A centenarian, she murmured, "I'm so miserable and I don't have any relatives. It's better to be dead than alive."
The old lady in front of me is a hundred years old this year. She has very poor eyesight and poor hearing. She has three daughters and one son, who was adopted from a distant relative. Now one of the daughters has passed away, one is bedridden, and the youngest daughter comes to visit my mother every once in a while. My daughter-in-law doesn’t let her daughter eat. Every time her daughter comes to stay with me, and then goes back to her husband’s house without eating. .
Her son is now a grandfather, and he brings her three meals a day. The daughter-in-law is too busy raising her grandson to take care of her. Once she had a severe cough for several days, chest tightness and shortness of breath. Her son opened the door several times to see if she was still alive, then left without asking if she was thirsty or if she wanted to drink water. She said: Maybe my son would check to see if she was dead, and then walk away if she was not.
She also said that her pension and other things, which amounted to more than 200 yuan a month, were all in the hands of her son and daughter-in-law, and they did not give her any money to spend. She also asked about it, but they said that it had been stopped now.
Later she said that the last time she was sick, she was hospitalized for more than a month and spent a lot of money. It was all money given by her son and daughter-in-law. trouble. Her natal nephew only comes to visit her during the Chinese New Year, but he hasn’t come for a long time. He wants to go back to his natal family to visit, but he is too far away and cannot go back.
She said that I am a hundred years old, I am too miserable and have no relatives, I am too useless, and I would rather be dead than alive. Her eyes were full of disappointment, and then she said, you must not tell others, others will laugh at me.
Actually, the old lady looks good and speaks very clearly, which shows that her son and daughter-in-law are taking good care of her. Here are some suggestions: In fact, what the old man needs is for his son to take some time to chat with the old man, and the most important thing is to accompany him; when his daughter comes to see his mother, the son and his daughter-in-law can stay with their sisters for a meal, and they will not be so poor. Go; you may think that the elderly do not need to spend money to buy anything, so you feel that there is no need to give the elderly pocket money. In fact, pocket money can give the elderly a sense of security. If you give the elderly a little money every month, the elderly can spend their time happily. Limited life time. 
