diploma, and with the help of the old man's relationship, I entered the newspaper office and took an editor's position;

Wang Yingxiao is only in his 40s now, and it is his career In the rising period, the future is bright; I have already lived a life of pension, and my career can be said to be in the sunset for me.

We are so different inside and out. I can find thousands of reasons why I fall in love with her; but why she falls in love with me, not only my friends, but also myself have always been puzzled.

And not only did she fall in love with me, she also agreed to marry me! A year later, we had our own baby!

I was so happy that I didn't have time to think too much. I just told myself to treat Wang Yingxiao well and take good care of our son.

2.

Unlike other families, after my son was born, I became the main caregiver.

Except for being unable to breastfeed, I have done almost all of my son’s affairs myself. During

's maternity leave, Wang Yingxiao would also help bathe and massage her son; after

's maternity leave, she began to return to work, and her son became my sole responsibility.

My parents are long gone; Wang Yingxiao’s parents live in the countryside and have never studied, and she doesn’t want her parents to help take care of their children. In addition, print media was replaced by the Internet and was declining day by day, and the business volume was greatly reduced. We discussed it and decided that I would temporarily take a back seat and take care of the children at home full-time.

Before the child was two years old, Wang Yingxiao spent very little time with her child;

When she went to work, the child had not yet gotten up; when she got off work, the child was already asleep; only on weekends, occasionally she could After spending a few hours together, they would be called away by a sudden phone call.

Sometimes she feels guilty and is reluctant to leave with her child in her arms: "Husband, how about I switch to a private hospital ?"

I don't need to answer this question. Because as long as he puts the child down, Wang Yingxiao's sanity will come back immediately.

My child also had several sudden illnesses when he was young.

Once, the child suddenly had a fever around 9 o'clock at night and cried for his mother. Wang Yingxiao had not returned home at that time, so I called her immediately.

Wang Yingxiao was in a meeting. He lowered his voice and asked me to take him to the hospital immediately. He would go after the meeting. Until I came back from the hospital with my child, Wang Yingxiao had not returned home.

After this experience, when my child felt uncomfortable, I would take her to the hospital alone unless she was at home. Wang Yingxiao may not even know that her child is sick.

We have also discussed many times how we should balance life and work.

Wang Yingxiao always said to me: "Husband, these few years are very critical to my career. I have to make a breakthrough. Otherwise, I may only be a little doctor for the rest of my life. So you have to pay more attention to the child." "

When the child was three years old, Wang Yingxiao joined many parenting groups, such as how to enlighten children and how to chicken babies , and compiled a collection of G information.

also used this as his experience and enrolled his children in three or four interest classes.

Of course, she is responsible for the theoretical planning, and I am responsible for running errands. I have to take the children between different interest classes according to her expectations.

So if you want to say she doesn't care, she doesn't. It's just that she was too busy, and her work took up all her energy and time, and she had no time to take care of her children.

3.

The most significant impact of the mother’s absence is that the child does not have the correct way to express emotions. After entering elementary school, this aspect is particularly obvious for children.

The college entrance examination ended on June 8. The moment I saw my child walking out of the examination room, I filed for divorce with my wife who was waiting beside me.

1.

In my marriage with Wang Yingxiao, I was indeed the one who climbed the ladder.

Wang Yingxiao is 11 years younger than me and has no history of marriage; I am 11 years older than her, have been married for a while, and have a daughter who is studying for postgraduate studies abroad;

Wang Yingxiao belongs to the intellectual group, graduated from medical school, and further studied at Xiehe After that, I am now a deputy chief doctor in a public hospital; I only have a high school diploma, and with the help of the old man's relationship, I entered the newspaper office and took an editor's position;

Wang Yingxiao is only in his 40s now, and it is his career In the rising period, the future is bright; I have already lived a life of pension, and my career can be said to be in the sunset for me.

We are so different inside and out. I can find thousands of reasons why I fall in love with her; but why she falls in love with me, not only my friends, but also myself have always been puzzled.

And not only did she fall in love with me, she also agreed to marry me! A year later, we had our own baby!

I was so happy that I didn't have time to think too much. I just told myself to treat Wang Yingxiao well and take good care of our son.

2.

Unlike other families, after my son was born, I became the main caregiver.

Except for being unable to breastfeed, I have done almost all of my son’s affairs myself. During

's maternity leave, Wang Yingxiao would also help bathe and massage her son; after

's maternity leave, she began to return to work, and her son became my sole responsibility.

My parents are long gone; Wang Yingxiao’s parents live in the countryside and have never studied, and she doesn’t want her parents to help take care of their children. In addition, print media was replaced by the Internet and was declining day by day, and the business volume was greatly reduced. We discussed it and decided that I would temporarily take a back seat and take care of the children at home full-time.

Before the child was two years old, Wang Yingxiao spent very little time with her child;

When she went to work, the child had not yet gotten up; when she got off work, the child was already asleep; only on weekends, occasionally she could After spending a few hours together, they would be called away by a sudden phone call.

Sometimes she feels guilty and is reluctant to leave with her child in her arms: "Husband, how about I switch to a private hospital ?"

I don't need to answer this question. Because as long as he puts the child down, Wang Yingxiao's sanity will come back immediately.

My child also had several sudden illnesses when he was young.

Once, the child suddenly had a fever around 9 o'clock at night and cried for his mother. Wang Yingxiao had not returned home at that time, so I called her immediately.

Wang Yingxiao was in a meeting. He lowered his voice and asked me to take him to the hospital immediately. He would go after the meeting. Until I came back from the hospital with my child, Wang Yingxiao had not returned home.

After this experience, when my child felt uncomfortable, I would take her to the hospital alone unless she was at home. Wang Yingxiao may not even know that her child is sick.

We have also discussed many times how we should balance life and work.

Wang Yingxiao always said to me: "Husband, these few years are very critical to my career. I have to make a breakthrough. Otherwise, I may only be a little doctor for the rest of my life. So you have to pay more attention to the child." "

When the child was three years old, Wang Yingxiao joined many parenting groups, such as how to enlighten children and how to chicken babies , and compiled a collection of G information.

also used this as his experience and enrolled his children in three or four interest classes.

Of course, she is responsible for the theoretical planning, and I am responsible for running errands. I have to take the children between different interest classes according to her expectations.

So if you want to say she doesn't care, she doesn't. It's just that she was too busy, and her work took up all her energy and time, and she had no time to take care of her children.

3.

The most significant impact of the mother’s absence is that the child does not have the correct way to express emotions. After entering elementary school, this aspect is particularly obvious for children.

's classmate accidentally bumped into him. He felt that the other person did it on purpose. Without saying a word, he punched the classmate.

was wronged at school and he didn't know how to express his emotions. He only knew how to use his hands. Make fists, roar with eyes wide open, or just kick doors, windows, tables and chairs.

I became a frequent visitor to the teacher’s office and was invited to the school at least ten times a semester.

But Wang Yingxiao doesn't know this, because she will not take the initiative to communicate with the teacher; after being absent for a long time, the child is unwilling to communicate with her; I may mention it, but her mind is not on the child's affairs at all. Not to mention education, I forgot all about it when I turned around.

I remember that one year the school held a parent-teacher conference. I had something to do, so I asked Wang Yingxiao to go.

She sat in the classroom of Class 1, Grade 2 all morning, listening to the Chinese teacher’s comments and then the math teacher’s comments, and took notes in a matter-of-fact manner. When

conveyed his opinions to his child after returning home, the two argued with each other for a long time before they realized something was wrong: the child was a third-grade student, and the classroom where the parent-teacher conference was held was on the fourth floor, not the second floor!

Wang Yingxiao’s parent-teacher meeting was a lonely one!

If Wang Yingxiao still worried occasionally when his children were in elementary school, after they entered middle school, Wang Yingxiao completely stopped worrying.

She is completely immersed in pursuing her career. She doesn’t know who her child’s class teacher is, what her child’s grades are, who her child’s good friends are, what problems she has encountered, or how her child’s three meals a day are provided. , and never came forward to deal with a matter about the child!

In her eyes, these are all trivial matters.

Sometimes when she looks at the child, she will suddenly say: "How come you have become an adult before you know it?"

In her eyes, the child grows up overnight; only I understand that from birth, By the age of 18, I had exhausted all my strength:

He was not in good health, so I took him swimming all year round, rain or shine;

He was picky about food, so I planted vegetables and raised them on the balcony. Chicken;

He doesn’t like to eat school meals. I cook three meals a day at home, then put them in thermal buckets and send them to school. There are vegetables, soups, shrimps and meat, and each meal is freshly fried. , there is absolutely no leftover;

He doesn’t know how to make friends, and sometimes uses violence to solve problems, so that no one wants to play with him. I took him door to door and apologized, and then begged the children to take him with me again next time. Play with him.

He had a fever and infusion . I held him in the hospital all night; he was not tall enough, so I took him to many hospitals, including traditional Chinese medicine and Western medicine, physical therapy and massage, various places and various methods. I heard others say the effect Not bad, I'll take him to try it.

Wang Yingxiao knew this, but he didn't find it difficult: "You specialize in taking care of your children at home, shouldn't you do these things?"

After hearing many similar answers from her, I finally chose to avoid talking about the relevant issues. question.

I just want to fulfill my responsibilities as a father.

4.

If our family has a widowed parenting style, how can my marriage not be a widowed marriage?

Wang Yingxiao’s battlefield is in the hospital, and my battlefield is at home.

I do all the housework at home, including washing and cooking.

When Wang Yingxiao came home, she enjoyed a life of clothes, food, and food. She sat on the sofa and refused to move, but would complain that I didn't do things well enough: "Husband, I'm too tired. Today's bowl You washed it. "

" Husband, why can't you wash your clothes? "

" Husband, I spilled the water. Please mop it up. "

Although my parents are gone, there are still many relatives and tedious things at home. interpersonal relationships.

Except for the first year of marriage, when Wang Yingxiao and I went back to see them, we never saw them again, let alone come out to deal with human relations between relatives and friends.

"You can handle these things yourself, I don't have time!"

"I spend time with your family every day, don't I have to go to work?"

She does have to go to work, but I am not completely idle.I have retired from the front line, but I still have to go to the newspaper office every week to deal with some things, and there are still meetings to be held.

In front of Wang Yingxiao’s career, relatives and friends are not worth mentioning, and our relationship as husband and wife is also on thin ice.

Maybe for her, many things are trivial and not worth spending time communicating with. She would rather spend her free time drinking coffee with her little sisters or working out. For me, hitting a wall once is enough. It is necessary to be boring in front of her again and again.

We gradually stopped communicating and no longer asked each other for welfare. Compared with a couple, she and I were more like partners raising children together.

I am dissatisfied with her and keep it in my heart; she is also dissatisfied with me and tells her friends.

"I have agreed with him that he will be in charge of the house and I will be the master of the house outside. After a few days of cooking and taking care of the children, he is being pretentious and complains about being tired every day!"

"Look at other people's husbands, inside and out. I'm not like my husband, who is always around the stove. "

Yes, as a queen, Wang Yingxiao hopes that I will be a househusband; in front of others, she hopes that I will be a domineering CEO who can make money and love her.

Where can there be so many things that have the best of both worlds?

五、

When his son took the college entrance examination this year, Wang Yingxiao took a day out of his busy schedule to cheer for his son outside the examination room.

htmlAt 5 pm on June 8, the last subject examination officially ended.

I saw my son running out from a distance.

When he was stopped by reporters, I turned around and said to Wang Yingxiao who was standing next to him: "Let's get a divorce!"

Divorce was a problem she had never thought about. From the look of shock on her face It’s possible to know; but I’ve been thinking about it for several years!

In my eighteen years of life, I have been widowed and raised my son alone. When my son needed her, when I needed her, we could not find her.

I know that she is also working hard and tired, but this is not the reason for her absence; more importantly, she turns a blind eye to my efforts!

If this is the case, why can't this family just be me and my children? With the same dedication, there is less worry and indifference. At least I feel comfortable in my heart.

Wang Yingxiao and I's divorce certificate came out a week ago.

After the divorce, my life was the same as before; but she had undergone earth-shaking changes, and the house was a mess.

Wang Yingxiao also called me several times, trying to start over.

I don't agree. I also want to live an unfettered, free, and arbitrary life, and I also want to be selfish for once.

After experiencing this widowed life, I no longer have any hope for marriage.

Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, you still need to learn to love yourself.

A marriage without intersection is actually more desperate and unfortunate than living alone.

If you encounter such a marriage, I advise you to get over it as soon as possible and don't waste all your enthusiasm on such a partner.

I have retired from the front line, but I still have to go to the newspaper office every week to deal with some things, and there are still meetings to be held.

In front of Wang Yingxiao’s career, relatives and friends are not worth mentioning, and our relationship as husband and wife is also on thin ice.

Maybe for her, many things are trivial and not worth spending time communicating with. She would rather spend her free time drinking coffee with her little sisters or working out. For me, hitting a wall once is enough. It is necessary to be boring in front of her again and again.

We gradually stopped communicating and no longer asked each other for welfare. Compared with a couple, she and I were more like partners raising children together.

I am dissatisfied with her and keep it in my heart; she is also dissatisfied with me and tells her friends.

"I have agreed with him that he will be in charge of the house and I will be the master of the house outside. After a few days of cooking and taking care of the children, he is being pretentious and complains about being tired every day!"

"Look at other people's husbands, inside and out. I'm not like my husband, who is always around the stove. "

Yes, as a queen, Wang Yingxiao hopes that I will be a househusband; in front of others, she hopes that I will be a domineering CEO who can make money and love her.

Where can there be so many things that have the best of both worlds?

五、

When his son took the college entrance examination this year, Wang Yingxiao took a day out of his busy schedule to cheer for his son outside the examination room.

htmlAt 5 pm on June 8, the last subject examination officially ended.

I saw my son running out from a distance.

When he was stopped by reporters, I turned around and said to Wang Yingxiao who was standing next to him: "Let's get a divorce!"

Divorce was a problem she had never thought about. From the look of shock on her face It’s possible to know; but I’ve been thinking about it for several years!

In my eighteen years of life, I have been widowed and raised my son alone. When my son needed her, when I needed her, we could not find her.

I know that she is also working hard and tired, but this is not the reason for her absence; more importantly, she turns a blind eye to my efforts!

If this is the case, why can't this family just be me and my children? With the same dedication, there is less worry and indifference. At least I feel comfortable in my heart.

Wang Yingxiao and I's divorce certificate came out a week ago.

After the divorce, my life was the same as before; but she had undergone earth-shaking changes, and the house was a mess.

Wang Yingxiao also called me several times, trying to start over.

I don't agree. I also want to live an unfettered, free, and arbitrary life, and I also want to be selfish for once.

After experiencing this widowed life, I no longer have any hope for marriage.

Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, you still need to learn to love yourself.

A marriage without intersection is actually more desperate and unfortunate than living alone.

If you encounter such a marriage, I advise you to get over it as soon as possible and don't waste all your enthusiasm on such a partner.