I stood there and listened to her cries carefully, and I roughly understood that she was a particularly miserable woman. One person has two children at home and has to take care of a sick elderly person. He wakes up early and stays late every day. In addition to taking care of his family, he relies on his free delivery job to supplement his family income. When friends see this, do they also feel that this elder sister is too pitiful? Will they blame the customers and shouldn't give the elder sister a bad review?
However, I have a different opinion. First of all, I also sympathize with this eldest sister very much. The burden of life is on her, and she can easily break down emotionally because of trivial things. There is no such thing as easy in the adult world. But from the customer's perspective, is the eldest sister's work up to standard? If you're five minutes late, shouldn't you give a bad review? We cannot use the same standards to judge a person. Some customers may think it is nothing, so forget it. But some people have a very strong sense of time. You didn't deliver my food on time and delayed my time. Don't I have the right to give you a bad review?
Many people tend to fall into a misunderstanding, thinking that if someone has a particularly hard life and a miserable life experience, we should be more tolerant and generous to him. He deserves to be forgiven even when he didn't do his job well. In fact, this is a kind of moral kidnapping. Your pain and your faults have to be paid for by the kindness of others. This in itself is unfair. On the contrary, since our lives are hard, shouldn't we work harder and do our jobs better? Only in this way can you get more rewards and relieve the stress in life. Instead of bringing the pain in life into work, causing mistakes at work, being punished accordingly, and still blaming others.
In fact, like many people, I can understand the difficulty of being a delivery person. Every time I see takeaways hurriedly coming and going on the street, delivering takeaways regardless of rain or shine, I admire them from the bottom of my heart. If I order takeout myself, I will also say thank you to the delivery person when I receive it, or give them a bottle of water to drink. However, there are always some delivery people who make you speechless or even hateful. Have you ever seen some delivery people riding electric scooters on the street, even looking down at their phones while riding, not to mention running red lights? In the past two years, there should not be too many car accidents caused by delivery workers running red lights and riding too fast.
Two days ago, a fan left a message in the comment area saying that he was crippled by a delivery boy who ran a red light. The delivery boy only lost two thousand yuan and disappeared, but the fan's life was ruined. I was almost knocked over when I was crossing a traffic light with my child. If I hadn't escaped quickly, I would have ended up in the hospital. When I was still in shock, I saw that the delivery boy who almost bumped into me had already walked away, leaving only his back for me. With this kind of performance: he almost hit someone, and quickly ran away without even an apology. Who else would he be that wouldn't be angry?
So, what I want to say here is that life is not easy for many people. We can be kind and treat people around us who have difficult lives. But we cannot use our own pain to win the sympathy of others or kidnap the kindness of others. What we should do is work hard, make fewer mistakes, use our own strength to change the status quo, and gain recognition and respect. Friends, what do you think?
