Original illustrations/Miao Miao Xiawen/Gu Qinghan
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2pWhen it arrives, everyone in the office seems to have forgotten the time, sitting on their desks as if they were a mountain.
Zhou Tong packed his things anxiously, stretched his head to look at the manager's room, the manager stared at the computer without blinking.
If he does not go, the people below will not go. Everyone is harder than anyone's butt and can sit longer.
Zhou Tong couldn't afford it, she twisted on the stool like a sore butt for a few minutes, finally got up cruelly, and slipped out of the office like a thief with her head buried.
To leave a good impression on the leader, she can hardly think of trying to get a promotion and raise her salary. She has to rush back to her family to take care of her seriously ill mother, and then return to her home to serve her husband and children.
Zhou's mother can't be tired. If her condition gets worse once she is tired, no amount of salary increase will cover her medical expenses!
As she walked, she calculated that the vegetables she bought last time were almost finished, and she had to buy eggs and fruit.
When she arrived home with large and small bags, her body was covered with plastic bags, and the clothes on her back were wet with sweat.
After the door opened, I saw Zhou's mother sweeping the floor and Zhou's father was lying on the sofa watching TV.
She yelled before she could put down things, mom, put it down! I asked you to rest, turning your head back, high blood pressure and head pain!
Zhou's mother said weakly, hey, I really can't see it, the house is too dirty!
Zhou Tong walked over to turn off the TV and yelled at his dad, can you see it? A patient mopping the house and sweeping the floor, you lie down and enjoy! Go cooking!
Dad Zhou walked to the kitchen with a dark face, Mom Zhou said quickly, I'm going to cook the rice, and you just need to fry some green beans!
Zhou Tong was anxious after hearing this, telling you not to do this and that. Wouldn't you let dad cook it?
Zhou Ma said faintly, hey, watching him do things, she got angry. Yesterday she played peanut syrup asked him to put sugar and salt, and I died faster after eating his cooking!
Zhou Tong grabbed the broom,Zhou Ma lost the broom and took a rag, Zhou Tong snatched it.
Zhou's mother went to the sofa to fold clothes again, and the pile of clothes was put away there. Zhou Tong found out that her father was just sleeping on it and watching TV, and the clothes were crushed flat.
Zhou Tong angrily went over and picked up the clothes and threw them on another sofa, forcing Zhou's mother to sit down and rest.
Zhou Tong felt blood rushing up her head. If it weren't for her young age, her blood pressure would soar on the spot, and she would directly burst the watch.
Her mother and her dad are really biting lice-they met fate.
One is exhausted. He has sent little ghosts to wait outside, and he is still sacrificing himself to feed the blood-sucking bugs without any regrets.
One is that the oil bottle at home is too lazy to help, and it pretends to be more squeamish than the sick.
At this time, Zhou's mother leaned comfortably on the sofa and whispered that Zhou's father didn't wash her face or feet. She went to bed without washing her face or feet, taking off her clothes, panties and socks, and threw them on the floor. Hey, my life is really hard for me!
Zhou Tong cleaned up the house like a whirlwind, his sweaty back never dried up, listening to her complaints, negative emotions kept accumulating, but there was nowhere to go.
she said that Dad Zhou’s was not,In action, he used his life to protect his vices.
Zhou Tong could not help complaining, not all you are used to! If it weren't for you to be so good at him, why do I need to get off work at the earliest every day in full view?
Zhou's mother paused, sighed, and said, "He, he, is good except for being lazy!"
Zhou Tong looked at her with a mop. She wanted to say, Dad is so lazy, what is the difference with the disability who cannot take care of himself? The advantage of Tianda can't cover up this disadvantage!
But these are Zhou Tong's inner monologues, she can only be silent, her mother is very sick, and it is useless to say anything.
was thinking, Dad Zhou shouted in the kitchen, oh which one is salt and which one is MSG?
Zhou’s mother stood up and said I’m here, what did you do?
Zhou Tong pushed her on the sofa and sprinted to the kitchen.
Dad Zhou was bent over holding the Jiugongge plastic box and worried. Seeing her coming, he hurriedly moved his face closer to the box and said, "I am old and can't see clearly. Is this salt or MSG?"
Zhou Tong grabbed it,Say, you are not dazzled, you don't even know it!
Dad Zhou handed her the box like an amnesty, and he quit the kitchen in a swift manner. As soon as he arrived in the living room, he heard him moaning, his legs hurt! Ouch, the kitchen is as hot as a steamer!
Zhou's mother quickly let out the sofa and let him lie down.
Zhou Tong sighed and brought the rice out, but he couldn't eat a bite.
cleaned up again, and waited for them to finish their meal and wash the dishes before rushing to their house.
Every time she comes out of her natal her body has to fall apart, she has to do everything she sees and thinks about, otherwise she would rather herself Even if you're tired, Dad Zhou won't share it.
She did not eat a bite of rice or drink any water. She was walking wearily on the road when the phone rang.
was from the kindergarten teacher of daughter Xinxin. She felt so tight that it was past eight o'clock. What did the teacher call for?
She quickly picked up. The teacher asked, Xinxin mother, when will you come to pick up the child? Xinxin is about to fall asleep, and our school is about to close.
Zhou Tong said,I'll rush over right away.
She quickly stopped a taxi, got into the car and called the man Zhao Bo. As soon as the phone was connected, Zhou Tong heard the sound of sword fighting over there.
Zhou Tong roared, Zhao Bo, let you pick up your child three times a week. How many times do you say you forget on average every week? Is it important to play games or to children? !
finished talking and hung up the phone without waiting for Zhao Bo to speak.
In order to take care of his mother, Zhou Tong enrolled her daughter for all the extended classes in the kindergarten. The teachers all live in the school. After class, you can take another half an hour to pick up the baby.
When Zhou Tong arrived at school, her daughter was waiting for her eagerly behind the dark iron gate.
She thought that Zhao Bo, who had a guilty conscience, would rush to pick up her daughter out of guilt.
However, he didn't expect that he would not even bother to regret after dereliction of duty.
Zhou Tong had a stomachache, and the stove at home was still cold.She didn't want to go home either, and took her daughter to go to her cousin Zhou Xi's house in the neighbouring community.
Zhou Xi is one year younger than her. The two sisters grew up together, and their relationship is as good as that of a parent.
The cousin works in another place, and there is only Zhou Xi and his children at home. Therefore, every time Zhou Tong quarrels with Zhao Bo, he goes to Zhou Xi’s house to eat, drink, and stay.
Zhou Xi opened the door and saw that she was not surprised at all. Zhou Tong came in and told Zhao Bo that it was not.
Do you say that playing games is more important or your wife and children are more important? I'm so tired, he doesn't know to help me share the burden!
Zhou Xi said, of course the game is important!
Zhou Tong said, can games give him children? Can you do the housework for him? Can you wait for him to die? !
Zhou Xi said that games cannot give him children, do housework, and serve him. He still loves games so much, which shows that this is true love.
You don’t matter to him at all. He wouldn’t bother to care for you unless you were able to give birth to children, do housework, and serve him!
is your own effort to provide these additional values to increase your own importance,So who do you say is important?
Zhou Tong couldn't answer the question when she was asked. Her sister always speaks without mercy.
What do you think I should do?
divorced, what do these men do?
Zhou Tong said that people always persuade peace and not to persuade me to leave. Every time I quarrel with him, you always persuade me to divorce. How can you feel at ease? In addition to his love of playing games, he is still very good in other aspects!
Zhou Xi said, huh, you said last time that he is good except for laziness. Last time you said that he is good except for his bad temper. Last time you said that he is good in everything except selfishness. very good.
Then you say, besides being playful, bad-tempered, lazy, playing games and selfish, what else is good about him?
He treats me very well! Zhou Tong said slightly.
My father is good to mother! Xinxin was on the side with a voice of milk and milk to help.
How are you? Zhou Xi smiled and said, he is playful, always angry at you, delicious and lazy, doing housework all at you, playing games and playing games so that the kids don’t need to be beaten, and he doesn’t coax you.Are you willing to serve him as a cow?
Zhou Tong, wake up, I don’t have to divorce you, you have to change yourself if you don’t want to leave you, your mother is an example, you can see that she has worked her whole life, and even brought you up. What is she getting better?
Zhou Tong was discouraged and she had to admit that Zhou Xi was right.
When I was young, Dad Zhou at the dinner table often recalled the bitterness he had suffered when he was young. At that time, he was in the countryside, and he helped others move trees, and a tree was only a shame from the hill to the village. money.
He carried ten trees a day and got a dollar. He was very happy.
She still remembers that Dad Zhou cooked her a dish when she was a child. Putting meatballs into the hollowed bitter gourd was a rare delicacy in her childhood.
But slowly, he became lazier and lazier, and went home to live a life of getting his clothes out of his mouth to open his mouth, and later he had to wait for someone to bring him a bowl for dinner.
And her temper is getting more and more violent, and she beats her mother at every turn. If he was not so bad to her mother, she might not get such a serious illness. Now she is almost dead, and she has to wait for him!
But,Zhou Tong took a look at Zhou Xi's home and asked me to be like you and let the house be messy, I can't do it!
Zhou Xi said, huh, do you think it’s a good thing that you have a hygienic addiction? It’s a disease and you have to be cured!
My husband will be back tomorrow, I can clean up the house, but why don't I leave it to him?
He does not participate and never knows the hardships of women. When men get used to clothes and stretch out their hands, they start to become lazy, and more and more vices follow.
Why does Zhao Bo have more and more shortcomings? That's because you forgive him every time!
Zhou Xi's words made Zhou Tong stay up all night. She remembered that Zhao Bo had changed a lot during the years of marriage.
At first he did everything at home, but she always hated him to clean up the house, so she went all in.
He started to play the game with nothing to do, and she complained when he came back from the game. He was annoyed, and once beat her with his hands. Later, although he restrained his hands, he always yelled at her.
She was sad at first, but then she got used to it.
every time he yells and gets angry for a day or two,He bought some presents to coax her back, and she forgave him again.
I always think that there are children, so I won’t get a divorce because of this, right?
But with this development, Zhao Bo and her are just like her parents. He will become a parasite and live by sucking her blood!
Either divorce or change, but how to change? runaway? Where can she go, to her mother's house?
She is even more crazy. Not only does she have to serve the sick, but she also has to serve her giant baby dad who has arms and legs.
She really doesn't know how to crack it.
This day Zhou Tong went to school to pick up her daughter after get off work. There was only one child in the school.
She led her daughter to leave, the teacher stopped her from a distance, and came over nervously and took her daughter's hand, saying that the child and a boy in the group were grabbing something in the afternoon, and the boy suddenly stood up and took a chair. It hurt her elbow.
Zhou Tong opened her daughter's sleeve, with a big bruise on her elbow, she was heartbroken.
The teacher said that he has notified the other parent,I also gave the child a cold compress in the afternoon. Go home and observe it. If you feel it is necessary to go to the hospital, she will notify the other parent to come over tomorrow.
Although Zhou Tong is heartache, he is not an unreasonable person. It is normal for children to bump into each other, so he told his daughter that his classmates weren't intentional, right?
The daughter shook her head and said that he did it on purpose. He beats me every day.
The teacher was a bit embarrassed and said that the child was a little skinny and often had conflicts with classmates in the class. But Xinxin plays best with him and always loves to sit with him.
At this time, the daughter said gruffly, Mom, I forgive him, he is my good friend.
After leaving the kindergarten, Zhou Tong always feels uncomfortable in his heart. If the other party is really unintentional, will the teacher be so nervous?
She quietly asked a few of the parents she knew, and they all said that the child was very bearish, and many children in the class had been beaten by him, so Xinxin should not be with him!
Zhou Tong was shocked and asked the child carefully. Xinxin said that the classmate would beat her every day, but he was her best friend.
Zhou Tong asked, why do you want to be friends with him when he beats you?
Xinxin said,Because he treats me well. Zhou Tong asked, what is a good way?
Xinxin said that he often shared his toys and snacks with me, but he never shared them with others.
But he hit you!
Then dad beats you too, but dad beats you and buys you a gift. Don’t you also tell Aunt Zhou Xi that dad treats you well?
Zhou Tong's blood clotted instantly. She thinks that an innocuous one-off operation has left such an impression in the child's heart.
thought that Zhou's father used to beat and scold Zhou's mother, but Zhou's mother was still blind, unwilling to see his huge shortcomings, only willing to look at that little bit because of the guilt after bullying her. It's good to make up for it.
grew up under their influence, Zhou Tong is also used to Zhao Bo becoming a little bit selfish.
She took the initiative to find excuses to forgive him time and time again, allowing his laziness and selfishness to expand like cancer cells.
She is also selectively blind, desperately holding a magnifying glass to find evidence that he is good to her.
will her daughter be like her in the future,When encountering a bad man, even a domestic violence man, he is also selectively blind, thinking that it is love?
Zhou Tong thinks the more he gets scared.
Zhou Xi is right. Divorce or change!
Zhou Tong changed a job. To take care of her mother, she has always chosen a low-paying job close to her home.
Now she has changed to the best job she can do.
She took out the extra money she earned and hired a part-time worker to take care of her natal family every day.
She can't change her parents' marriage, but she wants to get rid of her cheap babysitter.
Time saved by not doing housework, Zhou Tong used to dress up. Washing the dishes and getting rid of rubbish let Zhao Bo go because he was afraid of staining his clothes.
She said that her new job requires more time and energy to manage and let him pick up more children.
and later she also used to work overtime to go shopping and dinner with her colleagues.Throwing everything about picking up the child to Zhao Bo.
Zhao Bo was also very uncomfortable at first because he delayed playing games. However, because of frequent missed appointments, my friends stopped calling him later.
He is still lazy, but he will clean up the house every two to five days. If he eats too much takeout, he loses his appetite, so he can’t cook himself.
Zhou Tong sees it with joy in her eyes, she is still a moonlight clan as before, and her life seems to have not changed dramatically, but she knows that something has changed.
She didn't have to retreat step by step to follow Zhao Bo, she quietly changed herself.
When she changes, the world will change accordingly.
What she has to do is to love herself a little bit more, and a little bit more, and treat yourself as a treasure first, so that you won’t be regarded as a grass-waste by others.
Only when you are full of love for yourself, you will not be greedy for the pitiful comfort given by others after taking advantage of you and oppressing you.
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